needafeeder wrote:
Yes!! Kidnap me, lock me away from society, feed me as fat as your heart desires.

FemaleFatAdmirer wrote:
With a weight gain like your BF has experienced, people are going to notice, even if you're not doing "public humiliation." Make sure he knows they notice. Tell him that a mutual friend commented to you about his weight gain. When a stranger stares at BF's belly and looks away in disgust, tell your BF about it after you are out of the situation and there's nothing he can do about it.

Make some before and after pictures of his gain.

Ask him about his early experiences with fat, for example were his fat relatives told to avoid eating certain foods, or kids at school bullied using certain fat slurs. Roleplay those situations from his childhood with him in the role of the fat person.

If you have a habit of doing things like gently squeezing his shoulder and saying I love you whenever you walk past him. Replace that sometimes with squeezing his moob and saying dam you're fat, so he never knows which one to expect.

Chubgrrl wrote:
Thanks for your reply. The shame and embarrassment already IS a big turn-on. So I guess what I was saying is that it is doesn't always feel good (even when it DOES feel good) to be turned on by shame and embarrassment. But I guess that is just the way it is for me.

xpand wrote:
Of course course I would love to continue over indulging and pigging. I didn't just enjoy overeating, I was incredibly aroused by it, but I didn't like the consequence for it, actually getting fat, as opposed to fantising about it.

In private I was very turned on by getting fat, feeling it gather around my body, burying my ripped torso in fat knowing my body was expanding a little more each day, but I didn't enjoy the real life embarrassment of my body looking so fat in front of my family and close friends (funny, but I liked female friends seeing how fat I was getting, it was in front of male friends that I felt the most embarrassment and shame) .My fat and food fetish was always a private thing, but when my body started getting fat (and so quickly) it was clear to everyone I hadnt just let myself go a little, but after years of clean eating I had given into junk food and gotten very greedy. I wasn't just embarrassed I was feeling a lot of guilt and shame over what I was doing my body, after years of enjoying having such a fit body, being so confident in it, and just giving it up and becoming just another fatty, and all over a suppressed sexual food fetish that I lost control playing around on fantasy feeder.

I didn't just lose my body, I lost the confidence that went with it, I admit to my ripped body making me feel a little superior, particularly when I'd get my top off and show it. Once I started getting fat I was becoming very self conscious about my body around particular people and it was certainly making me feel inferior around my now fitter bodied friends.

Now that I am gotten my athletic body back, I am certainly welcoming the confidence that has returned with it. I won't be giving it up again for a few donuts.

TheGreedyFox wrote:

Oh, well thank you! That's what I'm here for, just doing my part in making the discussions here as enjoyable reading as possible


Good luck I'm rather into the idea of having a second feeder too!! While my girlfriend is entirely behind the whole feedism thing, and has so far given me some amazing encouragement that's had some fairly noticeable results it's not the primary thing that gets her off, she's just entertaining my desires so it would be nice to have a third party who is JUST there to keep me fed and to keep the enthusiasm going!

kaia wrote:
I've always had an attraction to super sized BBWs with their massive rolls of soft, squishy fat, and have harbored a fascination with enormous body parts on women. Because I find SSBBWs so attractive, I long to be able to embody that ideal myself someday. I love the way fat looks and feels, so the more fat there is, the better!

While I can appreciate the beauty of other women's bodies in a wide variety of shapes and sizes, from chubby to SSBBW - for myself personally, I have a very specific aesthetic preference and will never be satisfied until I am well over 500 lbs. My ideal is closer to 800 lbs but I know that I will never be able to achieve that weight in this lifetime.

MilkandHoney wrote:
I couldn't agree with you any more! I love everything about the slob fetish from art to fiction and even real life practices lol. I also love how its becoming more and more accepted or at least getting out there more. With popular artist and authors bringing it up in their work, models incorporating it into clips, and role players being a bit braver of bringing it up. It works well into fat fetish as a taboo since we don't want the world to see us as fat lazy slobs but the excess that comes with it is too alluring