There's sometimes a thin line between a feedee and a foodie. She may really love to eat but doesn't mind the gaining. I think there are very few feedees in real life. If she has been dieting a lot, weight gain is the usual result. Dieting slows the metabolism. One you become her friend, it should be easy to find out. You can just tell her that you have dated women who gained on purpose, then see what she says about it.

I don't think millennials are all that different. I think a lot of things they attribute to them are more age related, and they will change when they get older.

Go with the flow. You may need to stop gaining at some point. To some people, very fat is 200. To others, it is 500. You can make the decision later when you know what weight you'll stop at, and how much you care for him. Or maybe he really does not have limits. Enjoy!!

Almost every other sexual thing gets left in the bedroom. But if someone gains weight, they have it with them all of the time. So, it sounds like she is OK discussing it and having fun the in the bedroom, but doesn't want to gain weight, which will change her 24/7.

You kind of have to document your gain on here by pictures, even if they are headless. It makes it easier to visualize the stories.

So, you are basing the preference of a billion men on this planet from one man you met?

I see these posts from time to time: "how do I tell my wife to stop dieting because I like fat women." The point is NOT whether you like her fat, the point is if SHE likes her fat. Which is a good reason not to only pick a fat woman for a mate, but to pick someone who enjoys being fat.

Chrissy is traveling to different places as a speaker. But her shows are not cheap. I believe she is also planning to lose weight.

It seems to me, you have to be pretty careful to avoid an embarrassing situation. She may already have a boyfriend, or she could be gay, or just not interested. Not all BBWs like being BBWs and may not like men who are attracted to fat.

So, I would try something very neutral until you get a better feel for the situation. Ideally it would be best just to catch her outside and strike up a conversation.

Good luck and keep us posted.

Everybody keeps asking this, but no one has a crystal ball. Some fat people live a long healthy life, others die early. It's just like anything else that can be risky, such as skydiving or race car driving.