Boyfriend becoming hostile towards my weight gain

Munchies:
From where I sit, this sounds extremely toxic and controlling of him. Again, taking the fetish aspect out of it, it sounds like he's being extremely fatphobic. He's got some personal maturing to do, and I don't think you can help him with that.

Unfortunately, it seems you will have to make a choice. Will you lose weight to keep your boyfriend happy? Or will you keep gaining even if that means breaking up?

Miachu:
I all honesty I'm a bit surprised with all this. he's never been like this before, and when I first told him about my fetish he said he was cool with it, because he likes me for me... But clearly somethings changed.

like i don't want to loose weight, I'm the happiest I've ever been since deciding to gain and let go. I've been in this boat before with the possibility of a break up, this being my 3rd rodeo... but this time o thought it would be different than the other 2. I guess I'm just doomed for failed relationship's.... I'm gonna give him some time to think. kinda ended on a sour note earlier with me hanging up.

But your right, I'll need to make a choice soon

Feederboiii:
I think you may need to factor something else in, with the change to you, there's a strong possibility he's showing interest in somebody else and is trying to push tou into breaking up so he doesn't feel guilty about it.


Can't say you're right, but I can't say you're wrong either. We don't have enough information in that regard.
2 years

Boyfriend becoming hostile towards my weight gain

Munchies:
From where I sit, this sounds extremely toxic and controlling of him. Again, taking the fetish aspect out of it, it sounds like he's being extremely fatphobic. He's got some personal maturing to do, and I don't think you can help him with that.

Unfortunately, it seems you will have to make a choice. Will you lose weight to keep your boyfriend happy? Or will you keep gaining even if that means breaking up?

Miachu:
I all honesty I'm a bit surprised with all this. he's never been like this before, and when I first told him about my fetish he said he was cool with it, because he likes me for me... But clearly somethings changed.

like i don't want to loose weight, I'm the happiest I've ever been since deciding to gain and let go. I've been in this boat before with the possibility of a break up, this being my 3rd rodeo... but this time o thought it would be different than the other 2. I guess I'm just doomed for failed relationship's.... I'm gonna give him some time to think. kinda ended on a sour note earlier with me hanging up.

But your right, I'll need to make a choice soon


He probably meant what he said at the time. But either he didn't expect to lose attraction to you or he didn't appreciate how big you were going to get. It's absolutely tragic, and you deserve better.

I have full faith that you will get to have the love you deserve - a love that doesn't depend on your size. I wish you all the best.
2 years

Boyfriend becoming hostile towards my weight gain

Munchies:
What would he do if you got fat but didn't have a fat fetish?

I never understood people that get bent out of shape over their partner's size. So long as you are healthy and it's not causing any harm, it's dumb for him to be upset about it. This goes for weight loss and weight gain.

My question is, why does he have a problem with your size?

Miachu:
I don't get it either, imo you should love someone for what they are on the inside, not the out

And i spoke with him about it earlier. I didn't go well, ended up becoming a argument. He told me he doesn't know how to feel with the prospect of just watching me continue to get fatter and fatter, And doesn't know if he's finding me physically attractive atm or in the future, depending on who knows how Fat I get. It kinda hurt hearing him say that tbh. He said to me he doesn't just wanna sit there and watch me balloon, and how he misses the old me (Health and fitness obsessed me)


From where I sit, this sounds extremely toxic and controlling of him. Again, taking the fetish aspect out of it, it sounds like he's being extremely fatphobic. He's got some personal maturing to do, and I don't think you can help him with that.

Unfortunately, it seems you will have to make a choice. Will you lose weight to keep your boyfriend happy? Or will you keep gaining even if that means breaking up?
2 years

Boyfriend becoming hostile towards my weight gain

Miachu:
To put a long story short

My current boyfriend has began to show his distaste towards my weight gaining. He knows I'm into this and at first said he didn't care if I gained.

But that's changed now. He's become more vocal about it and asking if I'm going to be stopping now after passing 200 pounds. With him seemingly having a distaste towards my gained weight now

I guess I'm just seeing if any one's been through something similar and some advice maybe


What would he do if you got fat but didn't have a fat fetish?

I never understood people that get bent out of shape over their partner's size. So long as you are healthy and it's not causing any harm, it's dumb for him to be upset about it. This goes for weight loss and weight gain.

My question is, why does he have a problem with your size?
2 years

How many people are into the strongfat look?

Tentacles:
The standard seems to be being into reduced fitness in this community.


Definitely into it. My partner and I are taking a break from fattening him up, and he's been working out. I am looking forward to when he gets that strong fat look.
2 years

August story club - the thief by bcain

Letters And Numbers:
Welcome back to Story Club, and thanks to Stevita for our July story!

This month we have two complimentary stories to read, The Thief (male and female perspectives) by Bcain.

The tagline is: A thief chooses the wrong mark, with fattening consequences.

fantasyfeeder.com/stories/view

fantasyfeeder.com/stories/view

Thank you, Bcain!

Munchies:
Even though the stories are the same overall, I prefer the male one.

Some of it is because I like fat guys, but some of it is because I am sick and tired of the "skinny bitch becomes fat as payback" trope.

But that's just me.


Battybattybattybat:
Agreed and... is that a rose bride stirring that tea?


It appears to be.
2 years

August story club - the thief by bcain

Letters And Numbers:
Welcome back to Story Club, and thanks to Stevita for our July story!

This month we have two complimentary stories to read, The Thief (male and female perspectives) by Bcain.

The tagline is: A thief chooses the wrong mark, with fattening consequences.

fantasyfeeder.com/stories/view

fantasyfeeder.com/stories/view

Thank you, Bcain!


Even though the stories are the same overall, I prefer the male one.

Some of it is because I like fat guys, but some of it is because I am sick and tired of the "skinny bitch becomes fat as payback" trope.

But that's just me.
2 years

Need help for first feeding date

Iwillfeedyou:
So I'll have this feeding date with a beautiful fat girl this weekend and I'm looking for help. She's in her 20's, already quite fat I'd say around 120 kgs, maybe a bmi of 40 already...
I've never done this before with a girl of her size and I was wondering how much she could realisticly eat one night?
She's really motivated she told me she could easily eat 2-3 jumbo pizzas... but I'm really not sure if that's realistic. What do you think? Some experience with this?


It can be possible to eat that much. But you really have to train yourself to eat that much. Your size has nothing to do with it.

That said, it might be smarter to get an extra large pizza or two large pizzas. If she can eat more, you can always get another. If all else fails, they can be leftovers. Maybe you can have whatever she doesn't eat. Some people are into that kind of thing.
2 years

What do you think of stories where popular girls become fat nerdy girls?

Jshep2158:
What would you think of a story where a girl like her


is perfect but unhappy but then becomes happy after quitting salad, stop using hair dye, and ditches her contacts?




It honestly depends on how it's handled. There's nothing wrong with eating salad, using hair dye, or wearing contacts. So if it's handled as a "be true to yourself" story, I think that's fine. Maybe she was trying to be someone she's not, so she gives it up and becomes the chubby nerd.

Many of these popular-to-nerd stories tend to go another gross route, unfortunately. Sometimes, the popular girl has a fall from grace (usually a revenge plot) and becomes "ugly" (aka a fat brunette nerd). Other times, she's an air-headed bimbo that's "improved" by becoming a fat brunette nerd.

Both of these versions are misogynistic. The first one is extremely fatphobic.
2 years

Girlfriend thinks i just have an inflation fetish

ColossalSquid:
Hey so I’ve been dating my girlfriend for about 6 months now but we are long distance and have met up every 2 months or so and are moving to the same place in September. The last holiday we went on I was constantly buying her snacks and meals and asking if she had enough etc. She asked me a couple of weeks ago if I had an inflation fetish because I was always liking seeing her full and have said that I love her full belly. I admitted that I do and now she has started sending me pics and videos of herself rubbing her belly after a big meal. She brought up that I should feed her during sex which we will definitely do when I see her. Even last night we sexted about feeding her and getting her belly big and she was getting super into it. Right now she is skinny maybe 150lbs but doesn’t exercise and lovesss sweets. She has said though that she wouldn’t want to feed every night because she’ll gain weight but then says we will be eating so much together she’ll probably gain some. I think she only thinks that I like the inflation side and doesn’t know anything about the weight gain side. I wouldn’t want to force anything on her if she didn’t want to, just wondering should I bring it up before moving together or see how the feeding sessions go and see if weight gain comes from that anyway.


Just be honest with her. She seems at least open to the fantasy side of things. Even if she doesn't want to gain weight, y'all can make it work.

Also, I don't know what world you are living in, but 150 isn't skinny. Thick or chubby depending on the height, but far from skinny.
2 years