Laidback70:
Its ok, everybody has their bounderies and limits and other people should respect that. I agree here, people some of them are all not there. I learned sometimes to sort past the online freaks and just go along with it as long as its not too raunchy or bad. Nudism like feederism has its bounderies.

Morbidly A Beast:
No one wants to feel hunger it’s terrible and stops you from getting Fat(ter) unless your uncomfortably full you can eat.

TheStoryteller:
I started seeing this woman a few months ago. She’s the first girlfriend I had that’s above normal weight by a large margin.

All my exes were either skinny or normal weight. Weight isn’t a deal breaker for me - I can enjoy sex with people regardless of their weight and I find all sorts of body shapes attractive. I don’t even feel like fat alone can define my attraction - a person can be overweight and still have a body type that’s unappealing to me.

But I’ve always had this fascination with fat. I don’t act on it because I understand that most people dislike being overweight, feel unattractive when they gain weight and such. I feel that way about my own body.

I’m crazy about how big my current gf is.
I wanna grab every inch of her body, is so beautiful. I love seeing her belly spill over when she lies on her side, I love how soft and large her hips are, how her behind is so big I have trouble reaching around it. It’s very apparent I’m enjoying all of this, so much that she even asked me if I’m into bigger girls. I told her the truth, without going into the details.

She’s gained weight since we started dating. Can’t be more than a couple of pounds, but her work outfits are evidently tight and I can’t get enough of it. She isn’t happy about the new poundage so I avoid bringing it up, but damn. I’m conflicted between being happy about her tightening wardrobe and being sad about her getting further away from her desired weight.

I encourage her to lose the weight if she feels unhappy about it. I’m relatively active myself, so I told her she could join my workouts if she’d like.

But I feel like a hypocrite. How can I encourage her to lose weight while I’m fantasizing about popping the buttons on her blouse? I want her to be healthy and happy. My desire for her to gain is part of a fantasy I never thought I’d come close to fulfilling in real life, and I’d never actively pursue against someone’s wishes.

Should I tell her about it explicitly? Is there a good way to explain it without sounding like a freak? I see how FAs are depicted online and in the media and I don’t want her to get the wrong idea. I also feel like the odds of her finding out by accidentally stumbling upon an open ff tab are relatively high. How do I say “I love how big you are and I find it sexy that you’ve gained weight” without making her self-conscious about it?

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Falcor:
As I mentioned here, I don't mind gaining or loosing weight, depending on my partners likes/dislikes.
My current partner (for some years) likes me fit, and when we met she was also pretty fit... As time went by, she gained quite a bit, but didn't do anything about it except complain (even though she knows I like her better this way) and kept gaining...
Any way, during our summer vacation, we gained some weight. Even though she gained more weight than I did, it made her tease me about it. For some reason, that made me gain more to the point that I am now at my highest weight ever...
Now here comes the interesting part, last night she started caressing my belly and garbed my love handles, which made me wonder if she is enjoying my new fat layer... I am a bit confused now...
Should I gain more, start losing weight or do nothing?

KindFeeder:
We typically get the thick cut bacon and for the rest of the ground beefs and what not we'll go middle of the road 80/20. Id say for quality of food we are middle as well - we dont shop at Wholefoods but we dont get the cheapest highest (bad) fat food either. Thankfully she isnt that picky when it comes to taste with most foods although she is very picky about fruits and veggies and doesnt get many of those in (ergo why we use fruit/veggie supplements with her meals regularly). Honestly the main stay is the shakes of heavy cream and mass gainer. That is an enormous amount of easy to consume good calories.

Daddysfeeder15:
So my new boyfriend was 18.5 stone but is now 15 stone. He’s quite short though so is still very muchly obese.

He has a big belly and it’s very sensitive to touch, it turns him on when I stroke/jiggle it,

We met in the gym but he likes it when I call him fat, fatty, big bastard etc. As a pet name and he’s even started wanting me to use those names in bed.

I told him I’d like to role play being a PT and tell him he’s not sticking to his diet etc and that I’m going to play with his fat and tease him before riding him. He loves the idea!

Do you think he has the fetish too? Or do you think he’s never been made a fuss of cause most women don’t like fat men?

Angy523:
Update:
He is 189.5
I'm 180, but I'll start to diet tomorrow.

Miachu:
No way! Would never have guessed

Nevermore19:
Who are you talking to dude? 😅

Munchies:
Clearly whoever it was deleted their account.

Nevermore19:
Fair. Just out of curiosity, got any opinions on pregnant cows? Or Hucows?

Quiver:
I love the concept of breeding as kink 😍 the thought of a woman being fattened up and bred like a cow is 👌 pretty nice

Munchies:
If you like dominate women, I have a story that you might like. It's called "The Queen Mother".

Nevermore19:
I have a feeling it involves a good bit of breeding