Feeding

Kelly B:
Looking for a feeder that has tips on gaining and can also help get to 400lbs in 4 months


Hey. Domme feeder here who enjoys the more extreme side of things.

I noticed that you are about 330 lbs, and you are a nurse as per your profile. You are asking for help gaining 70 lbs in 4 months. That is 17.5 lbs a month and about 4 lbs every week.

While this is doable, it is an expensive and grueling feat. You would need to push your body to the breaking point nearly every day while burning as few calories as possible.

I don't know what field of medicine your in, but your job performance *will* take a hit. So you may be risking your employment as well.

It would be better to slow down bit. Let your body adjust to the weight gain. 20 lbs buy the end of the year is a lot safer in terms of maintaining employment.
2 years

My girlfriend is the perfect feedee but she doesn´t know it

Karenjenk:
OR
keep it unsaid.
that sounds like it would be at least if not more exciting that putting it all out there

Munchies:
All secrets come out in the end. It is better to be upfront so you can resolve any complications or misunderstands than saying nothing only for it to swing in like a wrecking ball.

And besides, why would you want a relationship where no one can be honest and everyone keeps secrets? That's not healthy.

CuppaJoe:
/\ This is the best advice. Keeping a secret is exhausting, and eventually erodes trust.

Karenjenk:
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Ok so....
" i think she knows that i like her chubby body."

Sheesh. Just throwing it out there. Sometimes the mystic or edge of unknown can be fun.
kind of like the dance we do when we think/know that we like some one more than a friend.
That undercurrent of excitement of whats to come... or whats suspected to come.
I'm not saying never tell and to ruin her...
just play it a little

Munchies:
Yeah, but to what end? They are already at that stage. A little bit of mystery and intrigue can be fun. But that's only at the beginning. After a while, it gets toxic.

Besides, telling her about this is only the start of things to come. It's not an end to the excitement.

Karenjenk:
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I didnt say let it get toxic.
and
depending on the people, the beginning can be a long time.

I agree. its not an end to the excitement.
who are you trying to convince?
ha ha


Don't mind me. I am simply a person who grew up in a toxic and abusive household and learned all the things not to do in a relationship.
2 years

Fantsyes about men not being able your owne penis and balls.

Michaelh:
Is there anyone fantasizing about a man not able to touch his penis or balls due to there fat.


I am actively trying to get my feedee to this point.

It's going well.
2 years

How should i eat it?

FoodAddictF:


I usually eat the frosting first and the the cupcake.
2 years

Speeding up gaining?

Cookiekit:
I’ve been around a few blocks when it comes to weight, but honestly eating as much high calorie foods as you can with a couple high calorie shakes throughout the day works. I made a little post earlier about how I gained 11lbs in a week which has ideas for that.

Fatmanrocker:
How did you gain 11pounds in a week?!? What did you eat?


It is 100% possible, but you *really* gotta push yourself. I mean high calorie constant stuffing. You gotta love feeling fit to burst all day every day to pull it off.
2 years

Unpublished stories being viewed

SofiBrown:
Does anyone know how I'm getting views and likes on partial stories which I haven't published? I'm writing a few short stories for spooktober and some people seem to read incomplete drafts before I've published (and I can't see them appearing in the stories section)

Munchies:
When I click on your profile, the story shows up.

SofiBrown:
How many? Lol there should be two visible and a third not.

I posted Fairy Shoes this morning as final, but had been in draft for a day or two before that and had got about 60 views and a like from someone, before I published it. I hope that makes sense. I assumed they were invisible to everyone under draft. But I might be wrong


At this time, I only see two stories. If I see anything else, I will let you know.
2 years

Unpublished stories being viewed

SofiBrown:
Does anyone know how I'm getting views and likes on partial stories which I haven't published? I'm writing a few short stories for spooktober and some people seem to read incomplete drafts before I've published (and I can't see them appearing in the stories section)


When I click on your profile, the story shows up.
2 years

Gaining as a feeder

Munchies:
If you don't like it, you gotta get your butt in gear and get into shape. Plain and simple. Otherwise, you *will* keep getting fatter.

If you don't get in shape, you will need to make your peace with your size. I am curious. If you know how to get in shape, why aren't you.

Angy523:
Well, yes, I know how to, but it isn't easy. I got too fat and I got used to indulge I guess. Every time I say I'll start losing weight, it comes a moment when I want a snack or something I shouldn't eat and I end up telling myself that one meal/snack/bite won't hurt (which is true, one won't hurt...but when they add, it isn't just one). Sometimes I end up stuffed by just telling myself "I'll have just one bite". Also, my boyfriend habits won't help...he feeds me with a lot of unhealthy snacks, he orders fast food etc.

When I did sport (I mean competing) it was easy to lose weight because I knew I had to be a certain weight and I always had a "deadline", now I always can start tomorrow...I guess this is the usual problem people have.


Then stop doing it solo and get some support. If you are struggling, find someone who can hold you accountable.

And you should also talk to your bf about your concerns. Couple's diet habits normally rub off on each other. And unless you taker precations, you are going to be as fat as him - maybe fatter.
2 years

Bras for men

Need4abra:
Hi
A question for the females: I have recently gained a lot of weight due to a knee injury a year ago. It is nice (for an insecure person) to have a great excuse for being fat and lazy, but I have always been fat and lazy, so I doubt I would have been any thinner, if I didn't had the knee injury.

I am (and have always been) very insecure about my body, which is why it had saddened me a great deal that most of my new weight has went to my butt and (especially) my chest area. I have grown a big set of man tits. The problem is that people have begun to notice, but even more so that they are beginning to hurt when I am not sitting still. I would like some support for them, so I am considering buying a couple of bras. The problem is my insecurity. I don't know if it would be an instantly turn off for women.
So I guess my question is: would a woman date a fat man with moons so big that he is forced to wear a bra?

Kind regards the big insecure man


This is a kink of mine. I often tell my feeder that I'm going to make his already juicy tits bigger than mine. Such a turn on.

For you, you may benefit from a compression vest over a bra depending on how big your tits are.
2 years

Doctor's orders!

Wifestuffer:
So my big fat bride went to the hospital for a checkup, and the doctor told her...

That she's not eating enough and needs to keep better fed!

She's clinically hyper morbid obese, and her doctor just told her to cultivate a heftier appetite and put more food in that already bouncing, hanging belly of hers! Is she trying to fatten up my wife?

I know she'll take the advice to heart, because she barely needs any encouragement to eat everything she sees. If she keeps up and eats any more than she already does though, she may need help just waddling into the doctor's office by the time of her next checkup!

Not that I mind, or she for that matter...


It is more likely that the doctor said she's malnurished than she needs to eat more. These two things are very different.
2 years