I wanna make feedism content on yt, but i need help hiding my identity

MrOverstuffed:
Idk if this belongs in a different forum, if it does lmk.
I've had this idea of making food gaming challenge videos on YT where it's like "If I die in minecraft, I have to eat 1000 calories." I love games, and I love feedism, so this was my way of doing both. I wouldn't show my belly cause I think YT TOS would be on my ass, so I would do the entire video, maybe eat while doing it or at the end, and maaaybe make a patreon for like a dollar that people can see the results at.
I want to see this idea through, and I don't want anyone telling me it won't work. I need to try to to figure this out, but I need to hide my identity. It sounds strange but I don't want everyone to know who I am, I just want to persue this content anonymously.
Obviously I could just not show my face or a face cam at all, but the face connects the youtuber to the viewer so much and allows me to entertain people in more ways than just the game. I also want my mouth visible cause I gotta eat for the challenges. I really don't want to wear one of those "show only eyes and mouth" criminal-looking masks, atm I only have these cute Snorlax sunglasses that I love but they don't do enough.

Does anyone have any suggestions on how to hide my identity? Or if there's any feedback or ideas on my plans, I'd love to hear them! Again please don't try to assume it won't work unless there's factual evidence that what I'm doing literally can't be done. I wanna try it though, and learn what does and doesn't work. My identity though, I gotta make sure that's hidden from the start.


Okay, you have to plan forward! If you do that, everything becomes easy!

What do you want the camera angle to show? Will you talk? Will you show any identifiable signs on your body? What will the background be? Will there be any identifiable objects there?

Think of these for a start!
1 year

A reminder to everyone in the community

MrOverstuffed:
I aim to spread love, kindness, respect, and trust throughout the community, no matter how cliche or sappy that sounds.
This is a reminder that anyone you want/hope to talk to in this community is a human being. They have their thoughts, feelings, emotions, and desires, even if that person doesn't make sense to you, that's okay. Please do not disrespect anyone for your own goals and desires. Nobody owes you anything. Do not treat anyone badly because they say no, they are not here to appeal to your fantasy.
The best thing you can do to support your feedee creator is to just show love and appreciation for the content they're making, and not expect anything in return. Almost every feedee is looking to be themselves, to feel proud of what they're doing and share it with the community. Spamming 100 messages asking for belly pics, to feed them, to meet irl (just.. don't), that isn't love, it isn't appreciated or ever wanted. It's a delusional mindset that people living in a fantasy have created. Nobody likes that, I need to emphasize that, please do not harrass anyone for you're own benefit.
Sorry for that rant, this happens way too often and it should be spoken up by more than just the one being harrassed.
I hope every feedee out there or who reads this is proud of who they are and what they do. Don't listen to the pervs, hecklers, haters, just be you and do what makes you happy, even if no one else understands. I'm proud we have all the feedee's we do today, both male, female, they/them and everyone. And thank you to anyone who's been super sweet and respectful for the community, you're making it a better place.


This is really kind of you! And i would love to add a few things!

Try to get into the other person's shoes! Try to understand how your actions will affect them, from their point! I promise you, once you understand how to make the other person's time pass well, they will appreciated your acompany a lot! ^^

Try to understand yourself! Try to understand why is it that you May not care for the above point for example! (if thats the case) or try to understand what other areas in you are under developed, lets say!

And please... Please! Try to comorehend that everyone is stupid! Including the person you might talk with, yourself and me! We're all stupid, in the sense that we make choices that will end up hurting us, without us even realizing!
We're stupid, because we dont know everything! And that is natural! We are born only with some basic insticts! These dont help us understand how the world works, but only push us to do things that will ensure our survival! We have to learn, beyond that! And thats how the stupidity vanishes! We are at a point where information is widely available! What we have to do is go and explore it, so that we understand how the world works, and inevidably, become less stupid!

It might seem tabbo, offensive or unkind to talk about stupidity. But the reality is thats a stupid way to think of it! Because if we dont understand the problem, we wont be able to solve it! And it will continue to hurt us!



What i just wrote, is also an attempt at spreading love, kindness, respect and trust, however ironic it might sound! I just hope its not an utter failure at it! xD
1 year

Just asking..

Munchies:


Hey you never know! >.<

I know its extremely unlikely something will happen, but ill put efford in anything thats not absolutely impossible!
1 year

Just asking..

Lovelyxx:
Hi, I am an average girl 131lbs 5feet 3
I really like bigger people but I don't feel like I can talk with them about my fetsish.
How should I flert with them in a way that they feel like am making fun of them and that them gaining weight will make even happier?

Enas:
Are you looking for friends, or possibly a feedee? :3

Letters And Numbers:
That post is 7 years old…


Indeed, but that person still logs in sometimes!
1 year

Just asking..

Lovelyxx:
Hi, I am an average girl 131lbs 5feet 3
I really like bigger people but I don't feel like I can talk with them about my fetsish.
How should I flert with them in a way that they feel like am making fun of them and that them gaining weight will make even happier?

Are you looking for friends, or possibly a feedee? :3
1 year

Extreme gaining in a somewhat healthy way

Hello there! This might have been asked before but i couldn't find something quickly.
I'm trying to commit to gaining, and i would like to hear tips on how i could gain in a relatively healthy way, if im looking to get extremely fat. (ideally I'd like to end up completely immobile, and to do that successfully, i must be as healthy as i can in each point in my weight gain journey)
1 year

This fetish never truly goes away, does it?

Cristinac1:
I want to share my experience if it helps anybody, at least to feel understood like ,you are not alone. I have always been into bigger boys for any reason ,since I was a little girl and I didn't even know anything about sexuality. Obviously when I grew up it becames a sexual thing, is like being gay (?) I don't know how to explain it , I only know that I can't be sexually attracted by anybody who is not overweight. And I don't know why but it's my thing, is a part of who I am. I have tried to date skinny and "normative" boys just to convince myself that there's nothing wrong with me ,but in the end I always get the same conclusion. I used to feel alone and a weirdo even in the feederism community, because I'm a straight skinny woman interested in big boys,and in my experience, this is not as common as other things like female feederism. I have even gone into eating disorders for a few years,and even rejecting fat and food in my own body, It has always been the same.
Nowadays, I accept myself and my sexual preferences,but I would like to have the opportunity to be more open with it. Sorry for the long text ,I needed to cry somewhere xd

Out of curiosity, do you have similar interest on guys that want to fatten up (but aren't quite there yet)?
1 year

Bellies. smooth vs. hairy.

Munchies:
Hairy or smooth, stuffed bellies are the best.

Hahahaah, i definitely agree, i find it best when that's the case! 😂
1 year

Bellies. smooth vs. hairy.

Munchies:


Enas:
Please offer your insight! Don't waste your time and energy on responding with completely useless, to the conversation, memes!

Munchies:
I'm just calling a spade a spade.

Beauty is subjective as well as a social construct. But that doesn't mean it's not real.

Fat - especially fat bellies - are stigmatized. Women have it worse, but the general public sees them as disgusting. This leads to a lot of mental health issues that can spill over to physical health issues. On top of that, people perceived as gross and ugly are far more disadvantaged over those perceived as beautiful or even average. There's tons on stories in the forums alone about those denied medical care or encouraged to engage in dangerous, life threatening things all in the name of losing weight. Some have been abused for their soft middles.

So saying "all bellies are beautiful" is more than a platitude. It is a radial statement of reclaiming power and control. To be beautiful is to be valued. And when you know have value, you aren't going to accept the discrimination a lot of people force on you. Because boy howdy do a lot of people internalize fatphobia and think they deserve the abuse they get.

This shouldn't be reality, but it is. And it's like this pretty much everywhere - even within the fat fetish community.

So, once again:

Okay! Now I can work with this a little bit better. So, what you write here is basically a materialist explanation of how this came out to be! The way i interpret it at least!

My question is, Is this the best we can do? To pretend that our bodies are beautiful, (instead of beauty living in the ideological space) in order to counter the discrimination? But it would require the same level of mental energy, or less to explain that everyone has different views! That's a much tougher ideological argument to make, instead of the "No, im beautiful", which is really only a reactionary move to the discrimination. It tries to prove it wrong, without proof which makes it a toxic and not a constructive argument! And I'm criticizing precisely that! And in fact i provide an alternative, precisely because i do understand that discrimination does cause harm! It is stupid! It is irrational! But the way to counter it is not with more of the same! But with something that will render the logic of the discriminator obsolete!

Also a few more points,
I never implied, and i see that it might not have come across clearly, that beauty isn't real. Beauty is purely ideological. It resides in the domain of ideology,each one of us has! And our ideology constructs our reality! Here I'm not saying that beauty isn't real, but precisely *how* it is real!

Secondly, i didn't understand how beauty is a social contrast at all. Beauty standards absolutely are (in any kind of civilization) i can see how perceptions of beauty can affect society, and how society can affect the perception of beauty people have, but that, again is something elde. I'd really appreciate it if you explain this point further, because i cant see how beauty could be a social construct!
And lastly, I'd actually appreciate it If you also provide constructive criticism to my previous post too!
1 year

Bellies. smooth vs. hairy.

Munchies:
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Please offer your insight! Don't waste your time and energy on responding with completely useless, to the conversation, memes!
1 year