There's the Korean movie "Plump Revolution". It does have decent production values, but the character really doesn't gain much. Not sure if the actress herself gained anything but it's possible. It's a little frustrating to watch because it could have been good (not great!) movie with just a few changes.

It should be enough that others notice. At least 12%, maybe 15%.

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I helped one woman with this problem:
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Note that what NOT to say is at least as important as what TO say.

Many feedees report being very conflicted about gaining when they start out.

But after they gain some indeterminate amount--after they "get over the hump"--their doubts about gaining go away.

Reasons can be:

They enjoy it more than they thought.

Whatever they feared about it turns out not to be (much of) a problem.

They realize how hard it would be to change their minds and go back to being thing and so just accept it.


Have you had this experience? How much did you have to gain before you were over the hump? Was it a sudden epiphany or a gradual thing?

If you have any details to share, feel free.

You're welcome to illustrate any of mine! "Self Discovery" would be interesting...

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I've got no hard data on this but: I've noticed that people who binge like that once a week or more often lose control and can't stop gaining, even if they manage to stop stuffing like that.
Some love it so much they don't care, but others find it problematic.

Do you ever eat so much you can't take a deep breath? If so, how often do you eat like that?

I can certainly imagine scenarios where I would.

E.g. say I coaxed her into gaining, and she ended up getting bigger than she liked and couldn't lose the weight. Even if she had made the choice to gain herself and had accepted the risk, I'd feel guilty.

Just keep tabs on which of her clothes fit. Don't let her throw away clothes that are too tight.