Sl2010:
My family is mostly pretty fatphobic and annoyingly direct. Very few filters. They’re well meaning, not exactly toxic, but it rarely makes me feel good about my weight. I don’t get much (I.e., any) positive reinforcement irl

Munchies:
If your family is doing that, then you need to set boundaries with them. Even if they are well-meaning, there's no need to demean you.

That said, it is a good idea to take care of your health while you gain. Make sure you are getting all the nutrition you need, stay moderately active, and don't skip checkups and appointments because you're afraid of being told to lose weight.

Sl2010:
I have set boundaries. They don’t say fatphobic things around me any more. They don’t comment on what I eat or how much I’ve gained either. But lack of saying is still lack of positive reinforcement. It’s why I’m here

Greekburger:
Fuck you ***

Munchies:
Hey, man. This isn't a good look for you. Don't do that here because that will get you in trouble with the mod team.

HungryPiggyBoy:
Bro literally just lives on this site, has an opinion on everything 😂

Sl2010:
My family is mostly pretty fatphobic and annoyingly direct. Very few filters. They’re well meaning, not exactly toxic, but it rarely makes me feel good about my weight. I don’t get much (I.e., any) positive reinforcement irl

Finish8000:
I mean, I've heard of people feeling hungrier as they grow bigger, but can someone become I guess "addicted" to constant stuffing?

Morbidly A Beast:
Over Eat
Increased Appetite
Larger Capacity
Weight Gain

Rinse & Repeat
It’s an endless cycle and your body rewards you for it by releasing dopamine so you end up forming habits and creates an infinite feedback loop.

Elis137:
I finally started gaining again thanks to my feeder boyfriend lol. I have gained five pounds so far and I haven't seen any changes. What should I expect in the future (he wants to make me huge like 200lbs)? We are currently doing long-distance until the fall and when we see each other again he is going to be stuffing me nonstop and funnel-feeding me. How quickly will the weight even pile on?

Munchies:
Sounds like fun times and lots of pounds are in your future.

A word of caution. There's a model named Mochiibabii (or Mochiifeedii on some sites). She did something similar to what you want to do with the nonstop stuffing and funnel-feeding. The food bill was insanely expensive (tens of thousands of dollars funded by her viewers, thankfully) and got fat faster than her body could cope.

I don't think she's mad about it, but she started getting out of breath just from sitting up among other things.


Also, as a feeder that has done all day stuffings for extended periods of time with my feedee (longest is a month) it is really hard to stop once you get started. I carefully had him transition back to normal eating, but that took several weeks. He had strong cravings to be completely stuffed, and if I wasn't his domme, he'd go back to stuffing his face.

Finish8000:
I mean, I've heard of people feeling hungrier as they grow bigger, but can someone become I guess "addicted" to constant stuffing?

Munchies:
From what I've understand, this has been a problem for years for the big & tall crowd.

Spoop Skerry:
Damn. I am big. And tall.

Morbidly A Beast:
Big and Tall sizes despite being better, ultimately do not accommodate bodies that are specially round around the middle. You’re either very tall and beefy or have a big chest, they need a maternity size but for men with giant tanker bellies

Munchies:
I know you mean this practically, but that sounds super sexy.

Morbidly A Beast:
Fat guys having clothes that fit them right or men just wearing maternity sizes? Lol I guess idk what makes it maternity vs regular I assume there’s just more space around the middle right?

Chubster87:
How do ye stay motivated.Ive been gaining on and off and everytime I gain I loose motivation and then loose the weight..ive recently gained about 15 pounds and have gone up a pants size.Ive been off work for about 4 weeks and I loved gaining. Now that im going back tomorrow ive lost interest in gaining and im beginning to feel like I should loose weight again but if I can get over this feeling for a few weeks I feel I'll finally get past my weight wall and be well on my way to a fat life..how do ye do it?

Munchies:
Motivation is person specific. What works for one doesn't work for all.

That said, I've noticed the biggest reasons people struggle with commitment are treating weight gain like a job/chore or having conflicting thoughts about gaining weight.

Primal23:
To add to what you said. I also think people don't realize the time and money it takes to gain. Most people here, myself included, can't wait to gain. We'd all love to have it happen fast. But, that's just not how it works. It costs quite a bit to get thousands of extra calories a day. Then having to keep at it long enough to gain a noticeable amount. Which causes people to get discouraged and lose motivation. Just like losing weight works best as a long term lifestyle change. Gaining is the same. Slowly ramping up the changes. Eating more and more as you adjust to it.

Even with things like heavy cream, which is probably the most calories you can buy for your money besides straight oil, take time to gain a noticable amount. Don't get me wrong these things can and do work. I've had good success with heavy cream. But, gaining is a marathon, not a sprint.

With all that said. Gaining is definitely possible, no matter who you are. There wouldn't be an obesity epidemic if it were difficult. It's a matter of getting ones expectations in line with reality. Hope that helps a bit. Best of luck!

Chubster87:
How do ye stay motivated.Ive been gaining on and off and everytime I gain I loose motivation and then loose the weight..ive recently gained about 15 pounds and have gone up a pants size.Ive been off work for about 4 weeks and I loved gaining. Now that im going back tomorrow ive lost interest in gaining and im beginning to feel like I should loose weight again but if I can get over this feeling for a few weeks I feel I'll finally get past my weight wall and be well on my way to a fat life..how do ye do it?

Emmiejaja:
When they don’t disappear after one conversation😍