Ky Belly Boy:
My cute fat teenage (18) nephew is staying over a few days. And asked for me to get him a few boxes of Swiss cake rolls. That re-awoke the desire to get me three family size boxes of Twinkies and eat as many as I can.

Reflection Of Perfection:
Up until my older cousin passed away, I went to his barbershop for decades to get my hair cut.

Today I walk into a local place and much to my delight there was a short, waddling bbw to cut my hair. I didn't say or do anything out of line, I just quietly enjoyed the experience. I know Muffinmaid did a video about this kind of thing once but experiencing it for real was enjoyable.

Anyone else have a larger barber or have had that experience?

Biglunch:
Do not try this, you can die.

LuvsChub04:
Really?Was with someone who would munch on sticks of butter, long as its not to cold no issue

Frogman:
My father practiced psychology/psychiatry/psychoanalysis for about 50 years, and my sister currently practices psychology. I also studied a little psychology, so that’s my background for offering the following simple and hopefully not-too-painfully-obvious observation: many people get into psychology as a way of working out their own issues. It’s possible these women followed that path because they’re prone to issues relating to food and eating, etc… or not. Too many other potential factors to draw any conclusions with certainty.

Sburbsiee:
That’s my plan!!!! Honestly fit yet thick people make me envious.

Sburbsiee:
So I’m finally indulging my fetish fully (plus medication side effects not giving me a choice when it comes to gaining). I want to keep doing fencing as I gain. Even if I become less effective over time. Is this a valid option?

Munchies:
Is there something to it? Maybe. Do you know enough to draw any meaningful conclusions? No.

Curiousv:
As we're not the only two people on this site, I was wondering maybe there are others who can share their experiences and thoughts on the topic.

Munchies:
Three large women is too small of sample size to do anything with.

Sure, the three biggest women you know are psychologists, but how many psychologists in your area are big women? Not enough data points to say these women are anything but outliers.

Curiousv:
I also know the basics of Bayesian statistics

But as I haven't conducted a scientific study on a statistically significant level, and don't have the means to do so, this is all the data I have.

An indicator of significance is that I haven't gotten to know them as psychologists. I got to know them randomly, and only later did I discover their profession. Taking in consideration that women of this size are quite rare in my area, it might be at least a little more than pure random chance.

Curiousv:
In my area there are many slightly chubby women, but there aren't many really big ones. However, I had to notice that the two fattest women in town I've ever seen (big enough to have difficulty walking too far) are both psychologists by trade. And I know of a third psychologist woman, who is also quite big for local standards.

Is that a coincidence? Or is there something in a psychologist's trade that makes them more likely to gain a lot of weight? Sedentary work alone is not the case, because there are many many office jobs around.

Karenjenk:
OR
keep it unsaid.
that sounds like it would be at least if not more exciting that putting it all out there

Munchies:
All secrets come out in the end. It is better to be upfront so you can resolve any complications or misunderstands than saying nothing only for it to swing in like a wrecking ball.

And besides, why would you want a relationship where no one can be honest and everyone keeps secrets? That's not healthy.

CuppaJoe:
/\ This is the best advice. Keeping a secret is exhausting, and eventually erodes trust.

Karenjenk:
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Ok so....
" i think she knows that i like her chubby body."

Sheesh. Just throwing it out there. Sometimes the mystic or edge of unknown can be fun.
kind of like the dance we do when we think/know that we like some one more than a friend.
That undercurrent of excitement of whats to come... or whats suspected to come.
I'm not saying never tell and to ruin her...
just play it a little

Munchies:
Yeah, but to what end? They are already at that stage. A little bit of mystery and intrigue can be fun. But that's only at the beginning. After a while, it gets toxic.

Besides, telling her about this is only the start of things to come. It's not an end to the excitement.

Karenjenk:
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I didnt say let it get toxic.
and
depending on the people, the beginning can be a long time.

I agree. its not an end to the excitement.
who are you trying to convince?
ha ha

Munchies:
Don't mind me. I am simply a person who grew up in a toxic and abusive household and learned all the things not to do in a relationship.

Karenjenk:
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in that case...
i am truly sorry.
i've been in a family situation that was toxic and unhealthy.
I didnt mean to use or abuse.
-there are those of us who truly do enjoy a man or partner if you will, who is strong and dominant.

I hope you are ok