Gaining slowly

Thick2bbw:
Trust me, I want to gain and be big. But I want to do it slowly and enjoy the journey. So please any advice on my following plan:

Continue my normal meals just get an extra serving and drink a soda to every meal.

Every night before bed, ice cream chug.

Snack time that will be considered healthy in public: peanut butter (I usually will eat a few spoon fulls at work)

Make every fast food meal a large and go from having zero meals a week to at least 2 a week. (Will increase once I am bigger).

And lastly: stuffing on the weekends. I am loving stuffing myself to the point I cannot move. But it has to be on the weekend since it will be impossible to do it on the weekdays due to work.

Let me know what you guys think or if I should add anything else. Would love to gain at least 5 pounds a month. (Please don’t push for me to gain over 20 pounds a month).


If you value your ability to chew, nix the nightly ice cream chug. By all means, top off before you go to bed. But leave the ice cream thing as a sometimes treat.
2 months

Hello wanna ask me anything?

FatSubFeedee:
I've been a long time lurker on here but decided to create a new account so I could join the community, and I thought what would be better as a way to introduce myself than answering any questions people may have?
A little about myself, I'm 21 and weigh 340lbs and I'm 6 foot and I really like Transformers lol
If you've got any questions comment them and I'll try to answer them, have a good day and thanks for reading smiley

Munchies:
What is the answer to everything?

Enas:
I dont know! O.o


2 months

From virtual to reality: have you met online friends in person?

FeedMeCakex:
I've met several Feeders and FAs irl from FF, all from my hometown, including my current Feeder. This month marks 2 years we've been dating 🥰


I am a sucker for happy couples.
2 months

Hello wanna ask me anything?

FatSubFeedee:
Does it count as readin if I mute it and turn the subtitles on? lmao


No
2 months

Hello wanna ask me anything?

FatSubFeedee:
Oh ok yeah I haven't seen that yet but it's on my movie watchlist lol


... I was talking about the book ...

You know ...

Because you read books, not movies ...
2 months

From virtual to reality: have you met online friends in person?

Growing Rolls:
Hello everyone,

In a world where online interactions can bring so much joy and connection, I'm dreaming of experiencing some of this in real life. While we may be far apart, the friendships and experiences we share online are meaningful. Has anyone here had the opportunity to travel to meet someone they connected with online in person? A feeder meeting? feeder- weekend? Anything? If so, I’d love to hear about your experiences. What was it like to transition from virtual interactions to face-to-face meetings? Were there any surprises or insights you gained from this experience?


I met my current partner on FF. We have met face to face. Introduced him to the fam and everything. It felt seamless to me, but he was a bundle of nerves.
2 months

Hello wanna ask me anything?

FatSubFeedee:
I think it's gotta be atoms, cause they make up everything and if you took away every atom in an apple there wouldn't be an apple anymore


The answer is 42, beloved.

You should read Hitch Hiker's Guide to the Galaxy some time.
2 months

Hello wanna ask me anything?

FatSubFeedee:
I've been a long time lurker on here but decided to create a new account so I could join the community, and I thought what would be better as a way to introduce myself than answering any questions people may have?
A little about myself, I'm 21 and weigh 340lbs and I'm 6 foot and I really like Transformers lol
If you've got any questions comment them and I'll try to answer them, have a good day and thanks for reading smiley


What is the answer to everything?
2 months

Loving when people lose and regain

Ditzy:
I have gained and lost several times and each time I gained the weight back I got flabbier and fatter in places I was never that fat in the time before.

Glitter Jelly:
Like my lower back. I never had fat there before! That was the first sign I had gained a lot of weight but I didn't
want to believe it was true until I stepped on a scale and saw I had unknowingly gained 15 lbs in 5 months. I went through lots of stress in my life, a breakup last October, my dad passed in January, I moved in April, a friend of mine died a month ago. Now I'm terrified of getting on the scale again and see my weight has increased even more. I used to wear size 25 jeans a few months ago (they had quite a bit of stretch so they probably were closer to size 27) and the size 30 corduroy I bought in January are already tighter than I like to wear them at the waist and thighs. After years of weight-loss maintenance
(BMI ~ 22), it looks like I'm no exception to the diet don't work rule anymore. I just hope I don't get fatter than before I started loosing because I was already only 1 BMI point away from being morbidly obese...


I'm sorry for your losses, love
2 months

Back for being overweight...

Munchies:
Hello fellow human with body dysmorphia. You are not weird or bad for feeling how you are feeling. You are also not a failure for gaining either.

To be very clear, I am not telling you that you need to get over your emotions and embrace the fat life. I am also not saying you need to hunker down and lose everything you gained. But you are valid no matter your shape.

Are you seeing a therapist about this?

Glitter Jelly:
Yes, I think I might have body dysmorphia. It was never diagnosed but I relate to the experience.

I'm on sick leave and my employer has a program where you get to have 6 (actually 5 because the first appointment is only the therapist asking you questions so they can pinpoint the most pressing issues in your life right now).

Mine is going to help me accept my fat body more. I'm a long way to body positivity but if I can at least achieve body neutrality that would be a step in the right direction.

I know she wants me to become more active because it would help with my mood, but I can't help but hear "you need to get off your lazy ass you fat pig" when she says that. I've always associated exercise to weight loss.

She says she's not going to help me lose weight, that it's not the objective, but it's like I'm allergic to the words "try to be more active"!

The fact my bf keeps saying how beautiful I am, that his former gf were fatter than I am and that he would still have found me beautiful when I was at my highest weight (he's seen pictures) should help but I feel this will have to come from me.

He used to be much fatter himself and, like me, he has loose skin. At least loving his body has helped me realize loose skin isn't as ugly as I used to think otherwise I wouldn't love his body. And it's soft than normal skin, too... I love stroking his underarms and inner thighs.


Glad you have people like them in your life.

Something that helps me is looking at myself and finding something I like about myself every day.
2 months