Arame:
I didn’t even bother reading that. Let’s just agree to keep our distance from each other 🤷🏾‍♂️

Arame:
Ok Lately,

Ive been seeing feedees and Gainers refer to themselves or what they’re doing(usually stuffing or inflating) as a blueberry. So what does blueberry mean as it relates to feederism?

Bigfella99:
Just thought it would be a fun topic to discuss lol. Do you think one has better seating etiquettes than the other? Have you personally noticed more women or men breaking chairs or furniture. Does one seem to be more gentle when seating or plop down violently when they sit. Have you personally broke a chair by improperly sitting in it, like plopping, leaning on the legs. For me I’ve witnessed 3 women, 1 broke a wooden dining room chair leaning on the back legs,another broke through the seat of a recliner from repeatedly plopping down into it and the last broke a folding camping chair( probably just weathered from being outside)and a wooden glider rocking chair she was just simply sitting in it when the spring board snapped in half under the seat cushion. I had a guy friend bust a wooden dining room chair from leaning on the front legs. Would like to hear everyone’s stories!

Beachside Farmer:
I would believe it as well. Have always been curious how much men take up these sites. Surely nothing can be 100% accurate but this site alone can see that. Though I do believe there are probably less women who are open about being interested in this fetish than those who are proud of it. Could make for an interesting study. Great work!

Munchies:
It has nothing to do with being proud. They get run off the platform. To be a public female FA/feeder is to deal with aggressive male feeders who try to manipulate you into being their feedee, desperate and horny male feeders that violate all of your boundaries, and scammers who think you are a man and harass you for money.

You could be a gold star lesbian and the men will try to harass you into submission. I've seen many a female FA/feeder flee in terror.

The only reason I am still here is because nothing these creeps do can top the horrors I have survived irl. If I wasn't made of sterner stuff, I'd have been run off within the first week of being on here.

Growing Rolls:
I'm really sorry you’re experiencing this—it’s not okay at all. No one should have to put up with that kind of behavior. To all FFA/female feeders out there: Stay strong, and know that you’re not alone in feeling this way.

Beachside Farmer:
I would believe it as well. Have always been curious how much men take up these sites. Surely nothing can be 100% accurate but this site alone can see that. Though I do believe there are probably less women who are open about being interested in this fetish than those who are proud of it. Could make for an interesting study. Great work!

Munchies:
This is fascinating. Based on my anecdotal experiences, I am inclined to believe these statistics. That said, I would be interested in seeing your raw data or methodology.

Curiousv:
As I was only interested in a very rough estimate, I did not do a very deep study, I just let a LLM go through the most prominent sources to compile this info.

link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-009-9580-9

link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-009-9580-9

Edit: weird, the second link is shown wrongly in the text. Is there an issue with having more than one link in one reply?

Curiousv:
I did some research about the prevalence of FA and feederism, and it coincided with what I already assumed about the distribution of feeders and feedees from my online and real world experience.

For every 1000 men who are fat admirers (FA):

- There are about ~50–150 women with a feederism fetish, attracted to their own weight gain
- There are about ~3000–4500 obese women (BMI 35+) (regardless of the fetish)
- There are about ~300–600 extremely obese women (BMI 50+)

So if you are a man looking for a woman who is into the kink, your chances are low, as there are only 50-150 of them per every 1000 of you.
However, if you are just looking for a BBW big enough for her weight to be very noticeable, there are 3-4 of them or more, for every one of you.
Even SSBBWs who are big enough for their weight to significantly affect their life, there are plenty of them to have a reasonable chance to find one, but then you have to be prepared for them to feel miserable about their weight and hopefully you can love them for themselves and accept that they don't want to gain any weight, and hopefully still make their life better by loving them and accepting them, compared to a non-FA who might not find them as beautiful as you do.

GainingLuvHandles:
So I recently seen IG reel of a celebrity (who use to weigh 500lbs) stating his struggle foods coming up:

Syrup sandwiches
Sugar sandwiches
Buttered Tortillas

I found it interesting that selection above is very fattening. I'm curious, what is your "struggle" food? (I'm honestly willing to try some)

The***teen:
Just gain weight way to fast, overeat constantly, i have stretchmarks all the way from my fupa to my tits, they used to be breight red.
I also got absolutly obsessed with wanting my belly to hang more and be completely covered in stretchmarks 😍😍

David Feedee:
don't be shy fatty, show the class

Munchies:
Have some class. He is not your personal spank bank.

David Feedee:
i've been in contact with him he's really nice and an inspiration for me, and he obviously posts a lot lol, dont be annoying

Morbidly A Beast:
I shaved my beard off and I always get nervous when I’m about to shave because how it might look underneath and I gotta say I’m not bothered this time by my face fat so much I was really feeling it