Angelhoney:
I have accepted my fetish a lot this yr, and have had more healthy convos about it with my boyfriend. He’s accepting of it, but not into it sexually.

I have gained a little weight recently and it’s constantly on my mind. I find it very hot and I love the weight but part of myself hates myself for “letting myself go”. I’ve always been skinny my whole life, and have had a sort of inner fat phobia. I find fat bodies very beautiful but judge myself harshly for seeing it on myself.

How do I stop caring what others think? I feel like I need to see a sex therapist from all the fat phobia my mother raised me with.

ForeverFFA:
I feel the need to update this thread because I'm sort of struggling all over again just when I thought I had reached a happy conclusion.

It feels like my fat fetish is not really welcome in my relationship after all, as if my boyfriend would rather pretend it doesn't exist. He hasn't brought it up once since our initial discussions but has instead made offhand remarks about fat being unhealthy and has continued to talk negatively about his own and others' bodies (for being "too" fat). I'm wondering if I should approach a renewed discussion with him after all this? And how?

My fetish isn't going away, and I feel like I can't live as my whole, authentic self with this silence. I'm also confused, based on his initial reaction being much more positive.

Dolan:
So I’ve recently gotten back into this and I want to gain a lot of weight. The problem is that I want to be encouraged by a feeder girl but it seems like no one wants to help you when you’re first starting out. I love the fit to fat aspect of this but I feel like I’m going to have to prove myself alone and gain weight before anyone takes me seriously. Wish there were more feeders open to male feedees/gainers just starting out.

SimonFl11:
No more no less. Im fat meat and i will become the fattest pig on earth and when at my biggest. I shall be eaten like the pig i am.

Munchies:
You are admitting to crimes.

Letters And Numbers:
I think you’re getting trolled a little bit, fyi

Munchies:
Doesn't matter. I've already reported them. The only reason why I am still responding is to preserve evidence.

SimonFl11:
No more no less. Im fat meat and i will become the fattest pig on earth and when at my biggest. I shall be eaten like the pig i am.

Munchies:
You are admitting to crimes.

Letters And Numbers:
The silly part to me is being upset at a choice someone else makes with their body. I’m with you there. I think he’s right that it’s starting to become pretty easy for middle class folks to get Wegovy scripts approved through insurance. (i would say that having private health insurance is one of the signifiers of American middle class-hood, an otherwise difficult to pinpoint demo). BMI over 30, one other comorbidity like high blood pressure, a doctor that wants to play. You’re pretty much there.

Munchies:
You're right. I don't like the idea of preventing people from losing weight just because you have a fetish. It's dehumanizing. Even the way he described these people (deflated beach balls) is gross.

That said, a lot of jobs offer health insurance. And you can get inexpensive health insurance plans on the Market Place thanks to the Affordable Care Act. So that's not a good indicator of class.

Fivepointno:
I’ve noticed a lot of girls looking like deflated beach balls lately. It all comes down to insurance, within 2 years there will be almost zero middle class obese girls.

Munchies:
Okay, now you are being very silly. And also very gross for saying that. It's super objectifying, and a handful of women (I hope you don't mean girls because that's pedophilia) does a trend not make.

Some points:

Not every middle class woman is trying to lose weight.

There is a sizable anti-modern medicine community of middle class women who will use natural medicine.

Ozempic and Wegovy can make people feel violent ill. And there's a growing voice warning people that some will face irreparable health issues.

Both medications are injections. People would rather take a pill than stab themselves.

While Ozempic and Wegovy (the most popular weight loss medications) can be covered under insurance, it's not always the case. For example, Medicare (it's possible to be on Medicare as a young person if you have certain disabilities) does not cover Wegovy at all. At it will not cover Ozempic for off-label use. Tricare can cover Wegovy, but you have to meet certain medical criteria.

Most middle class people get their coverage via their job. And not every plan will cover it. Those that do typically require you to have some obesity related health issue.

If you are fat but not sick, you'll have to pay out of pocket. Ozempic costs about $892 a month. Wegovy can cost about $1,349. There are coupons and manufacturer drug programs that can mitigate the costs. However, the coupons may not reduce the costs very much. As for the programs, not everyone will qualify, and the programs tend to be limited.

Some middle class households can eat these costs. Some can't. Some don't want to. It depends on a lot of things like cost of living and lifestyle.

So, you are being very, very silly.

Bellyblubber:
For beer belly stories, I recommend “The Beer Wench and the Cowboy” by Bella Swells and “Lila’s Beer Belly” by D99. They’re both super hot. As far as seduction using weight gain goes, the only one I can think of is “Seduced by Her Belly,” also by D99. “The Fat Girlfriend Trap” by PolarisDreamer has some of that in it in the later parts as well. For real life but accidental at first, I’d suggest “Hannah going chubby to fat: true story” by HeavyHannah and “True Story: My Girlfriend Got Fat on Vacation” by ILB345. Also I have a story that’s just journal entries I pieced together from my time gaining so far that you might find interesting.

Zbellies:
I like stuffing, realistic weight gain, and pretty much any scenario involving it. I just read “Beer Belly Girl” by PolarisDreamer so if there’s anything else like that I’m sure I’d love it. Also I have a thing for true stories about women stuffing themselves or gaining when they don’t know about feedism. Something from the POV of someone else watching them gain or get stuffed, like a friend or significant other. I also like the concept of seduction using weight gain. Anyone have any favorites?