A very sympathetic piece on us, with several FF folks quoted and referred to in the story:

www.guardian.co.uk/lifeandstyle/2010/mar/18/women-obese-donna-simpson-gainers

Amatrix, go try 'em. I really like 'em. Think of hot polenta before it solidifies, and that's kinda close. Sort of.

And you can have 'em sweet or savoury. The mushroom recipe looks great!

I agree with the posters who say experiment. I'm not as fat as some women here, but I have had partners who were small enough to make it difficult. The pillow idea helps, sometimes side positions work better even than missionary. If I remember correctly, there's some good advice in Hanne Blank's *Big, Big Love* that might be worth looking at.

I'm going to go out on a limb here. One lover I had was so small that he didn't even want to try, and he was right. He was happy to play with toys, though, and we had LOTS of fun without penetrative sex. It's worth remembering there are other things, both to do and to be penetrated by. Just sayin'.

To all the guys here who are ok with women who don't shave:

BRAVO!

And thank you. You're way cool.

And to the demotivate image above? Very uncool. Some women really do need to be worried about violence in their own homes. Sadly.