Girlfriend thinks i just have an inflation fetish

ColossalSquid:
Hey so I’ve been dating my girlfriend for about 6 months now but we are long distance and have met up every 2 months or so and are moving to the same place in September. The last holiday we went on I was constantly buying her snacks and meals and asking if she had enough etc. She asked me a couple of weeks ago if I had an inflation fetish because I was always liking seeing her full and have said that I love her full belly. I admitted that I do and now she has started sending me pics and videos of herself rubbing her belly after a big meal. She brought up that I should feed her during sex which we will definitely do when I see her. Even last night we sexted about feeding her and getting her belly big and she was getting super into it. Right now she is skinny maybe 150lbs but doesn’t exercise and lovesss sweets. She has said though that she wouldn’t want to feed every night because she’ll gain weight but then says we will be eating so much together she’ll probably gain some. I think she only thinks that I like the inflation side and doesn’t know anything about the weight gain side. I wouldn’t want to force anything on her if she didn’t want to, just wondering should I bring it up before moving together or see how the feeding sessions go and see if weight gain comes from that anyway.


Just be honest with her. She seems at least open to the fantasy side of things. Even if she doesn't want to gain weight, y'all can make it work.

Also, I don't know what world you are living in, but 150 isn't skinny. Thick or chubby depending on the height, but far from skinny.
2 years

Heavy cream binge

Here is the link to the thread I mentioned previously that gives a more detailed explanation as to why heavy cream does what I do. You don't have to read the whole thing. Just the 3rd page will do.

fantasyfeeder.com/forum/posts
2 years

Heavy cream binge

Growinggut89:
My belly has gotten a lot softer along with my butt and thighs but I’ve somehow lost 6 lbs??


I mentioned this in another thread but heavy cream can be used for both weight loss and weight gain. There are two aspects when it comes to heavy cream weight loss: struggling to eat enough calories and struggling to absorb the calories you ate.

Heavy cream is very filling. If you drink it, it bloats you, and you feel fuller faster. So it's common to eat less and loss some weight. Heavy cream is also high in fat. If you drink enough of it, your intestines will not absorb your food as efficiently.

The fat you do have is probably a combination of subcutaneous fat and water retention.

Like Curveman mentioned, it is possible to have delayed weight gain on heavy cream, but that completely depends on the foods you eat and how much of them. Otherwise, you are just as apt to lose even more weight.

Honestly, you may be better off cooking with it instead of drinking it. You won't consume as much of it, but you'll also have a bunch of rich, high-calorie foods.
2 years

Fat people float?

Weetabix:
Fat (oil) floats on water.


It's true. Fat is less dense than water, so it floats. And the more fat you have, the less dense you are. So you can be 200 lbs heavier than someone else but have an easier time floating.
2 years

2 mass gainer scoops a day

Joss123:
Hey, thinking if it’s okay to get 3 scoops of mass gainer + 1 litter of milk + nuts (2,450 calories) a day all in shake plus my normal fattening diet to try to reach 5-6k calories everyday, have you guys tried it?

Munchies:
That is a lot of protien you're consuming. I assume you are having that on top of what you normally eat.

I'd only do this short-term. Too much protien long-term can mess up your kidneys.

Joss123:
That’d be 75 grams of protein (3 scoops) I lift weights so I normally need around 180 gramos per day🤔🤔 you still think it’s dangerous?


Nah, then that's fine. It's just that there are a lot of gainers on the site who eat a lot of protien and drink mass gainer on top of everything else. Then they proceed to do no exercise. Frankly, I assume you to be one of them. Apologies.
2 years

Dating profile nod

Coffee__Creamsicle:
I do know ways to discreetly say you like feedees but not how you want to gain. “I like people heavier than me who can eat more than me”


That's hardly discreet. If anything, it's rather blunt.
2 years

Dating profile nod

StoryEnjoyer:
Hey all figured I might poll the experts, have a dating profile on a popular dating site and was wondering if there was a way to subtly nod to the fact I am a willing feedee without outright just putting it in my profile and turning people off entirely. Any ideas on how to word it, or at least allude to it? I am sure being forthright is an answer, but I am very interested in finding love first.


There really isn't a way to subtly mention you have a kink. It gets even trickier with feedism because so many aspects of this kink are doing things people outside the kink normally do.

Remember, you are looking for a kinkster in a sea of non-feedists. It is best to get to know the person first , see it you click, and then see if they'd be open to feeding you. Anything else leads to disappointment.
2 years

2 mass gainer scoops a day

Joss123:
Hey, thinking if it’s okay to get 3 scoops of mass gainer + 1 litter of milk + nuts (2,450 calories) a day all in shake plus my normal fattening diet to try to reach 5-6k calories everyday, have you guys tried it?


That is a lot of protien you're consuming. I assume you are having that on top of what you normally eat.

I'd only do this short-term. Too much protien long-term can mess up your kidneys.
2 years

Skin feeling tight day 6 heavy cream

Greentrees8733:
Thank you so much for that explanation! It really helped!


2 years

Petite woman sleeping w/ chubby man - advice

Cicciolina:
Hi there all! Apologies if this isnt the right forum but I thought someone in the community might be able to share a little advice smiley

I have been sleeping with a colleague, who is a little older and deliciously chubby. We started out as friends (though I was attracted to him from the get-go). I have been chasing him for ages - inviting him over and cooking for him, asking him out for drinks after work, sending him nudes etc. He always shows me interest/flirts with me in person and sometimes suggests dates, but they never happen and he will never message me outside of work. I know he finds me (to quote) "super hot" and generally men have always seemed to be attracted to me. I also feel like I have always had a good read of men that I am intimate with. Given that we started out as friends, I know he likes me as a person. This may be arrogant/me overthinking it, but I am wondering whether he has doubts about my intentions and my feelings for him bc maybe he is less sure about his appearance. I say this because he has made disdainful comments about his weight, though I was quick to tell him that I loved his body. He has also said that he felt like at the beginning I was giving him mixed signals, partly because I am super independent and not one to jump into a relationship easily. I have given him space lately and just kept it friendshipy in the office. Today he said he wanted to "do me" next week, but thats it. Should I give up on the idea that he is just being cautious and needs reassurance? Should I just accept that this man is just not into me?


As a general rule of thumb, getting into a relationship with coworkers is a bad idea. I've worked in HR before, so I have seen some things.

You guys are already sleeping together. You might want more, but does he? This sounds like it's going to be super messy. Do you really want to go forward with this? If so, you two need to have an adult conversation about your expectations in the relationship and see if this will work.
2 years