Weight gain powder and appetite stimulant recs for fattening my ex jock friend

GrowingExJocks:
He actually is trying to gain weight right now cause he lifts and works out and needs to bulk up more to lift heavier weights, he just doesn't know about me having this kink and that I'd be making food specifically to help him gain weight.


Then talk to him directly about his options and don't ask these questions on a kink forum.

It's disgusting that you'd post his picture on here without his consent.
2 years

Weight gain powder and appetite stimulant recs for fattening my ex jock friend

GrowingExJocks:
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I need some help fattening up our ex jock college friend who's been fattening up lately. He looks like this rn.

Do any of you have any tips for weight gain powder and appetite stimulants? Our ex jock friend that I've been hanging out with eats a lot whenever he's over, and he likes it when I bake. So I am thinking of making some brownies and putting in some weight gain powder and possibly some appetite stimulants so he eats a lot while we watch a movie or hang out at the beach.

Do any of you have any recipe tips? Or if I can bake with weight gain powder or appetite enhancers without them losing their efficacy when they are heated up in the oven?

Also am I able to grind up pills for the stimulants and put a couple in the batter before I bake along with the weight gain powder or should I put them in the icing after it's been baked?

MuscleMeds Feast Mode Appetite Stimulant

BOOST Original Balanced Nutritional Powder Drink Mix

Evlution Nutrition Stacked Protein Gainer

Naturade All-Natural Weight Gain Instant Nutrition Drink Mix

Muscletech Pro Series Mass Gainer, Chocolate Fudge Brownie


This sounds like secret feeding, which is a crime.
2 years

Fat city?

RadiactiveChocoMilk:
Can you imagine a city dedicated only to fat people? and those skinny people slowly fattened by the environment of this same

Munchies:
Maybe not necessarily a city as that implies some really messed up governmental shenanigans. But I like the idea of a haven of safe space for fat people because that implies more agency.

RadiactiveChocoMilk:
Seeing as things are, it's not crazy to think that one day a city will be totally fat.


Except that it ignores reality. Let's not forget that people come in all different shapes and sizes for a variety of reasons.

As things are now, obesity rates will go up, but everyone won't be fat. Plus, this framing takes away people's agency.

To be clear, I'm not against having a city of fat people or a city being more fat-friendly. That sounds like fun. But this framing takes what could be a lovely thing and takes the agency from it.

Instead of a situation where people who want to be fat(ter) or a safe space for fat people to exist, it frames it as if people do not have a choice but to get fat. And in my opinion, that takes all the joy out of things.
2 years

Fat city?

RadiactiveChocoMilk:
Can you imagine a city dedicated only to fat people? and those skinny people slowly fattened by the environment of this same


Maybe not necessarily a city as that implies some really messed up governmental shenanigans. But I like the idea of a haven of safe space for fat people because that implies more agency.
2 years

Bf struggling with insecurity more than expected

Munchies:

I am a feeder and FA. My partner and I are into extreme feeding and weight gain. However, we are not into immobility or health issues. So I told him from the jump that whenever he decided to lose weight, I'd support him 100%.

That time came late last year. He came to me and asked how I'd feel if he lost some weight. He was terrified that I'd lose my attraction to him or that I'd leave him.

Conti

I get why he was scared. There are unfortunately a lot of feeders that leave their feedees once they decide to lose weight and get healthy. Sadly, this kink breeds a lot of shallowness and selfishness even when both parties don't mean to be.

However, when my partner said he wanted to gain weight, it wasn't a big deal for me. I went into things knowing that one day he'd want to lose the weight. So I'd decided that I would find other reasons to be attracted to him.

I also made an effort to enjoy sex with him outside of feedism even when he was actively gaining. We'd indulge our other kinks or just focus on enjoying each other.

There are also ways to enjoy feedism without gaining weight. I stuff him occasionally or fantasize with him about being 700 lbs.

My partner is still losing weight. He wants to get in shape and maybe even get muscular. He's happy with his choices, and I'm still extremely attracted to him. Yes, our dynamic has changed but that means we get to rediscover ourselves. I'm excited to see what he is going to achieve.
2 years

Bf struggling with insecurity more than expected

Biffa:
Hi guys... I'm trying to vent and get my thoughts in order, but if anybody's gone through something similar maybe you can provide some advice. I feel kinda lost right now.

When I first told my bf about this kink, he was really supportive and eager to try things. Though I reassured him he didn't have to gain for me, I was overjoyed when, after thinking it over for a few weeks, he told me he wouldn't mind me feeding him when we're able to spend more time in person (we're in an LDR so go long periods apart) and he was open to putting on a bit of weight. For reference, he started out quite thin, around 130lbs and 6ft when we started dating.

He did not intentionally try to gain, but over the course of a year, only part of which that I was there to encourage him, he's gained a decent amount. My best estimate is that he's somewhere around 160-170 now. He isn't what I would consider "chubby"; he still has a fairly slim silhouette. It's not super noticeable, but if you're looking for it you can tell he's a bit heavier.

Of course, I'm happy with him softer. I was attracted to him when our relationship began, but this has been... really nice.
Over the past months, I've noticed him making the occasional insecure comment about his body. I always do my best to reassure him I think he's the hottest guy ever. I know even people who actively want to gain have moments of uncertainty; our society's messages of fat hatred are strong. So all things considered, I thought he was holding up well.

But today he opened up to me about something. Apparently he's been struggling with it more than I thought. So much to the point that he said if he gets any bigger, he wants to start losing. He says that although he thought he'd be indifferent to being a bit heavier, he's taking it harder than he thought. He feels ugly.

Obviously it's his body and his choice 100%, and the first thing I did was make it clear I'll support whatever he wants to do. But, not to sound overdramatic, my heart broke a little when he told me these things. I knew he didn't want to gain a huge amount, but I didn't think we were anywhere close to done. I know logically this is silly and it shouldn't matter that much. I was attracted to him before, and besides, tons of peoples' partners change over time in ways that make them less attractive to them (for those not in this kink, I guess that's how they feel when their partner gains, haha) and they deal with it. That's just life. But I can't help but mourn the loss of a (potential) future. I've always wanted to know what it was like to be with a fat partner. I had fantasized about him being chubby at some point in the future so much, and now I have to face that actually, that may not happen.

Yeah, it's true that attempts to lose weight often fail, and people will often regain what they lost and then some. He could still end up fat, since it seems like his body is kind of already doing this without much effort. But I feel gross and creepy hoping for that possibility, knowing that it would make him feel bad.

So I'm not sure what to do now. We're a great team and very compatible in most ways. I want to find a way that we can both be happy - I don't want to repress an aspect of my sexuality long term, but also obviously want him to be comfortable in his own skin. We had to cut our conversation short for now and pick it up at a later time, so I'm trying to figure out how to explain my feelings without making him feel like he's done anything wrong by setting a boundary. I don't know whether it's worth (obviously assuming he wants to try this) working towards unlearning some of that stigma he's internalized, since it seems that's his biggest issue. I know that wouldn't be easy nor a quick process, and that's ok. On my end, maybe I just need to give my mind a while to adjust to these new expectations. Maybe reduce my consumption of kink content, too, idk. I use it pretty much every time I masturbate and I think it creates a feedback loop where I fixate on kink stuff and need it more, diminishing my ability to enjoy more "vanilla" things. There's no ridding myself of this kink even if I wanted to, but I might be able to redirect some of those energies to an extent. And of course indulging my kink through fantasy and play is still on the table, albeit with some new ground rules from my bf. Sorry, WOW has this post gotten long - If you're still reading, I'm just wondering if anyone else has had an experience of a partner changing their mind about gaining, and how you handled it.


I am a feeder and FA. My partner and I are into extreme feeding and weight gain. However, we are not into immobility or health issues. So I told him from the jump that whenever he decided to lose weight, I'd support him 100%.

That time came late last year. He came to me and asked how I'd feel if he lost some weight. He was terrified that I'd lose my attraction to him or that I'd leave him.

Conti
2 years

Bathroom scale

Morbidly A Beast:
I bought a scale and it worked well I thought but the last few times I got on it never gave me my total weight it just goes blank instead of giving me numbers or at least it did this mornin I got and the front plate glass broke under my weight 😳 thankfully I didn’t get cut it was just two big pieces. It said up to 450 I honestly don’t think I’ve been getting an accurate reading of my weight so I have no idea what I weigh right now


We live in one of two realities.

Reality 1: You bought a crappy scale
Reality 2: You are much heavier than you realize
2 years

Inspiration- cottagecore/elven/fae but fat

DoctorHarleenQ:
I was looking for suggestions from things people have seen, or keywords they have found useful.


You can find a lot of plus-size fantasy art if you search for "plump" or "chubby". You can find some under "fat," but there's usually a good chunk of grotesque art in there too.

Be advised that most of the art goes for cute over sexy.
2 years

Advice for exploring feederism with a dominant feeder / submissive feeder?

Arkadydarrow:
hi! to start, im a submissive bottom married to a wonderful, caring, gorgeously chubby top

Munchies:
I'm a domme feeder who's had multiple feedees and is in a relationship with a sub feedee. What is it that you want to know?

Arkadydarrow:
Thanks for responding miss! I guess what im looking for is ideas for like, play scenarios? ways we can meld her desire to be fed with the D/S dynamic we have going already? petnames, even good foods (although miss has her own likes there haha).

i may be being a little silly but im very research brained and usually try and read like, tumblr tags and smut before we explore something to help me get into the right headspace for it if that makes sense?

Munchies:
There are many different styles of submission and domination. For example, I'm a sadistic domme. I get off on making my partner suffer. I like the pain and discomfort he feels when I stuff him until he has no more room or making him be greedy in public.

I also enjoy treating him like a lazy, spoiled pet hog.

These things will not appeal to everyone.

Arkadydarrow:
gotcha. i am a maso, but miss is not a sadist. we tend to come at it from a service angle? ig im just looking for like, scenarios we can use to roleplay from, anecdotes or stories. i dont really get the other side of the interaction intuitively like i do with d/s mechanics and am probably overthinking it.


I gotcha. You're probably overthinking things, but that's okay. You came here for help, and help you shall receive.

There are a lot of ways you can go about this, but the most common way would be to treat her like a queen or goddess. Less common is a mob boss or CEO, but that's a fun dynamic too.

Body worship is fun. So is waiting on her hand and foot so she gets to be as lazy as she wants.
2 years

Inspiration- cottagecore/elven/fae but fat

DoctorHarleenQ:
So I'm potentially booking a budoir shoot, and I think I'll aim for like a fae/cottagecore kond of vibe, as I've never taken pictures of myself like that, and I think my partner would be.... appreciative. Trouble is, I'm not seeing a ton of inspo for these themes with plus size models (i know, shocking). Does anyone have recommendations?


Inspo doesn't need to come from actual people. You should be able to find lots of plus sized fantasy art to go off of. Tumblr is a good place to start. Maybe Deviantart and Pinterest.
2 years