I have always seen myself as a fat man even from my earliest memories and I was always self conscious but I always extremely athletic so I played American football and basketball but I always had in the back of my mind that being fat was going to be my outcome at some point. I was always worried about not being able to find a female who appreciated fat like I did but they are few and far between. I met an older woman who taught me the mindset it took to be fat and let things fall where they may and get fat for me and enjoy how my fat evolved and grew and that was when things fell into place. So many of us males are scared to get fat because we think there will be no women to want us but you have to get fat because you can't see your no other way other than being fat....
5 years
Marina:
Well, not everyone is in a feeder/feedee situation. Some guys will/have to get fat all on their own. ;-)
Aphrodita:
With 80% men and 20% women in the fat fetishism community, most of heterosexual men who want to get fat do it on their own (and for themselves / women in society, exhibitionism,, not for a partner.) Especially in countries where this community is nearly non existant and nearly all people would just be horrified if they knew.
In society, I would say that not all women react negatively to fat men. Some women (with my belly hanging out of my shirt, etc.) are obviously turned on.
This is spot on...
5 years
fatchance:
Yep, the point-of-no-return.
Give in to it
admit that you have passed it
give in to your fat beauty
accept your reality
feel the freedom
say it to yourself and us
say "I will never lose weight"
say "I will continue to get fatter"
say "it will make me more beautiful"
say "and, I want it"
That is when you have psychologically truly become fat
5 years
Louiefat:
such as...
Look up the profile of becomingoverweight because he explained it way better than I could. He speaks on subcutaneous and visceral fat weight gain/fat distribution"
5 years
WideJuan76:
@wanttobefat600....It is a process and it depends on how do you want fat to be on your body and that starts with what you eat. Getting fat is the easy part but it is truly it's own form of body modification. I say myself as the fat Albert flabby type see I ate accordingly and didn't do things like any form of compound exercises that would raise my testosterone too high and what that did was make me grow a fuda after I developed a high gut and what that did was make it droop lower and it was the fuda that covered things up because you stop being able to see past your gut when you hit four hundred...
Louiefat:
Ok, so you're saying the secret to hiding your dick in a fat pad of flabby fat is to eat a lot and not exercise?
Duh....lol. I was talking about there being certain specific things to eat that would accelerate that process. Lol
5 years
@wanttobefat600....It is a process and it depends on how do you want fat to be on your body and that starts with what you eat. Getting fat is the easy part but it is truly it's own form of body modification. I say myself as the fat Albert flabby type see I ate accordingly and didn't do things like any form of compound exercises that would raise my testosterone too high and what that did was make me grow a fuda after I developed a high gut and what that did was make it droop lower and it was the fuda that covered things up because you stop being able to see past your gut when you hit four hundred...
5 years
wanttobefat600:
Never experienced it but I've always thought about how amazing it would be to be too fat for sex. I can only imagine how good it must feel to have a belly so big that it covers your dick completely to where you can't see it and its hard to get to with all the belly fat hanging over it. I
I have experienced this and it is the fuda moreso than your gut.....
5 years
I empathize with you brother. My experience was a tad bit different because I dated an older woman who taught me how to enjoy the process of it every step of the way. I always saw myself as the fat person out of the crew anyway but I had an ego and cared too much what folks thought and then she taught me to own it because no one is paying attention anyway. Folks don't understand the transition and having to totally rewire your brain to this new way of thinking and moving. There are plenty of women who would appreciate you bro so keep your head up...
5 years
WideJuan76:
If you have ever microdosed on shrooms then it will change how you perceive things. Before I met my ex Jada, she was a country philosophy professor and she was like the experience of what it feels like to waddle, to have a gut that sways and to feel the full experience of fat was an existential awakening. I saw that to be fat took becoming the full experience as if I were training for a basketball champion. I had to do small things to initiate the process like parking closer to the front of the store, stop running and start the process to truly knowing what it is to become fat. Most of us just see it as a sexual experience and not as a full on experience; I wanted to experience the embodiment of what it is to be slow. I even gave myself a nickname...The Turtle and I did everything slow until my body became it. Before I knew it, I had a gut hanging to my thighs as I walked and that was when I knew that I had truly "broke on through" and I am not talking about the lawn chairs that I broke neither. Lol.
JohnJohnson:
lol 😂 I guess I can never relate to that I’ve always been a fatty.
Some of us are born fat while others grow into it. Lol.
5 years
If you have ever microdosed on shrooms then it will change how you perceive things. Before I met my ex Jada, she was a country philosophy professor and she was like the experience of what it feels like to waddle, to have a gut that sways and to feel the full experience of fat was an existential awakening. I saw that to be fat took becoming the full experience as if I were training for a basketball champion. I had to do small things to initiate the process like parking closer to the front of the store, stop running and start the process to truly knowing what it is to become fat. Most of us just see it as a sexual experience and not as a full on experience; I wanted to experience the embodiment of what it is to be slow. I even gave myself a nickname...The Turtle and I did everything slow until my body became it. Before I knew it, I had a gut hanging to my thighs as I walked and that was when I knew that I had truly "broke on through" and I am not talking about the lawn chairs that I broke neither. Lol.
5 years
