FF Team:
Hi Munchies,

Thanks for this report, can you let us know the mobile device and browser you are using so we can look into this.

Thanks!
c00kie
FF Team

AaronM:
Around 15 years ago I injured my back and now it causes me tremendous pain to move around in any way.

The stress, ridiculous levels of pain and sudden sedentary life I now lead produced around 60lbs of visceral lard. I don't even look fat....more like very full.

I'm totally not a gainer and my body is far too weak to hold all this weight. I hate my new self, tremendously regret my avoidable injury and feel like every particle of my being is rotting like a zombie due to nerve pain.

Not exactly a happy story, but well...there we are....

Milhause:
My wife knows I’m a FA. Since we met she’s been on the heavier side but she didn’t express any desire to know more about feedism or discuss it further when I told her about it. 


A few weeks ago she went back on Weight Watchers. I was bummed but her happiness is the #1 priority so I left it alone. She was eating salads for a week and stopped her after dinner snacking. 


Cut to the last week, she requested we get Dairy Queen. What surprised me is she ordered a size up from her usual and added in some extra candy bits. A day later, we got lunch at Wendy’s and she ordered a large size combo with a non-diet soda. (She rarely does this.)

Then last night, I’m folding some laundry while she was scrolling on her phone. I was nearly done when I playfully tossed a shirt at her to indicate that I’d like some help. She had a big grin and said, “What? I thought you wanted a fat, happy housewife?”

(I admitted to her once that the reason I work so hard to get the house chores done is because I love the idea of a fat, happy housewife that doesn’t have to do anything.)

This is the first time she’s acknowledged that convo and it was definitely in a flirty way, which kinda threw me. I was so surprised that all I could respond with was, “Well I DO want that, but laundry goes faster with help.”

Then last night on the couch she moved my hand so it was resting on her belly/side rolls.

She’s definitely gained a little weight lately. But I was preparing for weight loss and now she seems to either be okay with food freedom or even kinda joking about my fetish. I have no idea how to navigate this. 

Eating Dude:
Hi,

I gained about 40-45lbs actively since I heard about this. It took me about 1,5 years.The pounds came just because I ate what I want. After some months of eating less (not by instance) I lost a bit and then gained it back and so on.

Some weeks I stuffed my face with 4500 calories a day and I loved eating a lot - still love it.

But now with 203lbs and 5,97ft (bmi about 27,7) I realised that my face got extremely chunky compared to maybe 194lbs.

My concern:
On one hand I want to loose weight maybe to 190lbs because then I like my face more. On the other hand I don't want to get skinnier on my belly and everything, because I love my chubby body! I'm even excited to see what I'd look like with 220lbs. But because of my face and double chin I'm a bit scared to gain more.

Has anyone experienced something similar? What would you advise?

Munchies:
Until you can decide what you want, just maintain for now.

Eating Dude:
But if maintaining means also occasionally eating two pizzas for dinner just because I want it =longterm weight gain?

Eating Dude:
Hi,

I gained about 40-45lbs actively since I heard about this. It took me about 1,5 years.The pounds came just because I ate what I want. After some months of eating less (not by instance) I lost a bit and then gained it back and so on.

Some weeks I stuffed my face with 4500 calories a day and I loved eating a lot - still love it.

But now with 203lbs and 5,97ft (bmi about 27,7) I realised that my face got extremely chunky compared to maybe 194lbs.

My concern:
On one hand I want to loose weight maybe to 190lbs because then I like my face more. On the other hand I don't want to get skinnier on my belly and everything, because I love my chubby body! I'm even excited to see what I'd look like with 220lbs. But because of my face and double chin I'm a bit scared to gain more.

Has anyone experienced something similar? What would you advise?

Encourager Queer Guy:
I know it's quite common, I am just fascinated by that process and how it happens.
is there a specific incidence that triggers the switch or does it happen over time?
are there signes? is it easy to accept and adapt to the new lifestyle?
is the feeder/FA phase just a form a projection of what will eventually happen?

Blubberbellym:
Hey, I've been asking for help on how to delete my profile, I don't see it anywhere in the settings options, someone said it could be because I'm on a mobile browser instead of the actual website. But I'm sure there's a way it can be done regardless. Can someone please help me?

Morbidly A Beast:
Don’t feel pressured into downloading an external app to communicate with someone. That’s sus behavior, I would honestly report them because people like that are not real. correct me if I’m wrong but isn’t that against ToS?