Fattening boyfriend

Angy523:
Do I have any reasons to think my bf is eating more than he tells me?

Lately he told me he wants to eat less unhealthy food because he was eating too much chips and junk food. So he stopped eating chips (or at least he told me so a few times but he was still buying them...anyway, I didn't see him eating too much of them). Also, he started skipping meals or he was just a little and calling that a meal.

Considering all this, I expected to see him losing weight, but yesterday I realised that his belly looks bigger (he said this too so it shouldn't be just in my mind).

Now...my only explanation is that he is eating more than I know. Is there any other possibility?


It's possible you're right. However crash diets and restrictive eating can, ironically, make people gain weight.

When your body no longer knows when to expect food, it lowers your metabolism. This leads to weight gain.
2 years

Feedist thruple

Morbidly A Beast:
I get that it’s kink and bondage but like forcing someone to get fat without consent is messed up. Also if a man was with 2 females… I doubt he would be down to be “given away” to “evil gays” yucky taste in my mouth sorry for ruining the fun


I don't think you are ruining anything.

There's something ... unsettling about leaning into the predatory homosexual stereotype. And not just the hypothetical gay men. Spekbil also expects Celiamarie, a woman who isn't heterosexual, to be abusive too.

Not a good look.
2 years

Feedist thruple

Spekbil 123:
It’s a suggestion if you have to replace him.
But give him a chance. Your discipline will probably do the job.


Replace him? Subs are people, not used tissues, man.
2 years

Feedist thruple

Spekbil 123:
I should not put too much effort in it. After all Piggy takes a lot of time and effort. I am sure you take care of him, but if he isn't up for the job after you disciplined him, just fatten him up and sell him to some really evil gay feeders.


Maybe not for real as that's human trafficking.
2 years

Eating your own weight in food

Bassbum60:
I want to eat my own weight in food over the course of like 3 or 4 days is that even possible, I'm 100kg ish so itd be like 25kg a day of food is it possible?


25 kg equals about 55 lbs for my fellow freedom unit lovers.

Short answer is not likely.

For context, I once saw a video of an SSBBW do an all day stuffing. She ate about 11 lbs (about 5 kg) and was painfully stuffed by the end of it

This is, of course, assuming you can afford to get that much food. That's enough to feed a small army.
2 years

Teaching normies to be feedees

AskDrFeeder:
I'm not talking about just introducing someone to a new thing, I'm talking about the case where you introduce them to a new thing and they get into it. If you don't want to call that "teaching", fine by me but your term doesn't quite work either.


That's basic English, but you do you, boo.
2 years

Teaching normies to be feedees

AskDrFeeder:
I've heard this story many times. A person has no interest in feedism but is persuaded to try it by their feeder. They gain some and by their partner's reaction realize how erotic feedism can be. It starts to turn them on, and before you know it they appreciate gaining on its own merits. They'll want to continue even if they break up with their partner.

Has this happened to you? Can you add any details? (I've heard of this happening many times but no one seems to be able to describe it very well. )

Munchies:
Why feedees and not feedists?

I digress.


Good question, but I'd rather do one question at a time!

Munchies:
Can't teach someone to participate in a kink they don't want to participate in.


AskDrFeeder:
I think that's usually true, but it does happen sometimes. They'll try it and find they like it. Maybe you don't want to call that "teaching" but it's a thing.


It's not teaching. That is introducing someone to a new thing.

For example, I didn't get into BDSM until a partner introduced it to me. He didn't teach me a thing. I figured out what I did and didn't like while he supported me through my discovery.

There were things he liked that were no-goes for me. Meanwhile, there were things that I enjoyed that he was largely ambivalent about.

Circling back to the original topic, there are numerous ways to be a feedee. As such, you can't be taught. You can explore it. You can go on a journey. But it's something you have to figure out for yourself.
2 years

Writing tips - a thread

STORY CRAFTING - PART II

I love crafting settings - it's my favorite thing behind character creations. When written well, the setting anchors the characters and shapes the narrative. There's no such thing as a lousy setting - just bad execution.

I think there are two main challenges to writing settings effectively: telling instead of showing and struggling to keep up with the details.


I've included some links with tips on effective worldbuilding as well as some helpful tools:

inkarnate.com/
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inkarnate.com/
2 years

Eat butter

Softy90:
Can my stomach withstand 1 kg of butter, 250 grams of powdered sugar and cocoa mixed together or does it make me sick?

Heterosexualmalegainer:
You'll have to try is and see what happens. Everyone absorbs nutrients differently.

Happy gaining!


Hun, this is basically a chocolate-flavored laxative. There's nothing to bind the oil. Nothing to aid absorption. In fact, the sugar will make it worse than just the butter and cocoa alone. It will go straight through them.
2 years

Handling upset stomach

Finickyfeedee:
I feel very frustrated because I want to start gaining again, but every time I eat even a little more than normal, I have been getting horribly sick to my stomach and unable to eat much of anything the next day - sometimes without even hitting my calorie maintenance requirement on the day I was trying to stuff because I get sick. This has always been a little bit of a problem for me but usually not so severe, and now it’s become unmanageable. I don’t have any specific food intolerances that could be causing it but I do have IBS, and what’s especially been triggering it is fat or protein - even in very small amounts, like a couple slices of lunch meat or a glass of milk, which has made it not only difficult to gain but also extremely difficult to keep a balanced diet or even live my life since I’m always sick in the bathroom. Has anyone else struggled with this? What did you do to make it stop? The only thing that seems to help calm my stomach down temporarily is heavily restricting how much I eat down to almost starvation levels, and that not only makes gaining impossible but is also extremely unhealthy and risks causing me a relapse in my eating disorder, so I wish I had a different solution.

Munchies:
Have you sought medical attention?

Finickyfeedee:
Yeah, I have - 4 different doctors, actually, over a period of several years. Every time they’ve done a bunch of tests, not found anything, and then said something along the lines of “I don’t know, I guess it’s just IBS.” It’s flaring up worse than usual recently, but it’s been an ongoing issue for most of my life and even this level of flareup isn’t unprecedented.


Even if it is just IBS, couldn't get to get help managing the symptoms.
2 years