Keeping to accurate sizes?

Munchies:
Gotta remember people come in various shapes and sizes. Even at 400 lbs, an arm can look drastically different. If you aren't sure what body shape you want, go look at Google images.

Remember there are non-feedist people out there who are 400 lbs. In fact, there are weight loss websites out there with a database if pictures of people. You can pop in a height and weight, and it will spit out the closest match.

As for me, personally, I never include specific measurements unless it's important to the story. It's a real pet peeve of mine when people tell and don't show. Also ... so many male authors will say things like "She was so fat. She was 5'6", 130 lbs, and had huge C cups," and it's just an average-size woman no one in their right mind would even call chubby. Or particularly busty.

ValtheFA:
Oh, for sure, I try my best to keep that in mind, it's not all-encompassing, it's why I said a [general idea from measuring, I'm sorry if I gave that impression.

Sometimes I find that you can paint the picture, sometimes to help with framing the gradual weight gain over a long period of time, it's good to define the shapes at times so all of the characters feel like they are different sizes despite those similar weight thresholds. I searched a lot for the base sizes of my characters for fanfiction, not of my own design, and tried to thoughtfully think how the weight would affect them based on their body shape and how the adipose would regulate into varying sizes.

I will say in my own settings, I try to be less analytical and cold with my descriptions, but I can only describe someone's size so often when you hit the 25k mark with the same story, even with a very large cast. It gets even more difficult when doing an anime setting and the characters at base size are already at extreme proportions, that adding to them can feel a bit strange, to say the least.

I haven't thought of looking at weight loss databases to check though, that might be helpful in gaining more perspective on what I'm looking for. The bbw.wiki is really hit-and-miss for those details. Again, I appreciate your help and insight, too good to keep a frame of mind for that, and getting those reminders when looking back at my own work to do so is greatly appreciated.


To be clear, I am not against including measurements, but only when it makes sense to do so. For example, if a feeder is measuring someone, for example. But I like to be more creative about it. For example, someone breaks a chair with a 400 lbs weight limit, or their hips brush against a door that's 60 inches across.

But the thing you gotta remember is that how you imagine something will not be how the reader will imagine it. So you can't get too bogged down with details.

Personally, I like to give a basic description of a character and focus on the experience of being fat. Things like discovering new rolls, relearning your center of gravity, or outgrowing old clothes. That way you don't have to worry about being too precise, but the reader can better immerse themselves in your world.
2 years

Wg tropes/situations

HandsomeDan:
What are some of your guy's favorite tropes/situations in WG literature? Which ones annoy you and set you off?


Favs:

Relationship weight gain
Weight gain as a form of liberation
Fit to fat
Feedee/gainer with a harem of feeders (may not be a dedicated harem)
Competitive weight gain
Weight gain as part of pregnancy

Turn offs
Anything that glorifies abuse
Anything that involves family (sexual and non-sexual)
Anything that involves oppression (gaining weight because government said so)
Cheating
Using measurements to describe what a character looks like
Not understanding what people look like at certain weights (5'6, 130 lbs, and a C-cup isn't chubby or fat)
2 years

Deep fryers? worth it?

Theweightofauthority:
So I don't know what kind of situation you're in, but deep fryers don't necessarily need to be bought. You can make one with a cast iron pot and a block of lard


You could use lard, but I wouldn't advise it if you are going to do a lot of frying.

Lard is good for a couple of uses before it goes bad. Lard can keep for long term (6 months room temp; a year refrigerated) but that goes out the window if you are cooking with it. Best to use a cooking oil instead.

www.epicurious.com/expert-advice/you-can-reuse-frying-oil-article
2 years

Keeping to accurate sizes?

ValtheFA:
I'm trying to come back to finish out a WG series I started, at least just wrap it up so it's not unfinished.

I'm unsure why, but I have been trying to find references for plus-size gals, and... Let's just say it gets difficult when going beyond height, hips, waist, and bust.

For example, I'm trying to describe arms in a scene and now I can't for the life of me imagine a good arm size after gaining four-hundred pounds. Now, should I maybe just cut it out, or just describe it in flowery imagery? Probably. Will my brain let me? At the very least, not right now.

So I ask you all, what do you do for references? There used to be more accessible videos on various bbw's and ssbbw's that had good measurements, (Plump Princess had one iirc), but cannot find them atm.

Munchies:
Gotta remember people come in various shapes and sizes. Even at 400 lbs, an arm can look drastically different. If you aren't sure what body shape you want, go look at Google images.

Remember there are non-feedist people out there who are 400 lbs. In fact, there are weight loss websites out there with a database if pictures of people. You can pop in a height and weight, and it will spit out the closest match.

As for me, personally, I never include specific measurements unless it's important to the story. It's a real pet peeve of mine when people tell and don't show. Also ... so many male authors will say things like "She was so fat. She was 5'6", 130 lbs, and had huge C cups," and it's just an average size woman no one in their right mind would even call chubby. Or particularly busty.

Letters And Numbers:
There are many things exactly like that which can make for a good fetish story (weights and measurements are very popular), but drag down a story AS A STORY. I’m definitely guilty of that myself


A good story is a good story. Quality needn't suffer because it's smut. If it has the hallmarks of a bad story, it's a bad story. No shame in enjoying it anyway, but it doesn't make it good.
2 years

Keeping to accurate sizes?

ValtheFA:
I'm trying to come back to finish out a WG series I started, at least just wrap it up so it's not unfinished.

I'm unsure why, but I have been trying to find references for plus-size gals, and... Let's just say it gets difficult when going beyond height, hips, waist, and bust.

For example, I'm trying to describe arms in a scene and now I can't for the life of me imagine a good arm size after gaining four-hundred pounds. Now, should I maybe just cut it out, or just describe it in flowery imagery? Probably. Will my brain let me? At the very least, not right now.

So I ask you all, what do you do for references? There used to be more accessible videos on various bbw's and ssbbw's that had good measurements, (Plump Princess had one iirc), but cannot find them atm.


Gotta remember people come in various shapes and sizes. Even at 400 lbs, an arm can look drastically different. If you aren't sure what body shape you want, go look at Google images.

Remember there are non-feedist people out there who are 400 lbs. In fact, there are weight loss websites out there with a database if pictures of people. You can pop in a height and weight, and it will spit out the closest match.

As for me, personally, I never include specific measurements unless it's important to the story. It's a real pet peeve of mine when people tell and don't show. Also ... so many male authors will say things like "She was so fat. She was 5'6", 130 lbs, and had huge C cups," and it's just an average size woman no one in their right mind would even call chubby. Or particularly busty.
2 years

Got to vent a little

Runningsoft:
Not an armchair psychiatrist here, but finding out the 'frustrating' part of your fetish is a good place to start.
From there, it may make sense of what it is you are looking to explore/solve/learn about yourself.
Good luck.


Gotta love necroposting.

Sweetie, OP deleted his account ages ago.
2 years

Want to get fat

Fatboi899:
Heavy cream works check my profile if you want proof 2 weeks a pint a day you’ll outgrow clothes and be super hungry

Shakes:
wow just saw your before and after pics. Impressive growth


The problem with heavy cream gains is that they are not sustainable. Sure, you can get very fat very quickly drinking it. However, if you have to take a break from it, most of it won't stick.
2 years

Ghrelin hormone and fat storage

Boundandfeed:
How can we use this in feederism?


I mean ... just keep doing what we've been doing. Every feedist has their own ways of handling ghrelin. And seeing how many fat people there are on this site, I believe they have a handle on it.
2 years

I was scammed by "ross" be aware

Ssbbwari:
Hello everyone, I am coming here to spread awareness to a very unfortunate situation that has taken place. Firstly I would like to begin by saying, I know I shouldn't have trusted this person within a few days of knowing them, but I've sent them funds before and they haven't done anything to make me feel like I shouldn't trust them.


About 25 minutes ago, I had got tangled up in a unfortunate situation where as I have been stranded and unable to get back to my home, I sent this "friend" $25.83 bucks towards getting me a Uber back home in hopes that they would order the Uber for me since my phone was dying. My phone died. And when I finally found someone in the area I'm in that had a charger they were kind enough to understand my situation and let me use their charger.

When I came back online I immediately went to see what had happened, I live in a area where Ubers are everywhere. So by the time I had found someone to let me use their charger the Uber should've been here. He blocked me on discord. And the last image he sent was a gif, of a bear laughing & shaking its head. He didn't care nor was he slightly embarrassed that he had just stolen my money, and the only means I had of hopes to getting home.

I am currently still in the same situation, and my phone is dying yet again. I am not here to ask for sympathy or anything. I am just trying to spread awareness that you cannot trust people who may give off a "friendly" vibe. I'm not saying everyone here is that way, and they aren't. But please please please be aware of this user. I have screenshots of everything. And if anyone needs to see them, I will gladly send them to you when I am able to. My discord is galatnousbelly#9694. Please be safe.


If this is an FF user, please send a report to the FF admins with screenshots.
2 years

Im kinda losing hope

Anifeeder:
Tbh feeling tired af lately, i have been having lots of issues and no where to talk about them freely so I'll do that here. I used to talk to someone from this site and then being the dumb human being I am i fumbled It.
No Biggie right?
Well i tried messaging this other girl here but i came out as way to bagging and rude and i scared her tf away. Sometimes i just think something is wrong with me.
Like idk what to think anymore.
I just wanna find a nice girl in my age to feed and take care of. That's it. Sometimes it feels like misson impossible.
I Fr feel like closing my account and calling it quits because Every time i log on here i feel like crap.
That's it really.
Ik no one will really give a fuck but whatever.


If you want to be happy in a relationship, you need to work on yourself first. Don't worry about finding a partner for right sort yourself out first. Once you've done that, you'll have a much better experience.

I used to be a major hot mess, but I was self-aware enough to know I wasn't ready for a relationship. I sorted myself out. Learned to be happy by myself. Then, when I was ready to put myself out there, I put myself out there.

Took me some time, but now I am in a happy, stable relationship with a wonderful guy. I know if I was still the same walking disaster I used to be, we probably wouldn't be together.
2 years