Masuli:
Loose clothes that has plenty of room for expansion & going for the all you can eat buffet for a date

Shopo:
What a terrible response by OP!

MottiF:
After days of chatting with a female feeder, I was able to arrange a date with her, so I just will appreciate any advices regarding a first date with her.

What do avoid or what is acceptable in meeting her, i mean, do u bring up a long the way out kinks, or just waiting her to bring it up?

We talked a lot about me gaining weight and all, i was eating really well this week, with her encouragement, and we really talked about our kinks, and we pretty open with each other. So i just really appreciate what to do on a first date with her, she really open to feeding me in public, and talking about how she will fatten me up and all. We will meet on an all you can eat restaurant so I don’t know if that matter. Just would be glad to hear any advice from ppl here.

Munchies:
Not sure if you had your date yet. (Hope it went well if you did.)

That said, it helps to discuss expectations prior to the date. Things go a lot more smoothly if you do.

MottiF:
Hi, no, the date will be in the end of this week.

Yeah we talking a lot about this but not sure what to expect, for example she do encourage me to eat a lot for her, and liked my process, I being filming for her my gaining weight process and what I eat. She really open minded and was given me tips on how to continue on, but as for the day itself, I was asking what did she expect to do and she just tell me let’s meet and see how things going, but do insist we go to a place, with fattening food for me, she's not going to eat a lots, which is fine. So I just hope it’s will be fun and great for both of us, I’m just excited about getting to know her more. By the way, she did mention her goal of getting me to 550lbs which is great for me 🤗 I was trying so hard to break my metabolism so it’s really cool. And she seems like very kind girl so let’s hope for the best 🤩

MickRidem:
Sounds like you're ready to get this started and try out gaining!

TheUltimate323:
Ok, I didn't know anything about feederism. Do the fantasies I've mentioned in this post have anything to do with feederism? Are they related?

MottiF:
After days of chatting with a female feeder, I was able to arrange a date with her, so I just will appreciate any advices regarding a first date with her.

What do avoid or what is acceptable in meeting her, i mean, do u bring up a long the way out kinks, or just waiting her to bring it up?

We talked a lot about me gaining weight and all, i was eating really well this week, with her encouragement, and we really talked about our kinks, and we pretty open with each other. So i just really appreciate what to do on a first date with her, she really open to feeding me in public, and talking about how she will fatten me up and all. We will meet on an all you can eat restaurant so I don’t know if that matter. Just would be glad to hear any advice from ppl here.

Gassybelly:
Just finished a big salad and milkshake, about an hour after big spaghetti dinner. Could push my gut out anymore, it was bloated and full and felt really stuffed and good. But after relieving myself I was done with the fetish and just wanted to continue about my evening. I almost wish I could snap my fingers and remove the evidence of a stuffing after I’m done enjoying it.

Gassybelly:
Does anybody else get stuffed, and then after cumming regret it? The rest of my day is always just uncomfortable, gassy and the enjoyment of the roundness is gone.

Zora:
Hi Everyone,

It has been a while since I checked in. I had been thinking about something since late last year and finally made a decision, but that decision required that I make another decision.

I have been thinking about looking for another job, and I finally decided to make that leap earlier this month. The next decision was whether to maintain my current weight for job interviews or continue fattening up.

I put my gaining on hold while making my decision and have finally made my choice. I want to continue fattening up. When I start my new job, I want my employer and co-workers to know me as a fatty from day one. I do not want them to have any memory of me at a normal weight.

To speed up the process, I am going to conduct an experiment. Since my body is now able to process fats, I want to see how far I can push this.

In preparation, I have purchased supplements that my nutritionist told me to drop because my body no longer needs them. Adding them back in will simply support my body's ability to process fats as I increase my fat consumption.

I already spent the past week drinking one serving per day of heavy whipping cream. I will increase that to two servings per day this week.

Each week, I will increase the heavy whipping cream consumption by 1 serving until either my body shows signs of reaching its limit, or I reach 6 servings per day, which is the maximum practical limit. The body is limited in terms of how many calories from fat it can digest at one time, and you need at least two hours in between servings. From a practical standpoint, I do not think I could pull of 7 servings per day, so 6 servings will be my maximum limit.

Now that I have decided to resume gaining, I will also resume posting updates.

Today is Sunday, 2/23/2025. The scale read 171.8 pounds, which is a 3-pound loss from my previous weigh-in. I look forward to seeing those numbers rapidly increase as I ramp up my heavy whipping cream consumption.

I hope everyone had a great weekend. I will be back next week with another weigh-in.

HectorBalloon:
Going to ride my bycle for the first time in months (I don't ride in winter because it's too cold and wet).

Because I gain only in winter I have gaind 55lbs since then, so I am going to "punish" myself by doing the worst climb in my area, 3 miles continuous with gradients up to 11%, as an almost obese man.

Will I make it?

Or will my heart explode? Perhaps I'll keel over and die. Maybe the bike's tyres will pop as soon as I sit on it. Perhaps I'll start trying the first hill and just end up sliding backwards and falling into a pothole. Or I'll fall off and roll round and round down the hill.

Beachside Farmer:
I would believe it as well. Have always been curious how much men take up these sites. Surely nothing can be 100% accurate but this site alone can see that. Though I do believe there are probably less women who are open about being interested in this fetish than those who are proud of it. Could make for an interesting study. Great work!

Munchies:
It has nothing to do with being proud. They get run off the platform. To be a public female FA/feeder is to deal with aggressive male feeders who try to manipulate you into being their feedee, desperate and horny male feeders that violate all of your boundaries, and scammers who think you are a man and harass you for money.

You could be a gold star lesbian and the men will try to harass you into submission. I've seen many a female FA/feeder flee in terror.

The only reason I am still here is because nothing these creeps do can top the horrors I have survived irl. If I wasn't made of sterner stuff, I'd have been run off within the first week of being on here.

Growing Rolls:
I'm really sorry you’re experiencing this—it’s not okay at all. No one should have to put up with that kind of behavior. To all FFA/female feeders out there: Stay strong, and know that you’re not alone in feeling this way.

Munchies:
I see where you are coming from. I appreciate the effort. But instead of asking women to endure, let's ask men to be better.



Growing Rolls:
You're absolutely right. It's not about women enduring, it's about men doing better and being held accountable. Everyone deserves respect and kindness, and the responsibility lies with all of us to make that the norm. Thank you for bringing this up.

Enas:
(TW)

The patriarchical hierarchy and ideology, as well as strict gender roles must be abolished, for anything good to happen. You cannot hold accountable those in power who have the power to evade that, for example.

By the way i also wanna bring up something ive noticed. When news report, for example, harassment, rape, etc, ive noticed the titles are always "Woman was raped" or something like that, but never "Man raped woman". At least on my local news its like that.