Bbwsrhot:
As im not a gainer, more a FA. Im curoius to know how you manage to eat past being full to gain more or increase the capacity you can eat? How do you get past the pain / discomfort?
Edit ive seen some eat until extreme pain or vomiting. Is this just by choice as they have a goal in sight or can there be a fine line between full and way too full resulting vomit or excessive pain?

Bbwsrhot:
Sounds a good day, cant go wrong with a buffet unless you wear the wrong outfit

Miachu:
Now where's the fun in not wearing a lovely tight dress to5a buffet? haha

Bbwsrhot:
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Looks great but possibly restricts the number of plate fulls?

Admirer54321:
Welcome to the site! Hope you find what your looking for here. Id be unable to take my eyes off of you and your enormous belly if I saw you out! Hehe but for different reasons than most people! 🥵

I'd love to chat and especially tease and encourage your health ruining habits!

Angy523:
I kinda need ideas to make him gain more. He doesn't have too much soda lately or so many snacks he used to 😒

Enas:
Munchies and Junkie explain it very well! To give an other point of view, i kind of consider myself to be a death feedee. But what exactly are my fantasies? Well, i dont wanna die! That's for sure! But i wanna get really fat! Too fat to live. Death is a cost but because it's in the way, it also emphasizes how eager i am to fatten up. And to what extend. Being pushed into something I don't want is, in this very case, something that turns me on. Because it emphasizes how out of control i am. So my favorite fantasy is to be fattened up to death, without consent, by a strong feeder girl who will apsolutely dominate me. I don't know if i want her, to want to kill me, or just fatten me up to that extent, but in the fantasy i want to be helpless, and being pushed into such extreme fatness that i die. But to be celar, again, i dont want to die i only want to get sooo fat!
What are the ethics behind that?
What are ethics in the first place?
Lucky me has studied it in highschool's phylosophy! 😂
So, a thing is ethically right when it makes more good than bad. So is killing a person good or bad? Well if you know everything in advance you can decide pretty easily! Keep that in mind.
So back to my fantasy and a hypothetical experiment. If me and my feeder girl consent in advance that we're gonna live our fantasy 24/7, and there will be a safeword to stop, what will happen? I want to be forced to be extremely addicted to her. And she'll know that. She can abuse it so that i won't ever say the safeword. But that's something that i want! So, is it okay?
Well... I dont know. It does interfere with communication wich is apsolutely vital in this kind of things. But in the other hand, it's exactly what i crave, because it means that she could fatten me up in a more dominant way.
The importand thing here, is that I'm safe. If she does all of this rationally and she somehow knows that it's what i want, then yeah. It's propably ethical with me. But it's almost impossible for her to know that, since it'll require the fantasy to stop. And that's the point. As an unexperienced feedee, it turns me on more to be in a dangerous situation. That's speaking trouble most likely. What's far more realistic tho is that this stays a fantasy!
Back at the ethical part. Is it okay for someone to do that to me? If I want it trully, then yes. But what I want changes. What happens if i stop wanting it? It'll be a nightmare! Then that means it whould be unethical. But what if that person manipulates me in a way that'll keep me wanting it? Is this ethical, does it do more good than harm? Well, i think it does. So long as I'm going to apsolutely enjoy it in every point of the way, And most importantly im trully okay with what's happening, at the start of it, (because after that my feeder could theoretically make sure to keep it that way, artificially, something im also gonna have to be rationally okay with at the beginning) then, i guess it's ethical!
But that's not to encourage death feederism! It might be ironic but i don't think it's a good idea in general!
Im just saying the above to show how hard it is to have that type of feeder, or be one. Remember the feeder is also a human being and may be carried away from their fetish, corrupted, or they could be acting nice until the feedee has no way out of this. These things happen. Way more often than they don't. This is why it's dangerous.
Other than that i dont even gain at all, because i prefer irl than a fetish right now. But with the right girl? Yes, I'd go all in!
Does that clear things more than it makes a mess btw? 😂

Munchies:
Do you have any safe foods? If not, stuffing may not be right for you. Is it the quantity of what you eat?

Kissasta:
Unfortunately I don't know what safe foods I have. Maybe cooked greens? I'm starting to think low and slow might be a safe bet over outright gorging 😣

Munchies:
What kinds of foods are you eating? Certain foods are harder on sensitive stomachs than others.

Kissasta:
Basically everything honestly, junk food, salads, healthy or not, always been a gamble.

Biglunch:
Is it just me, or should we not be encouraging people who are 700 pounds to get to 900 pounds if it’s actively killing them?

I get loving chubby round bellies because I do too. But there is has to be some kind of limit… we shouldn’t encourage people to kill themselves…

And there is a certain point where there is no round curvy figure anymore… it’s just lard that pools around the person like a giant puddle completely removing any recognizable human corporeal visage.

Encouraging someone to end their lives in that way just seems immoral to me…

You can’t control what you like, but you can refrain from encouraging people to die for you to get your rocks off.

Kissasta:
Sometimes I just get into a mood to absolutely pig out and stuff myself, but more and more recently find that my history having a rather easy to upset stomach leading to tapping out earlier due to nausia or the like rather than actual capacity.
Anyone have any advice or recommendations to make the process easier?

AskDrFeeder:
For those of you who've gained more than you planned:

What happened?

What was your start weight, target weight and what do you weigh now?

Did you reach your target weight and decide that it wasn't enough and set a new target?

Or did you reach your target weight and find that you were unable to stop? If so, were you eventually able to stop or are you still gaining?

Have you ever regretted gaining in the first place?

Chunkman594:
I had a bad relationship in college that had originally only wanted me to overeat just so she could feel better about her weight. I never had a target, I did start at 180 and throughout that relationship I may have gained like 20 pounds just because she was afraid of being bigger than me.

That being said, I started to like the eating and gaining I was getting after it was over. I didn't plan much other than maybe 50 pounds but then I absolutely blew past that to now around 320lbs.

I do kind of regret the gaining in the beginning because it wasn't something I was interested in, now it kind of feels uncontrollable and I'm not 100% on board wanting to keep going now.