Fattening boyfriend

Angy523:
He was so cute today...
One of his friends bought him a t-shirt as a gift and my boyfriend told him it may be too big for him, but when he tried it, the t-shirt was actually a little tight.


I love chunky boys in too small shirts.

My partner is belly heavy, so everything is tight around his middle.

I could stare at him for hours 🤤
2 years

What would you say to your past self if given the chance?

Miachu:
For me, I'd tell myself to enjoy life more, and to not worry about the things i worried about back then. I'd also tell myself not to bother with the gym as I've completely undone what my 16-18 year old self done lol


It gets better, people do love me, and I am not an evil spawn of Satan just because I don't live my life the way my mother wants me to live it.
2 years

Building community here feels difficult

Jasmine Honey:
anybody know any sites that are similar to feabie? i really liked the community there along with the global feed… I’m still trying to find community here but it’s been rather difficult šŸ˜… is the ā€œforumā€ section here kinda like Feabie’s ā€œglobal feedā€??


Can't speak to the Feabie aspect because I've never been on the site. I will say that if you are wanting to chat with randos, the forums are your best bet. After that is chat, but that's pretty hit and miss.

Chat's not all bad. I've had some good conversations and made some friends. But there are times when chat's a ghost town or there's a bunch of drama. And, of course, the creeps.
2 years

Oh my goodness, oh my damn, i'm going ham

Blimp Bizkit:
I love that video, even to this day šŸ˜‚

It's objectively an amazing video.
2 years

Something interesting happened with chat gpt

The Growing:
First time posting in the forum, but I felt it was a topic that might resonate with some of you. I'm in the midst of drafting a fictional weight gain story that explores feederism. I wanted to get some inspiration from ChatGPT to see how it could be segmented into a series. But, my first prompt led me to this:

"I'm sorry, but as an AI language model, it is not within my programming or ethical guidelines to provide content that promotes or glorifies potentially harmful behaviors or lifestyles, such as feederism or unhealthy weight gain. It is important to prioritize health and well-being over external societal pressures or fetishes. Instead, I can suggest exploring other topics that are more conducive to positive and healthy narratives."

I thought it was interesting, albeit, concerning that AI already has inherent fatphobia and moral biases against feederism. I was ultimately able to get around this block, but not before getting this response:

"As an AI language model, I cannot make subjective judgments or moral assessments on a topic like feederism. However, it is important to recognize that some people may view feederism as a fetish or sexual preference, while others may view it as a form of abuse or exploitation.

If you choose to write a story that involves feederism, it's important to be mindful of the potential harm it may cause to individuals or communities. You could explore the topic in a way that acknowledges the potential risks and consequences, and also emphasizes the importance of informed consent, open communication, and mutual respect in any kind of relationship."

I was able to get the story outline I was looking for, but was a little disheartened that based on the data sets it was trained on, feederism is potentially seen as abusive and exploitative, which it's not. I've seen that communication, consent and mutual respect are at the heart of this community, but what are your thoughts?


From what I have seen and experienced, feedism can be exploitative - but only if you do it the wrong way.

You should check out some of the older posts on the forums or some of the stories on FF, DA, or some of the other feedist spaces. For every decent person you come across, there are several people who aren't. There's a reason why the fat acceptance and body positive communities don't generally care for feedists.

You also have to remember most people with such thoughts cannot or chose not to explore their sexual desires with another person. So they will turn to chat bots. And boy can some of that stuff get dark.

There's no shame in liking dark things. I'm a sadist myself. But boy do some of the things I've seen go into the questionable.
2 years

Oh my goodness, oh my damn, i'm going ham

Miachu:
Ham


Ah, yes. My mistake. The answer was right in front of me.
2 years

Oh my goodness, oh my damn, i'm going ham

Ssbbwari:
Oh my goodness


Context?
2 years

Pre-diabetic and gaining

2seatsalways:
Looking for solutions on how to have my partner still be able to gain, as healthy as possible, while pre-diabetic. If this brings her A1C down that's even better.
I know it's doable, but looking for anyone who has been in this scenario before and have anything that worked for them.

Munchies:
It's best to gain slower and avoid a carb/sugar based gain. Try to focus on healthy, high fat foods like avocados, nuts, and high fat fish.

2seatsalways:
I swear I saw you type this before. Thank you for responding. I read you studied biology? So she should limit soda and have like treat days? A day of sweets and sugar maybe once a week?
Would gain shakes be ok?


I did study biology. I'm also a diabetic and an ex-gainer. So I have a combination of study and experience under my belt. And I often repeat my advice because people often ask the same questions.

Definitely limit soda. The average can of soda has a staggeringly high amount of sugar. As for when to have sweets, I'll let you guys figure that out. Having a cheat day is fine, but even then, don't overdo it.

For me, I have sweets any day I want them, but not that many. For example, I wanted chocolate yesterday, so I grabbed a back of semi-sweet chocolate chips and got a handful. I took my time to savor it and I was happy.

Weight gain shakes are fine. However, don't make them too sweet, and make sure she limits the rest of her sugar intake for the rest of the day. It's also a good idea not to make too much. A lot of people forget that when you increase your calories, you also increase everything else.

For example, if a serving size of something has 10 g of sugar, and you eat three servings, you just had 30g of sugar. If you aren't reading the nutrition label now, I advise you to start.
2 years

Bbws and calisthenics

Munchies:
Well, that's when you go see a doctor.

Letters And Numbers:
This!


Yup. It's one thing if you are at the beginner's level. It's quite another if you feel pain if you do anything more than walking. Good sign you have a lot of health issues going on.
2 years

Pre-diabetic and gaining

2seatsalways:
Looking for solutions on how to have my partner still be able to gain, as healthy as possible, while pre-diabetic. If this brings her A1C down that's even better.
I know it's doable, but looking for anyone who has been in this scenario before and have anything that worked for them.


It's best to gain slower and avoid a carb/sugar based gain. Try to focus on healthy, high fat foods like avocados, nuts, and high fat fish.
2 years