Sqms rip

Weetabix:
Many of you who have been on the scene since the 1990's may remember my wife SQMS or SqueezeMeSuze. She had a page on my Feeder site for a few years and had many followers.

Sadly she passed away last week peacefully in the local Hospice. She was still a big gal when she went and her weight was not a factor.

She was fit and strong in 2015 when she injured her leg. Unfortunately we have a failing medical system in England and they kept misdiagnosing the problem which was an infection in the joint.

To cut a long story short it led to two botched hip replacements and being bed bound. Then in January this year she developed stage 4 cancer throughout her body which is what killed her.

She achieved two important things in her last few months, had the surgeon struck off and got me to marry her.

I will miss her forever.


I'm so sorry for your loss. May you find comfort in this difficult time.
2 years

How do get a mid-way pot belly?

Ditzy:
There is no one magic food that makes yo gain different kinds of fat.
If you gain weight there is know way to know where the fat will accumulate.
That is up to your body and your genetics.
If you are going for a high beer belly start drinking a lot of beer.
Of course that creates more possible health problem not to mention legal problems if you get caught driving under the influence.


You know how it is. Newbies want to have a specific body shape, but it's pretty much out of their hands.
2 years

How do get a mid-way pot belly?

Jackds:
Hi there!

I want to have a huge pot belly which is somewhat squishy. Does anyone have any diet recommendations?

Munchies:
Don't have a lot of control over that. Hard pot bellies are a sign of visceral fat (fat around the organs) and squishy bellies are a sign of subcutaneous fat (fat under the skin). Everyone has some ratio of these types of fat naturally, but your control over what kind of fat you gain is limited. And it gets trickier when you are trying to get the specific mixture you're trying to get.

The way you gain is influenced by your diet, but your hormones and genetics makes a stronger impact. That said, if you get fat enough, you'll probably have some level of squish - even it it's a belly hang.

Jackds:
What is the best way to gain a decent amount of visceral fat then?


Understand that visceral is the least healthy kind of fat. As I said before, it's fat around your organs. Everyone has some, but too much can smother your internals. In fact, this kind of fat can lead to the most health complications.

Assuming your body tends towards visceral fat over subcutaneous fat, you might not be able to gain as much as you like without complications.

That said, here is an article that discusses the causes of belly fat in more detail:

www.healthline.com/nutrition/12-causes-of-belly-fat-gain
2 years

Why are fa's so closeted?

2seatsalways:
Any FA or FFA that is closeted deserve 0% respect. If you are that concern what others think of you being with a bigger girl, f off.

Raboot The Admirer:
I don't like this take. It's not that easy for everyone to just don't care about other people's opinion.
It can be hard for many to stop hiding their attraction to bodytypes so generally criticized. As long as the person is not hypocritically throwing comments about how fat people suck to mask their true feelings, I have empathy for a "closeted" FA.

2seatsalways:
This has plagued not just our community but also helped set a negative mind set for many people. I stand by this. "Empathy" should be for people who have a date lined up but plans get changed to staying in doors. Why? Because their date secretly doesn't want to be seen out with them!
Those people deserve empathy not closeted fas.


I agree. It's one thing not to be public about your fetishes. That's your own business. But if you are so small minded that you can't treat your partner with the respect they deserve, then you are trash and shouldn't be in a relationship with anyone.

Fat people are people that happen to be fat. If you are too ashamed, then you are the problem.
2 years

How do get a mid-way pot belly?

Jackds:
Hi there!

I want to have a huge pot belly which is somewhat squishy. Does anyone have any diet recommendations?


Don't have a lot of control over that. Hard pot bellies are a sign of visceral fat (fat around the organs) and squishy bellies are a sign of subcutaneous fat (fat under the skin). Everyone has some ratio of these types of fat naturally, but your control over what kind of fat you gain is limited. And it gets trickier when you are trying to get the specific mixture you're trying to get.

The way you gain is influenced by your diet, but your hormones and genetics makes a stronger impact. That said, if you get fat enough, you'll probably have some level of squish - even it it's a belly hang.
2 years

Favorite sushi?

Ilikesushi:
I just can't get sushi off the brain. What's your guy's favorite kind of sushi? Have any specific roll you like?


Spicy salmon maki roll with ginger sauce
2 years

The fattening game

2seatsalways:
Fit to Fat to Fit was so degrading. Like these trainers obviously wanted that dramatic shock value too. Lived it up for television by mocking their clients.

Think only a fattening game could work as an independent game. Mainstream companies won't take that on. We kind of got this with Fat Princess... 😳


The fatphobia was so strong. And then there were the trainers that, after going through all of that, just doubled down on their fatphobia. They were all "Well, if I can do it after being fat for a few months, you can lose weight you baby."

Weight gain games are always a weird spot for me. I've played a number of them over the years. A lot of misogyny in most titles. But some of them were pretty good.
2 years

The fattening game

Peldanique:
I'm sure I will see it on tv. No medical selection before the program.

Not the biggest loser with personal trainers an diëtist but become fattest with feeders to help you grow as much. Great idea. Try Netflix 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Think the won't do but you never know. If they can earn money the do everything

Munchies:
No TV exec worth their salt will forgo something so important. It would be the stupidest thing they can do.

People have food allergies, diabetes, high blood pressure, auto-immune disorders, or a number of other things the show would have to keep in mind. And if they aren't disqualified, they'd have to at least make reasonable accommodations.

For example, if someone has a peanut allergy, the show would make sure they don't come into contact with such an allergy. If that person has seizures, then they would have to make sure that person has access to care and minimize their exposure to triggers.

If someone dies in their care because they couldn't be bothered to do basic due diligence, they would get sued into oblivion and/or no one would work with them again. And you have the added issue of further demonizing our fetish in the mainstream.

Morbidly A Beast:
The fit to fat to fit show seemed to go on without hitch I wonder how many wavers the participants had to sign…


That show made me so mad. The way they handled everything left a bad taste in my mouth. And follow-ups show the trainers were really messed up after everything health wise.
2 years

The fattening game

Peldanique:
I'm sure I will see it on tv. No medical selection before the program.

Not the biggest loser with personal trainers an diëtist but become fattest with feeders to help you grow as much. Great idea. Try Netflix 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Think the won't do but you never know. If they can earn money the do everything


No TV exec worth their salt will forgo something so important. It would be the stupidest thing they can do.

People have food allergies, diabetes, high blood pressure, auto-immune disorders, or a number of other things the show would have to keep in mind. And if they aren't disqualified, they'd have to at least make reasonable accommodations.

For example, if someone has a peanut allergy, the show would make sure they don't come into contact with such an allergy. If that person has seizures, then they would have to make sure that person has access to care and minimize their exposure to triggers.

If someone dies in their care because they couldn't be bothered to do basic due diligence, they would get sued into oblivion and/or no one would work with them again. And you have the added issue of further demonizing our fetish in the mainstream.
2 years

The fattening game

Munchies:
Not sure that will work for island survival as one tends to lose weight in those situations.

Fatrnfatr:
Overall, a dessert island has little in common with a desert island.


2 years