Coming out to friends

Brawcup:
No one has mentioned it really, been on a weight plateau for a while now thanks to my metabolism and going through a break up destroying my appetite and regular encouragement.

The main reason I want to share it is because I kinda feel like it is a part of me and although I will say I'm very flexible when it comes to the type of person I find attractive, chubby and starter-belly sizes have always been my 10/10 and when my friends and I are talking about a cute/hot person who goes by or some celeb, the conversation can lead to what we like about them or taking about certain features and I don't really feel like brushing over or ignoring such a big part of my tastes.

While I may not go into depth with the kink or fetish side of things. I do wish I could share a little bit about my likes and such with a few people who I trust. (some already know I don't mind bigger people but don't know that it is my main preference)

We are certainly an open bunch when it comes to sexual stuff, one of the group has been using OF for a few years to help with their bills, making no secret about it and another while straight is always being a tease with me. (since he knows I like the tall and skinny type...my second fav body type ha ha ha).


Nice. I have some non-feedist friends that know I'm a feeder. They don't understand, but they don't treat me differently.
2 years

Survey: feederim or feedism

Neyu:
s.surveyplanet.com/ohgmyto7

BlackBarbie108 inspired me. So I made a little
own survey myself. Hope you like it.

s.surveyplanet.com/ohgmyto7

Looked at the survey. Imo, I think that feedism is a better label than feederism. But not because feedism is feedee-centric. If that was the case, it should be feedee-ism.

Instead, feedism is more focused on the act of feeding itself. So, feeders, feedees, mutual gainers, gainers, and encouragers would fall under this label. Meanwhile, feederism would be just feeders and feedees.

Seeing that gainers and encouragers started in the LGBTQIA+ community before being adopted into the more heterosexual feederism community, (which was more patriarchal than it is now) I see feedism as a sign of a healthier, more inclusive community.

(Now whether is actually is is a different story.)
2 years

Fattening boyfriend

Munchies:
Sounds like it won't be long before he hits 200 lbs. How big are you hoping he'll become?

Angy523:
I would say 220-230


As things are now, he'll be there by at least summer 2023. Maybe sooner.
2 years

Fattening boyfriend

Angy523:
Update: He gained some weight, but he felt guilty because he ate too much in the last days so he wanted to go running. He didn't do it anyway. I played so much and so often with his belly and he started now to ask me to do it if I don't do it. Also he gets really horny when I kiss his belly. He asked me to hand feed him a few times and he started to eat a little even after he is full (he usually stopped when he was full, now he asks me if he should eat more)


Sounds like it won't be long before he hits 200 lbs. How big are you hoping he'll become?
2 years

Fat fetish/feederism study

BlackBarbie108:
surveymonkey.com/r/QR8PF96

Hello all! Black Barbie here smiley

If you've interacted a lot with me, you know I'm a very academic and numbers-oriented feedee. I've created an anonymous 3-minute survey to potentially aid in understanding our community better from an outside perspective, collect insightful data, and help contribute to the broader conversation! I've seen a lot of people talk and theorize ABOUT us. I want to go deeper than that to create a more whole picture of our community, dispel any harmful ideas about us, and promote educated discussion!

So if you have time to complete this anonymous survey, I'd be very appreciative and grateful!

surveymonkey.com/r/QR8PF96


Fascinating. I am curious as to what you'll do with the data. I look forward to seeing the break down.
2 years

Gaining as a feeder

Angy523:
Update:
He is 189.5
I'm 180, but I'll start to diet tomorrow.

Munchies:
Tell us how it goes.

Angy523:
Update: him - 193
me - 181

I know I didn't lost weight, but we went to eat fast food a few times in the last days and he also bought a lot of sweets and snacks so I'm happy I didn't gain more.


The only way this will work is if the two of you get into contrast. Happy couples tend to put on weight - even in vanilla relationships. Plus, eating habits tend to rub off.
2 years

Using olive oil to gain?

Albee:
I think it may be a good idea, but I have no experience. Can something go wrong with drinking olive oil?

Daniel5_1997:
Like OP, I am looking for a healthier alternative to heavy cream as high LDL cholesterol (the bad kind) is a common issue in my family. Ironically, it seems olive oil may actually have LDL cholesterol reducing properties which is cool.

I am starting an olive oil based gaining cycle today. Will update on my progress each week.


Please use it for cooking and not for drinking. It will give you the squirts if you drink it.
2 years

I'm overeating since 2 months and not gaining :(

Sweetpapi:
Thanks for answers! Now I know that it was a silly question 🙄😊 I don't have extremely fast metabolism, I used to be fatter and ate a lot less than now... But some time ago, I lost weight very quickly (not even intentionally!) and I did not expect that gaining weight again will be such a tedious work! 😉 if anyone else has any opinions, I'll be glad to hear from you! ❤️
Greets from Poland

Fatchance:
Wait, based on what you just wrote you need to get some blood work done. That sounds like a hyperactive thyroid and that can cause lots of other issues besides not being able to gain weight!

Sweetpapi:
Thanks!
I suspected it, because I have acne since couple years and no external medicaments helps. But I didn't know it could have an effect on metabolism as well!
I'll do blood tests immediately and let you know!

Munchies:
The thyroid controls the metabolism. Rapid, unintentional weight loss is one of many symptoms.

Sweetpapi:
Hello again! I had blood tests, and based on lab norms my thyroid hormones are ok! I'm surprised, I was sure that something was going to be wrong, because some other symptoms also indicated an overactive thyroid... All the tests are good, only choresterol a few percent too high.

Moreover, still no weight gain, it's already 45 days eating 5500kcal at 55kg 🤷 I don't know what's going on smiley
Are there any supplements that support fat absorption or similar thing? Recently I read here at the forum about something that someone adds to their cocktails, but forgot what was it.

Greets from Poland everyone


Going back to what I said, it might be your metabolism is too high. But also, it's on;y been 45 days. That's not that long. Be patient.
2 years

How to make someone fat without them noticing

Southernman421:
I had one person who was a feeder I met from these types of sites that jokingly made a comment about putting something in my drink. I stopped talking to them. They made the comment after we met up, she fed me, and this was the next day. They admitted it was a joke.

I've heard stories of people trying to manipulate food or add stuff to it and it absolutely gives me nightmares. I had one potential feeder I was talking to tell me she wanted to drug me so i didn't realize what was going on. That's the type of shit that gives all involved in this a bad name.

I think there is a definite line between enabling or influencing verses doing things without consent which is wrong.

Ordering extra food for delivery, keeping the house well stocked with food and snacks, buying new items from the store to try that might be more fattening, or surprising your feedee/significant other with their favorite coffee or ice cream in my opinion seems pretty harmless. Asking them if they'd rather stay in and order pizza and watch Netflix instead of going to the gym. Buying a lite and a regular version of the same type of beer. Buying things in bulk. Encouraging and enabling is okay in my opinion. It's still their choice to decide if they want it or want to consume it. Its transparent and in plain sight. Every feeder in the history of feeding has done something enabling like that.


I'm personally more into enthusiastic consent. Unless the person explicitly wants me to fatten them up, I won't do anything.

I also really, really like begging. Just does it for me.

Ever have a feedee say "Please, please fatten me up mistress/master. I've been a very good pig for you?" Ain't nothing else like it.
2 years

Shake your groove thing

Munchies:
Few things pair as beautifully as belly dancing and fat bellies.

Neyu:
Look what I've found.



Man, I haven't watched this video in *years*.

She's actually pregnant, which makes this whole thing even more impressive.
2 years