I'm pretty athletic and every night I play basketball with my next door neighbor in our driveway. He's fairly fit. But his wife is huge 350'ish lbs. When I shared my feeder kink with my wife long ago, she actually made a comment "I'm never going to be fat like Shelly (our neighbor) if that's what you think".

But now every night while we play ball, my wife sits in the lawn chair with Shelly drinking beers and snacking. Shelly constantly brings over sugary drinks and snacks to my wife's glee. I love the dichotomy of the guys all sweaty, exercising while the girls sit their with their growing guts hanging out, casually pigging out every night.

I feel like a girl really needs another gainer girl to show her the ropes, too, lol. One time my wife told Shelly "here you can take these back (bag of chips). Don't want to eat them all"

And Shelly responded "what? no, I have my bag, those are for you - I don't want to bring those back". My wife had never assumed it was OK to publicly eat an entire family bag of chips in one sitting let alone be expected to!

Because they add sophistication, trendiness and an 'innocence'.

And I think there's that whole mentality that the shy, nerdy girl is always the sexually pent up, biggest freak in the sheets...

May be redundant w/the peanut butter, but nuts are great to snack on throughout the day.

A large handful of oil roasted mixed nuts is 813 calories; equal to over 3 cliff bars or 2 quarter pounders from McD's. Super calorically dense and not very filling.

This describes almost the entire cheer squad from any small town rural school. Fast forward 15 years and they're all giant redneck hogs who have either gained 200lbs in their 3 pregnancies or spend their time expanding their waistline at the local Moose/Eagles Lodge potluck.

My sister-in-law fits this perfectly. Cheerleader in HS. Came from a small rural town. Put on 150lbs in nursing school. And is now over 350lbs. And for whatever reason got into redneck guys.

She's about as stereotypical as you can imagine: owns a pink glock, 4 wheeler, finance is a farm hand and literally is missing teeth. She's so attractive and makes great money. But she unabashedly wants to be a fat farm girl.

They're def a couple where I've wondered if he's a feeder. He'll regularly come home and toss her a giant bag of chocolate bars and they'll sit together: he'll have a few beers while she eats the entire bag in one sitting. Seems pretty feederish to me but I'm pretty sure it's just trashy and has little to do with this kink.

Yeah, had a heart attack at 22. Then another one and a stent the very next year. Cholesterol was out of control, multiple blocked arteries.

Had a roommate do this all the time! He was 6'8" and over 300lbs. We would hop along with him and he would seriously drop $40 and hit up 4 chains that were next to one another: Rally's, KFC, Taco Bell & Wendy's.

He would order while chewing, digging into the last place's meal, haha. All of the food would be gone before we got home. Never knew someone who loved fast food more than him - he ended up having some critical health issues in his mid-20's and completely changed his diet.

Had a neighborhood block party last night. My wife gained so much this summer that an Indian mother in the PTO who helped organize our kid's June graduation event with my wife didn't recognize her last night.

Not only that, she actually straight up said "Who? Oh...I didn't even recognize you. Wow, you've gained a lot of weight."

3 months, 50lbs

My wife was embarrassed but it's more of a cultural thing. The Indian woman is almost 100lbs heavier than her and always tend to say insensitive things at their get-togethers because they don't place nearly as much significance on appearance as American women do; ie. don't wear makeup, style their hair and are generally all overweight.

Pregnancy.

When my wife became pregnant she loved the feeling of being bigger. She gave away all of her old skinny clothes after the pregnancy.

And it was the constant feeding, stuffing and late night begging for fast food during her pregnancy that awoke me to being a dyed-in-the wool feeder.

It was the night after Halloween she accidentally ate ALL of my son's candy and made me secretly run out to replace it. I was so aroused – it was then I looked into this being "a thing".

I frankly think it's ultra-rare to find a true feedee. Most that are overweight are purely addicts. I don't think they're drawing any sexual pleasure at all from their addiction to food.

Sometimes it's funny to view feedee's here speculating "I'm trying so hard to gain weight and this person is twice as big as me. Oh, they HAVE to be getting turned on by this. How else could you become over 300lbs???"

Well - hate to break it to you, but they're just an addict no different from any other addict out there that can't gain control over there lives.

PEANUT BUTTER.

I always have a jar at my desk when I'm bulking. Folks around here make such a deal about heavy cream at 52 calories a tablespoon. Peanut butter is almost double the calories at 94 cal a tbsp.

Eat it straight, put it on virtually anything, throw it in gainer shakes. No refrigeration, mess and hardly any carbs.