Seeing people get fat is, generally speaking, attractive. However, knowing your directly responsible is even better.
Celiamarie:
Absolutely! And then thinking about how I'll make her even fatter later...[/quote]
It's the best.
There are clothes that my partner will never wear again because he destroyed them with his fat. It's great.
2 years
Celiamarie:
For myself, I think a lot of what I enjoy with my feedee inherently comes with the fattening. While I enjoy watching her eat, it's the fact that I know that every bite is making her fatter that gets me.
Seeing people get fat is, generally speaking, attractive. However,
knowing your directly responsible is even better.
2 years
Sphys:
Cycles?
Yes. They gain as much as possible for a certain period of time before taking a break.
For example, you might gain as much as you can for two weeks before giving your body time to adjust.
2 years
PrimitiveDesires:
Definitely don't have to grow or fatten someone to be a feeder. Most of my jobs have been in kitchens for the simple fact that I love to cook food and sharing it with others. Not even in a sexual way it's just satisfying to feed people, to hear what flavors or textures they like and watching then enjoy their food.
Granted when it comes to a partner or an individual whom I find very attractive, then sure I'm full of deeper desires to fatten them up and play into the other sides of being a feeder.
As a home cook, I find it very satisfying when people enjoy my cooking. It's not even a fetish thing. It's about a job well done. I'd say it's on par with making a well-received painting.
2 years
Sphys:
As the subject says, I'm new, so I don't really know how stuff works and I thought I might as well ask a couple of here rather than trying to figure out what exactly to google.
On that note, first is something every new guy probably asks; is there any sort of relatively healthy way to gain? I know that after a point the weight itself will cause issues unavoidably, but is it possible to get someone to reach large sizes, maybe say a range of 300+ or 400 or something for example, without such a concern for diabetes or such? Or is that a pipe dream you'll only see in fiction?
If there isn't such a safe way to go about it, then what's generally considered the best way? Does using muscle shakes work fine or does that cause problems I forgot to consider? Since I dunno how diet stuff works
Thanks for anyone that helps, I might have other questions but that's what comes to mind for now
Slow and steady wins the race. It's extremely tempting to do rapid gains. However, they are unsustainable for a number of reasons. Examples include:
Gaining faster than your body can handle
Food is expensive
Clothes are expensive
Struggling to meet your calorie goals
Indigestion and constipation
The list goes on. Some of this can be avoided if you gain in cycles like a lot of uses here that do rapid gains.
2 years
Morbidly A Beast:
what the heck is consensual non-consent
PolyPinoyPuppy:
There are hundreds of articles that can explain it better within more traditional BDSM contexts. Within feederism it would be something like tying your struggling feedee to the bed as you fill their stomach with gainer shake as they protest being "force-fed,"maybe with some kidnapping roleplay, but where you both agree to the activity beforehand, because the feedee would get off to that kind of domination, and have tools like safewords and pre-negotiated hard-boundaries to avoid actually violating the feedee's consent.
Some people get off on feeling helpless and under someone else's control. My partner loves it when I'm being an evil feeder - goes out of his way to get me in that mood.
Of course, there are regular check ins and I keep the situation highly monitored. We have a safe word, but he's never needed to use it.
2 years
Munchies:
Being a feeder means different things to different people. There's so much diversity that the most succinct way to describe it is "a person who likes to feed."
That said, I get off on spoiling my feedee and being responsible for his transformation.
S67:
I see! Thank you for replying[/quote]
Of course! I also want to point out that being a feeder doesn't mean that you also have a weight gain kink or even a fat kink. There are feeders who enjoy feeding, but prefer slim or in-shape feedees. There's also feeders that enjoy fat partners, but aren't interested in the weight gain aspect.
There are so many different ways to be a feeder that a vague definition is really the only way to include them all.
2 years
Bax99:
what do you mean by "he couldn't handle the weight"?
however I'm interested in knowing how much weight a gainer can gain in about a month and what are the best foods
Morbidly A Beast:
100 pounds is a lot of weight and if your body isn’t strong enough you will struggle heaving yourself around.
There’s no magic food that will make you gain weight fast, you just have to consistently stuff yourself full of food. You can add calories with shakes and stuff if needed.
It was less about struggling to get around and more about health issues.
In fairness, we were relentless.
Anyway, he's losing weight for health-related reasons. I'm fine with it. However, I bring it up as a cautionary tale. If you want to be fat and stay fat, be more mindful of how you gain.
2 years
S67:
So, I've seen a lot of definitions on the internet about the term "feeder", stressing the fact that they merely want to fatten someone up. But I don't know, I think being a feeder is just so much more than that. Don't you agree?
I mean, should we not emphasize what is exciting for a feeder during the meal, including the behavior of the person eating?
For example:
- the fact that they unbutton their pants and/or loosen their belt to breathe better/be more comfortable?
- the fact that they massage their belly to relieve their stomachache and/or to show that they are full?
- the sleepy look (especially after a rich, heavy meal)?
- the compliments about the meal?
- the belly that becomes round and firm after a heavy meal?
- the slow, jerky breathing?
- believing that they have eaten enough because of the amount of food they have ingested and yet they ask for more?
- the little remarks at the end of the meal such as "Is there more?", "I ate too much", "It was delicious"?
Are those examples part of what makes you a feeder, too?
Being a feeder means different things to different people. There's so much diversity that the most succinct way to describe it is "a person who likes to feed."
That said, I get off on spoiling my feedee and being responsible for his transformation.
2 years
RobbyP:
My mind is what one would call "dominant masochist".
Essentially, it is pleased with a sense of invincibility, neither pushed by pain nor pulled by bait. Respect for one's partner is paramount, as always.
Cheers.
Very interesting indeed. This would lead to interesting scenes. I'm a dominant sadist, so it's not my thing. But I desperately want to see how a dominate masochist and a submissive sadist interact.
2 years
