Let's tell our fat-related stories/experiences

Thank goodness you didn’t get hurt I don’t trust weight limits so there ain’t a chance I’m getting on a latter anymore props to your courage and doing what needed to be done.

I can’t ride a boat like normal people anymore this week after work we went out on this dudes pontoon I helped launched it but when I got on I just about tipped the boat so I sat on one side with the driver one other person and everyone else sat on one side
11 months

I put butter in my coffee

There’s a lot of people who do this a lot of the keto people do it. One of the times before I just embraced being fat I tried keto diet and put butter in the coffee I didn’t find it very appealing at all but it did give you a bit of energy especially if you’re in a state of ketosis
11 months

I’m the only one that can’t find a feedee?

Morbidly A Beast:
If you can’t find a feedee just find a fat person you like to spend time with and date them, so many “feeders” want the process and not fat people, it’s a similar thing with people who complain about sexual promiscuity while at the same time will have promiscuous sex (not that sex is a bad thing, rather people who complain)

There’s a lot of fat people, men and women who deserve and should get love but are outshined by thins who gain 10-15 lbs

Munchies:
Is that the case? In my experience, most feeders want someone who is at least chubby.

Morbidly A Beast:
Just seems that way given how the most popular models are some gorgeous women who gain a few lbs. and the general idea about it being “hard to find a feedee”

I know from interactions most female feeders want their men big but most of the time men want to make a fatty like it’s build a bear or something

Munchies:
I do love me a big man.

However, that's not why it's so hard for a lot of male feeders to find a female feedee. In fact, female feedees tell people why it's hard for them to find someone all the time.

It's because so many of them suck as people. I'm not even a feedee and I regularly encounter male feeders who clearly are typing with their left hand, are pushy, mean, objectifying, or have serial killer vibes. It's genuinely terrifying sometimes.

So if you are a genuinely good person, understand it's going to be hard no matter what you do. There are so many guarded, jaded female feedees out there who will keep you at arm's length for a while for safety reasons alone.


I hadn’t even considered that angle and it’s true and I recognize it now that you mention it, it’s hard for women just in general online let alone ones that are explicitly sexual or talk about sexual topics

Ngl I had to pause and think about the left hand thing I was like oh of course serial jerkers, had to put that one in a context because I can’t imagine typing while trying to do that at least nowadays, one hand has to hold things up with my forearm to provide support and to stop motion and that’s even while laying at my side 😂
11 months

I’m the only one that can’t find a feedee?

Morbidly A Beast:
If you can’t find a feedee just find a fat person you like to spend time with and date them, so many “feeders” want the process and not fat people, it’s a similar thing with people who complain about sexual promiscuity while at the same time will have promiscuous sex (not that sex is a bad thing, rather people who complain)

There’s a lot of fat people, men and women who deserve and should get love but are outshined by thins who gain 10-15 lbs

Munchies:
Is that the case? In my experience, most feeders want someone who is at least chubby.


Just seems that way given how the most popular models are some gorgeous women who gain a few lbs. and the general idea about it being “hard to find a feedee”

I know from interactions most female feeders want their men big but most of the time men want to make a fatty like it’s build a bear or something
11 months

Are there any dominant feedees/gainers?

Morbidly A Beast:
As long as my belly is full you can dom me or sub me, I think that most guys are probably agnostic or don’t have that kink.

My question is being a ppl pleaser or a general go lucky person be dom? I’m I mistaken in thinking a dom can’t de docile or yielding by nature is it a 1 to 1 with how the person actually is or strictly kink

Munchies:
Have you considered that you just aren't into BDSM? Because that's a viable option. It sounds like you are trying to put on a shoe that doesn't fit


I’m not saying I am, I’m just curious about it
11 months

I’m the only one that can’t find a feedee?

If you can’t find a feedee just find a fat person you like to spend time with and date them, so many “feeders” want the process and not fat people, it’s a similar thing with people who complain about sexual promiscuity while at the same time will have promiscuous sex (not that sex is a bad thing, rather people who complain)

There’s a lot of fat people, men and women who deserve and should get love but are outshined by thins who gain 10-15 lbs
11 months

Are there any dominant feedees/gainers?

As long as my belly is full you can dom me or sub me, I think that most guys are probably agnostic or don’t have that kink.

My question is being a ppl pleaser or a general go lucky person be dom? I’m I mistaken in thinking a dom can’t de docile or yielding by nature is it a 1 to 1 with how the person actually is or strictly kink
11 months

Too big

I have gotten to big to lift myself up out of the water this was never an issue for me I am also heavy enough to off set the balance of the boat

Big shockers to me
11 months

Are there any dominant feedees/gainers?

I’m not sure what any of this dom sub stuff is to be frank either way dom or sub for me would be for my partners enjoyment. If dom feedee means being kingly or something like that i could make it work
11 months

Coping with the heat

I’m sorry if you are uncomfortable with any ammount of heat or lack there of it sucks, especially as bigger people.

But yall summers are so mild it’s kinda funny when you guys complain about the heat just today it was 98 but it feels like it’s 110 I just checked the temp in Britain it’s like a high of 80 😂
11 months