Fantasy Feeder

Dear ladies of ff

FAMGM:
Social structures foster sexism.

Social structures are neutral. They neither encourage nor discourage sexism. You have confused social structures with value systems.

2 years

Munchies

Munchies:
Honestly, I think we should let OP speak for herself. She can say what her own desires are. We shouldn't put our own views onto her - weight loss or weight gain.

If she responds to this thread, that's fine. We shouldn't push her in one direction or another. That's for her to decide. If she doesn't reply to this thread, that's also fine. It's not our business unless she makes it our business.

Angy523:
Thank you, Munchies!
I actually do not want to gain weight, just how I said before. But I think any ex athlete can confirm that weight gain is a frequent problem, specially for the ones who did sports based on weight classes. That being said, in the past I was close to some eating disorders. So I guess all this things add up to my bf's habits of eating which influenced me lately.

Anyway, I lost already 1kg and I hope I will keep going

2 years

Munchies

My girlfriend wants to gain how much should she is 1kg a week alright???

Jackoh1:
my girlfriend just said she would be happy to gain weight after i talked to her about it and is 1kg a week good is it bad i have no idea first time doing such a thing

That's fine, but you'll probably need to tweak it later on down the line. After all, 1kg a week is 52 kg in a year. That's 208 kg in four years.

2 years

Munchies

Dear ladies of ff

Enas:
The purpose of the forums is to educate, right? There could be more people seeking to educate, and to do it in an effective way. That will have some result. That's why i wrote this thread in the first place! Regardless, i hope that you'll find what you need, comrade! (:

You are correct that patriarchy isn't the source of all society's ills. However, it's an enormous leap from "Wow, women sure do have a hard time" to "We should abolish the system because it hurts everyone and rebuild it from the ground up."

I don't care if you are into anarchy, but how will that help systematized patriarchy? Because patriarchy has been around far longer than capitalism. Abolishing capitalism would not abolish patriarchy.

As I said before, patriarchy is both an individual and a systemic issue. Tackling one without the other is ineffective.

You are focusing on too much at once, and it's making you directionless. You are also not keeping in mind who your audience is. This is a fetish site. People come here to escape and be horny. While there's always space to discuss treating people as equals, no one wants to discuss politics or economics. Even the numerous posts discussing gender issues will only discuss them in the context of the site and fetish.

So, if you want to have these deep, complex discussions, it would be best to do it on a better platform.

2 years

Munchies

Site verification

AaronM:
Okay, I got it! I need to add text in the about me part.

I knew it would be embarrassingly obvious!

Still curious why you don't see the dating bit. Do I need to the unlock social side of things, I wonder?

You don't. I'm sure an admin user will explain it.

2 years

Munchies

Site verification

AaronM:
So I'm trying to get verified as well, but I can only seem to get my profile 97% complete.

Can someone please have a look at my profile and see if I'm missing anything?

Maybe the last 3% is just getting verified? If so I already sent a verification photo and I wait a bit.

Thanks in advance!

Munchies:
Looking at your profile, I think I see the problem. You didn't fill out the dating section. It's possible to have your profile 100% complete and not be verified. I know this because I'm not verified and my profile is at 100%.

AaronM:
Is there anything in particular that you can see? I put in zero kids, but it doesn't actually show up if you do that, so that part looks unfilled out. I tried putting in an actual number and saved it, but that didn't help either...

All I see is your about me and interest section. That's it.

2 years

Munchies

Site verification

AaronM:
So I'm trying to get verified as well, but I can only seem to get my profile 97% complete.

Can someone please have a look at my profile and see if I'm missing anything?

Maybe the last 3% is just getting verified? If so I already sent a verification photo and I wait a bit.

Thanks in advance!

Looking at your profile, I think I see the problem. You didn't fill out the dating section. It's possible to have your profile 100% complete and not be verified. I know this because I'm not verified and my profile is at 100%.

2 years

Munchies

Dear ladies of ff

AaronM:
Well, as you said: the guys are the perpetrators and the patriarchy is the system that allows it happen for the most part. Perhaps you should address them instead of the ladies?

Not sure what women can do about it other than learn a very high level of Kung fu...

Honestly? There's only so much. The sad truth is that no matter what we do or say, most men will not listen until another man says something.

Also, patriarchy is not just a case of gross men being gross. It's also systematized as well. So even if we somehow got every man on FF not to be gross towards women, it wouldn't solve the problem entirely. However, it would help immensely. The more allies we women have, the better.

2 years

Munchies

Being a feeder

MarieTrans:
He's mad at me because of a misunderstanding that I tried to clear up but he wouldn't listen

Yeah, I'm getting those vibes from squish. But, suddenly, the trans statement makes a little more sense.

2 years

Munchies

Being a feeder

IAmSquish:
Just gonna say.... I was there, in chat when this whole thing happened. There are screenshots and perhaps someone needs to get their story straight before bitching about it in public, where everyone can see, and comment. As it is a free platform.

Munchies:
What happened?

IAmSquish:
People were causally chatting, having a good time, then that topic came up. No one was initially attacked and there was a misunderstanding that was tried to be cleared up, but it was like a person didn't want to see it. Then it fizzled as the topic was changed.
I know that might be vague, but that is all I will say on it. The people who were there know the truth.

Duly noted.

2 years

Munchies