Angy523:
I just realised this is kinda addictive. I said last year I want him to be 220-230, now he is really close to that and he bought some new clothes, a size bigger than he used to wear last year, but the only thing I can think of is him outgrowing his new clothes... It seems like I will always want him fatter

Chubster87:
I've been trying to gain hard for 2 month's..I've gained 20 pounds but the gainning as slowed so much im nearly loosing weight even tho im consuming 5000 calories a day and my activity hasn't changed.. I read before that I should crash diet for a day or two to kick the gaining again. Has anyone any experience in this...also I feel full all the time even I haven't eaten. Is that my bodies way of say slow down fatty?

Bigdoug:
My priorities and interests and desires have changed too with getting fatter. A lit more of my life and efforts and wants and needs revolve around food these days.

Munchies:
Glad you are having fun, but I'd be careful making food your priority in most aspects of your life.

I had a feedee that was into extreme weight gain (like I am) and decided to get fat no matter the cost. Went from being a pretty chill guy to a man that pretty much worshipped the gains at all cost.

He was a pretty smart guy at first, but I noticed after he switched to a diet of heavy cream and fast foods, he got dumb real fast. He was missing huge swaths of necessary nutrients, and I couldn't get him to eat better.

Then other aspects of his professional and personal life started getting hit by his choices. I left him when it became clear he was too addicted to change.

So yeah. Have fun with the gains, but be mindful.

BigBallBellyGirl:
Agree with Munchies here. There's definitely nothing inherently "bad" about rearranging your priorities to gain, but it's important to understand A LOT will change. When I decided to regain some lost weight, I was obsessed with it. I was eating and snacking all day, every day, and if I wasn't putting food in my face, I was too bloated to function, existing in a stupor almost. Ultimately, I couldn't concentrate well while working from home, didn't want to clean, and didn't want to go anywhere unless it was to eat. While in theory that was fine (and I did pack on 100 pounds in five months), it became all there was to my life. Again, not inherently bad and certainly a personal choice, but I found I had to be more realistic. Still gaining by the way-- ten to fifteen pounds a month, which some might consider a lot -- and still eating tons of food, just had to reestablish some balance. I said that all to say, there's some merit in checking in with yourself along your journey to make sure what you're doing is still bringing you joy.

Munchies:
Yup. Consume, but don't be consumed.

Bigdoug:
Well, that’s a whole lot of assumptions and advice I didn’t ask for, based on a pretty broad, non-specific comment of mine. I don’t think my IQ has changed just because I got older and fatter; still holding the same job I had ten years ago, still with my spouse and family, interacting and enjoying my life.

Nofbar:
I don't think that was a personal attack...

Morbidly A Beast:
To me an evil feeder is one who would force me to eat vegetables! 🤮

Jgatsby:
My type is literal psychopathic abuser, it's ironic I keep meeting the nicest, kindhearted people.

Ex Jock:
Kind of off topic but on the train of where the discussion was going. I think (unfortunately) it will always be an issue in the community with the creepy chats and DMs. People are horny and talk with their dick regardless of what is on a persons profile, and the anonymity of the internet basically lets them get away with it without consequence. They either get blocked or told off, in which they can just make new profiles and do it again. The creeps, doxxing, and stalkers in the community have ruined even careful people, and I’ll never blame anyone for not showing their face or disappearing altogether.

It’s is sad but I don’t see it getting better, because I don’t know what would/could change that would make it. Some people just simply do not care.
They either disturbingly think they deserved it, do it out of retaliation for being ignored/rejected, or think of feeders/ees as sort of like characters instead of person behind the account.

Bigdoug:
My priorities and interests and desires have changed too with getting fatter. A lit more of my life and efforts and wants and needs revolve around food these days.

Munchies:
Glad you are having fun, but I'd be careful making food your priority in most aspects of your life.

I had a feedee that was into extreme weight gain (like I am) and decided to get fat no matter the cost. Went from being a pretty chill guy to a man that pretty much worshipped the gains at all cost.

He was a pretty smart guy at first, but I noticed after he switched to a diet of heavy cream and fast foods, he got dumb real fast. He was missing huge swaths of necessary nutrients, and I couldn't get him to eat better.

Then other aspects of his professional and personal life started getting hit by his choices. I left him when it became clear he was too addicted to change.

So yeah. Have fun with the gains, but be mindful.

BigBallBellyGirl:
Agree with Munchies here. There's definitely nothing inherently "bad" about rearranging your priorities to gain, but it's important to understand A LOT will change. When I decided to regain some lost weight, I was obsessed with it. I was eating and snacking all day, every day, and if I wasn't putting food in my face, I was too bloated to function, existing in a stupor almost. Ultimately, I couldn't concentrate well while working from home, didn't want to clean, and didn't want to go anywhere unless it was to eat. While in theory that was fine (and I did pack on 100 pounds in five months), it became all there was to my life. Again, not inherently bad and certainly a personal choice, but I found I had to be more realistic. Still gaining by the way-- ten to fifteen pounds a month, which some might consider a lot -- and still eating tons of food, just had to reestablish some balance. I said that all to say, there's some merit in checking in with yourself along your journey to make sure what you're doing is still bringing you joy.