PolyPinoyPuppy:
There's something incredibly delightful about a consensual power exchange; knowing that I have earned someone's trust to the extent required to feed and even overfeeding them is thrilling.

Another thing I love which I've mostly only explored in RP (but got a taste of last weekend when my partner called themselves a glutton) is when the person I'm feeding acts greedy. One day I want to hear someone say, "Feed me more," after becoming too full to reach for food themselves.

Feedmethicker:
I have mixed feelings about having this fetish. One part of me loves it, I think being able to love and appreciate bigger bodies (whether my own or someone else's) is a great thing. However, I also feel a bit anxious and somewhat shameful about it. I know feedism isn't the weirdest thing out there but it's definitely not something I'd want other people knowing.

I've started gaining myself after being in denial for years and I'm still kinda on the fence about it. I do have a history of eating disorders, so naturally weight gain is a little daunting to me. My eating disorders were deeply rooted in childhood trauma (most notably sexual abuse) so I have an internal fear of looking more 'curvy' and 'feminine'. Also, I find that much of my identity is attached to being tall and slender, I was always praised for it, many were jealous of me, so it's hard to give that up. I'm also worried the fat I gain will not distrubute on my body the way I want it to, I don't wanna 'ruin' my body for it to not look the way I want (I'm a worry-wart, I know).

I don't wish to get rid of my feedism fetish, however, I wish I only liked other fat people instead of having a desire to make myself bigger.

2seatsalways:
Looking for solutions on how to have my partner still be able to gain, as healthy as possible, while pre-diabetic. If this brings her A1C down that's even better.
I know it's doable, but looking for anyone who has been in this scenario before and have anything that worked for them.

Greentrees8733:
My first thought is that—since pre-diabetes is reversible—maybe just wait until treatment is done?

TacticalMilk:
Had a silly argument discussing this with a friend but i wanted an outside opinion

PolyPinoyPuppy:
I made the mistake of searching for posts mentioning "feeder" in r/relationships. People are not kind to that which they don't understand or have heard only horror stories of.

Now I want to hear about your favorite parts about being in a relationship or going in a date with someone who shares (or accepts) your kink, from fictional tropes to real-life experiences!

For me, one thing that stood out during my recent first experience stuffing someone was seeing their contented smile as I hand-fed them. Spoiling my partner and feeling responsible for their pleasure and contentment was euphoric in a way I've been yearning for for quite a while.

Anonq11:
I am a fan of double bellies, as many people are. I have seen lots of ladies with double bellies, but very few men with them.

Curious about whether there a reason for this, e.g. if certain people are genetically pre-disposed to developing them?

Munchies:
You gotta try pleasuring your feedees as they stuff their faces. Really ups the game.

PrimitiveDesires:
I would LOVE to incorporate shibari with a feeding while pleasuring. Watching their belly dig tighter into the ropes as they get fuller.

PrimitiveDesires:
While I have never pleasured a Feedee while stuffing, I am in the habit of doing so post stuffing. Watching them spend the entire day or afternoon packing away meal after meal, maxing out their stomach. Then reward them in whatever fashion they desire.

Jasmine Honey:
what’s the point in the block option when it doesn’t even work? 🥲

PolyPinoyPuppy:
Update:

We had a lot of fun! We watched their favorite show and ate a ton of sushi, ramen, and Korean food through the weekend. I'm very glad they're comfortable with me playing with their belly. We ended up sleeping a ton--being comfy and full is a great recipe to end up asleep.

I hope I get the chance to feed them again someday, but for now we're both starting our healthy diets and exercise so our doctors get off our backs. They were open to the idea of doing this every once in a while--a cheat day taken to the extreme--so I'm looking forward to that possibility in the future!