Danerys:
im curious, going up cup sizes and what not, im at about 266lbs and a d cup currently. if i chose to start gaining, do the breasts balance out with body size?

Enas:
Excuse me for my curiosity, i just thought about this and it really feels like a puzle to me right now. There are a few things i don't know, mostly, do Male to Female trans people get breasts transplanted? (stupid question, but!)
If yes then the DNA that they carry, propably determines, alongside with other factors such as diet, their growth.
If what i said above is also stupid, (and they don't get transplanted breasts) then things are more interesting, for example your biological sex is determined by the genes, (i forgot how exactly this goes) but at some point the first effect are hormones. So what about breasts? What are the genes for that? It makes sense in a way for them to be from your biological father, but on the other hand it also makes sence as munchies said, in a different way that, that they might look like the women's of your family. I don't know, maybe I'm overthinkimg, propably because i dont know stuff but i just thought it's an interesting, uuhmmm, problem to solve! I hope this doesn't feel offensive in anyway to you, im curious about that topic 😂

Or maybe I'm completely wrong and it has to do with hormones you take / took on your transition?

HappyBigBelly:
It’s interesting how belly buttons evolve differently for people when they gain. Mine has actually become more shallow, as my visceral fat has kinda pushed the bottom of it upwards. Same for my wife. Hers graces a lovely 320-ish-pound figure, but indeed hers has been pushed up from the bottom. It hasn’t deepened like a lot of womens’ belly buttons do when their belly gets huge.

MottiF:
While my surgeon is worried, I in the other hand want to replace the bad fats with the good ones, so I hope someone here could help — what do I need to eat daily in order to maintain my gaining but also consume mostly the good fat, what do I need to eat? What is the recommended menu for the morning, afternoon and evening?

I might ask a dietitian but it may be a strange question…

Danerys:
im curious, going up cup sizes and what not, im at about 266lbs and a d cup currently. if i chose to start gaining, do the breasts balance out with body size?

Angy523:
I kinda need ideas to make him gain more. He doesn't have too much soda lately or so many snacks he used to 😒

Munchies:
Be patient. He hasn't been gaining long. He does need time to acclimate to his weight gain.

Also, does he still want to gain, or is he just content to exist?

Angy523:
Well, when we talked he told me that he's just to lazy to restrict himself from certain foods and he is aware this would make him gain. So basically, from this discussion I think he doesn't (and didn't) want to gain but at the same time he doesn't mind gaining.

On the other hand, whe he ckecked the scale and he saw the same weight he had last time, he went to eat. He has dessert cooked by his mom and he asked me to cook him another one. He is eating bigger portions or he has seconds. I'm sure he is aware that this behaviour will make him gain and I don't think this is just about "being too lazy". Idk, there are some mixed signals so I can't tell if he wants to gain or not

Bellyempire:
I am guessing this person is not willing to pay

ILuvChubbyChix:
If you're telling the truth, then I'm sorry to hear that because that's horrible. It was not my intent to belittle your situation, and I hope you can get out of somehow. You're absolutely right that I don't know your situation, or the circumstances that led to it. I was however, offering a perspective of what others may be thinking.

The broader point I was making is that trust is quite difficult to establish and it doesn't happen overnight, and I listed possible reasons why others may be slow to trust.

SeijiDarling:
I know it doesn't happen overnight but today I was having self ending thoughts so another comment saying I'm asking to much or that I'm not worth that much really doesn't help me.

Bellyempire:
This is a great conversation to have one that I have pondered on since I joined the feedersim community. Gaining and fat admiration for that matter no matter how we care to justify or frame it is a kink that has real health consequences.

Recently with this trend of weight loss surgery alot of former partners have had the surgery. While I will miss them having larger bodies I can`t discourage them because in my opinion it would be immoral. Even with the all that can go wrong with weight loss surgery and the side effects and the decreased life expectency the quality of life is better than that of an extremely obese person.

Overall if its between to consenting adults I have nothing to say about it. If they are into the kink and are willing to take that journey then more power to them.


I want to take the conversation further. I have noticed that many gainers or extremely obese people have experienced some sort of trauma. I have not done the research to support a claim that its more trauma than a skinnier person but i suspect there maybe a correlation. So I ask is it ethical to be an FA or a feeder if the person who is a larger or gaining weights weight gain is a result of trauma they have experienced?

Mattcy23:
I would love to fatten someone up with pregnancy and then just keep making them fatter who’s interested?

The***teen:
Yes i already can't go standing up, it's too buried in my fupa, and yes very hard to reach aswell😅

That's a very good idea about using the handicap toilets when availabe 👌
Yes I have encountered some toilet set that was way to low, such a struggle 😅

My biggest fear is honestly when I get so big that I end up breaking a toilet😅

Beni:
I broke a toilet seat once and since then I am always terrified to sit down on any toilet seat. Also it feels so bad. you just sit down and then hear a loud crack while dropping a bit lower.