I do hope you find someone and so sorry your husband passed.
I was just starting to get into gaining so that made things harder somewhat so I just didn't mention my desire to gain to guys I dated.

Funny how the group of people that claim to be "all inclusive" are anything but that.
With them I find the hypocrisy level high and the old adage "not in my back yard" fits them very well.

I find it amusing how in depth some people get about cities and areas they seem to think are one way or another.
Fat people are everywhere.
The racial comment was not needed.

I have tried it for smoking and drinking and no effect whatsoever.
That was years ago tho'.
I did quit both cold turkey.

Really? Why would you do that to your employer?

I get them all the time so I don't bother and just delete them.

In my case I had lost weight and decided to regain a little and started on heavy cream.
I drank some everyday and started eating ice cream before bed and I started steadily gaining and felt softer.
I could feel the inner parts of my arms getting softer and my thighs started to accumulate mass.
The one thing is after I had put on a good thirty pounds over 6 months or so it all went to my lower belly and hips.
I had never had a lower belly before just a big round basketball belly.
I became softer and my fat would jiggle more than it used to and I am still super flabby.

I love BBQ.
I tend to think grilled or smoked would be healthier than fried.

Really noisy smack their lips types makes me get up and move its just rude IMO.
I would never confront them or start a scene because they are free to eat anyway they want.
The sound of some food when eating them is disgusting to me like okra or cooked cabbage.
It kind of squeaks when you eat it eww!

Sorry to hear she is having problems.
It is nice she lets you continue on here.
11 years ago is when I started coming here.