Fatbellyfeedee:
Mine is very cliche. I always felt some type of way watching episodes of shows where characters would gain a lot of weight. I also used to stuff pillows under my shirt
Canuck:
over the last 20+ years i've talked to a whole lot of people in this community, and i agree with you calling this a "cliche," both seem very common for many people.
the other that i have heard from many is seeing weight loss advertisements with the before/after pictures, and reversing them, lol!
It's really funny how often this has happened. I remember my favorite episodes of any cartoon growing up were always the weight gain episodes.
3 months
Munchies:
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what's something you wish you knew before you dipped your toes into feedism
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Enas:
What counts as "dipping my toes into feedism"?
Im asking because it seems like there is really nothing that would be of much importance to feedism.
For example what you described in your last paragraph, it has to do with relationships, and the communication in them, far more than it has to do with feedism.
"Dipping your toes" means you are a beginner. And relationships are a huge part of feedism, so it counts.
But as for what I'm looking for, you can put anything down you like. Imagine if you could go back in time to the early days for your feedist journey, what would you tell yourself? What do you wish someone told you?
3 months
Hello all!
I know that FF has a lot of newbies as well as people who wish to practice feedism, but are unable to do so for one reason or another. I thought it could be fun for those of us to talk about things a novice might not think to ask.
So, to my fellow feedists - feedees, feeders, mutual gainers, and everyone else - what's something you wish you knew before you dipped your toes into feedism
I'll go first. I wish I knew how important it was for feedees and feeders to be on the same page about expectations. My first feedee wanted to get fat fast, and I wanted him to get fat sustainably. In hindsight, this is something we should have discussed before getting together.
3 months
Finickyfeedee:
In terms of avoiding bringing up her trauma, the best thing to do is talk to her ahead of time about boundaries and preferences for the feeding. You should also avoid repeating anything you know/suspect her family would say unless she’s explicitly said she likes it (so no “you’re getting so fat” dirty talk unless she’s told you she wants to hear it, for example). Maybe focus more on the flavors/pleasure of the food and less on her appearance, aside from generally saying she’s sexy.
This is very important. In general, it's good to discuss boundaries and things ahead of time. If you think of something in the moment you didn't discuss, ask her if she wants it.
3 months
LoLbreadplease:
They're not glamorous, but peanut butter and jelly sandwiches... Make them with plenty of peanut butter and jelly, each sandwich can be over 500 calories. Make a plate of them, splurge on a half gallon of chocolate milk, and sit down to watch a show. See what happens 🤷
Impossible:
I can probably eat that daily multiple times and I'd still have abs! 😉
Munchies:
Only if you offset it with an appropriate amount of exercise.
A lot of gaining advice is bulking without the gym.
Impossible:
I'm naturally resistant to fat and will only gain muscle 😉💪.
Ah. This is a fantasy thing for you. I see.
3 months
Fatbellyfeedee:
Meanwhile they’re still not cracking down on pro ana content. I literally started getting recommended pro ana content after this change to their content policy which is so insane to me
Horrible. Feedism isn't inherently self-harm (although it can be), but pro-ana content is EXCLUSIVELY self-harm.
3 months
LoLbreadplease:
They're not glamorous, but peanut butter and jelly sandwiches... Make them with plenty of peanut butter and jelly, each sandwich can be over 500 calories. Make a plate of them, splurge on a half gallon of chocolate milk, and sit down to watch a show. See what happens 🤷
Impossible:
I can probably eat that daily multiple times and I'd still have abs! 😉
Only if you offset it with an appropriate amount of exercise.
A lot of gaining advice is bulking without the gym.
3 months
Karenjenk:
Not a man,
but
I love MOOBS
Guys, if you want to grow them specifically
get some Birth control pills and overload
Boundandfeed:
Will they still be as sensitive to touch? I ❤️ my nipples played with.
Do not do this. I already explained the consequences. This is how you end up in the hospital with an expensive ER bill followed by several follow up appointments.
You live in America. Why risk medical bankruptcy on something so dumb?
3 months
Morbidly A Beast:
men and women posting about their non-consenting exes/partners is the behavior that should be ridiculed
frankly no one cares and you should learn from this
Archibold789:
Well thank god you’re here to explain it all to us. I sleep better knowing there is a white knight out there cleaning up the dirty work of every person online who posted something about another person. You have a hell of a task ahead of you. Why don’t you get started on actual offenders rather than this pathetic attempt at making yourself seem so virtuous.
I’m done talking at you. You clearly have the intellectual depth of petri dish. Just…wow.
Munchies:
Wanna point out that 3 people said you were being gross. The way you are lashing out isn't helping your situation either.
A bit of advice. If you aren't prepared for people to ask you why you are asking a question, don't ask it at all.
Archibold789:
And I would like to point out that multiple people have DM’d me saying to take your input with a grain of salt because you yourself have a reputation for being toxic af. I even messaged you trying figure out what transgression I made because apparently some of you have a rulebook that only you guys know about. I came to you in good faith trying to figure out what’s going on and yet you jumped in again after leaving it on what I thought was amicable terms.
Again I thought my post was pretty harmless. Maybe you should be prepared for people to defend themselves if an infraction is less obvious than it is to you high and mighty omni-fucking-prescent gatekeepers. So maybe you shouldn’t be saying anything.
Take a look in the mirror and get a life. This is ridiculous.
Hardly toxic. But I do wanna point out that numerous people have sided with me on this - including people who I do not regularly converse with or regularly disagree with me.
3 months
Morbidly A Beast:
men and women posting about their non-consenting exes/partners is the behavior that should be ridiculed
frankly no one cares and you should learn from this
Archibold789:
Well thank god you’re here to explain it all to us. I sleep better knowing there is a white knight out there cleaning up the dirty work of every person online who posted something about another person. You have a hell of a task ahead of you. Why don’t you get started on actual offenders rather than this pathetic attempt at making yourself seem so virtuous.
I’m done talking at you. You clearly have the intellectual depth of petri dish. Just…wow.
Wanna point out that 3 people said you were being gross. The way you are lashing out isn't helping your situation either.
A bit of advice. If you aren't prepared for people to ask you why you are asking a question, don't ask it at all.
3 months
