Bigdaddyjack:
I find that being a death feedist is strange. If I find a bbw to feed it would be for feeder/feedee relationship. Feeding someone to death SCARES me.
JackSteven:
Death is not the point. The point is that death is the only limit.
Very interesting
4 years
Ditzy:
When I was really skinny in high school I was attracted to the fattest guys in school.
I usually had to ask them if they had a girlfriend or if they wanted to go out on a date.
Very seldom did they ask me out first.
What is crazy about this is that one I was more in shape no female spoke to me even as an athlete but once I got over three hundred pounds women who were way smaller than I came out of the woodwork.
5 years
glutton:
You're not alone. My family are very anti fat and consequently judgmental. It's not easy I know ((hugs))
This is the life of us Fatties. I remember reading a story years ago about how some fat folks had family members who did the same thing so they started going out to find like minded folks and this applies here. Sometimes you had to seek out those to build a family and let your own kin be who they are and love them from afar....
5 years
I went through the same thing about twelve years ago. I moved about four to six hours away and got me a place off to myself and I met an older female who taught me to experience the whole feeder experience and two years later I was at four hundred and my family tried to destroy my sense if self but when I got back; I had to own that I control how I feel about me and that is what matters. I had to be like the hell with my family and so I went out and only dealt with folks who were on the same page as I am on. I blocked my family off of Facebook and they could only call or text me. The truth is, the fat life will ostracize you from most people so you have to learn how to make friends who support you beyond the fat too because there are plenty of folks who will try to get off with just having that fat guy around. The hardest part is finding folks who get it like you get it...
5 years
becomingoverweight:
As someone who cares immensely about health, I find all this extremely disturbing. Not sure how you guys feel the pro of living this sexual fantasy outweighs death itself.
Bigdaddyjack:
I find that being a death feedist is strange. If I find a bbw to feed it would be for feeder/feedee relationship. Feeding someone to death SCARES me.
Yeah, the death aspect is a bit to psychopathological for me. I can see feeding someone or yourself to excess but to kill them is a bit too much....
5 years
OpenUp:The idea of death doesn't turn me on, no, but the idea of being rolled into the ER...put on oxygen, EKG pads slapped on my body, possibly defibrillated, while the thin nurses sneer at my body...now that's hot to me
Agreed. There is something about being mad fun of like that is hot.
5 years
markus202:
The sexual pleasure will totally be worth it. Social stigmas about you and your size can’t beat the pleasure..in fact- they can be very erotic and exciting one you get used to being an object of scrutiny in public. 😈
I agree with this totally. When I was younger, I would get self conscious and mad but when I got huge the scrutiny became a turn on because of the looks of amazement and disgust of how can a handsome guy have a hanging gut like I had. It was amazing....
5 years
I have always seen myself as a fat man even from my earliest memories and I was always self conscious but I always extremely athletic so I played American football and basketball but I always had in the back of my mind that being fat was going to be my outcome at some point. I was always worried about not being able to find a female who appreciated fat like I did but they are few and far between. I met an older woman who taught me the mindset it took to be fat and let things fall where they may and get fat for me and enjoy how my fat evolved and grew and that was when things fell into place. So many of us males are scared to get fat because we think there will be no women to want us but you have to get fat because you can't see your no other way other than being fat....
5 years
Marina:
Well, not everyone is in a feeder/feedee situation. Some guys will/have to get fat all on their own. ;-)
Aphrodita:
With 80% men and 20% women in the fat fetishism community, most of heterosexual men who want to get fat do it on their own (and for themselves / women in society, exhibitionism,, not for a partner.) Especially in countries where this community is nearly non existant and nearly all people would just be horrified if they knew.
In society, I would say that not all women react negatively to fat men. Some women (with my belly hanging out of my shirt, etc.) are obviously turned on.
This is spot on...
5 years
fatchance:
Yep, the point-of-no-return.
Give in to it
admit that you have passed it
give in to your fat beauty
accept your reality
feel the freedom
say it to yourself and us
say "I will never lose weight"
say "I will continue to get fatter"
say "it will make me more beautiful"
say "and, I want it"
That is when you have psychologically truly become fat
5 years
