Specksaver:
I bought a white t-shirt in xxl. It is getting rather snug, but in the souvenirshop in Amsterdam where I bought it, they didn’t have a larger one. On the front of the T-shirt there is a text: Don’t feed me ( I am on a diet). Almost everyday people reacts for that tekst on the shirt and give me sweat threads on the street. Yesterday a woman on street forced me to eat a whole role of cookies at once. Nice experience. Think I must wear this shirt more when I am in public places.

Morbidly A Beast:
I just don’t wear mine I had the sensor removed in my truck, If I did wear it pretty sure it would dig into my ass all the time

FAMGM:
I was fully prepared for the fact that I’d become unfit, struggle to run or walk far, fit in chairs with arms, etc.

What I did not expect was how difficult it is to reach across my own body! I have to put my seat belt on by picking it up with the nearer hand, pulling it towards my middle, and passing it to the other hand, which buckles it.

Matthew Olney:
Huh, that's interesting I don't have that problem

Canderson206:
I don't get this thread.

I've dated, fed, and fattened multiple women -- one to quite a large size, and one who thought of herself as a feeder but ended up with me turning those desires around on her (which was very satisfying). It's never been an issue for me to have my own separate diet and remain fit and active. You just have to be your own person and have your partner understand that.

In your case, OP, it sounds like you genuinely enjoy gaining with your boyfriend. And he sounds like quite a feeder himself.

It also sounds to me like neither you nor your boyfriend have ever actually been honest with each other about your specific desires, and to what extent you want to take those desires. It's a boundaries issue.

You can't "hope" that things work out the way you want them to in relationships, particularly not when feedism and weight gain are involved. You need to be specific and honest.

If you really hated gaining, you probably wouldn't have done it so much thus far. But you also shouldn't do it just because you think it will help him gain. I'd argue that's manipulative and will result in both of you being unhappy.

Luigi002:
advice on how to approach a Feedee/feeder girl for the first time

ChunkyPeanutButter:
11 days ago she says, “I need to f**king diet” of course I told her I’d support her. I said I would stop asking for feeding sessions, stop buying her snacks and treats, and try to say no when she asks for food sometimes. She says, “but I like you doing those, nooooo”

I told her then, I’ll do whatever she wants for her to feel good, then said I needed to make at least one plea for her to not diet. Her main issue wasn’t getting bigger, but that she was binging on anything and everything. I said maybe this is just who she truly is and instead of being mad, embrace it. I told her how I see how happy food makes her, and she lights up when I buy her extra snacks.

The next day she buys ice cream, sends me a pic of her eating it. Wednesday she asks for McDonald’s breakfast.

Payday was Thursday, I sent her $50 to fill her gas tank and then food with what’s left, I found out later she put barely any in her tank and bought a lot of food. That night she asked for money for snacks and cigarettes. She mentioned needing to replace a box of cereal so I gave her 40. She forgot cigarettes and spent the rest on snacks..

Which clearly didn’t last long cause Friday night she goes “oink! Snacky snacks?” Which is how she asks for food, she likes it o oink for me.

Saturday she asks me to feed her pizza and breadsticks. Sunday unfortunately she dropped her phone. I sent her McDonald’s money but she never saw it and was sad. I didn’t hear from her till late.

Monday is when I found out she spent her gas money on food, because she asked me for some gas money. I then sent her $60 for food, gas, and cigarettes and she immediately ran out and spent half of it on snacks.

Tuesday she again asks for more snack money (apparently spent the rest of the 60 and ate it all already)

Today asked for breakfast and snack money, bought cigarettes and didn’t have enough for snacks after breakfast and sent me 🥹 so I sent her more for snacks, she loved it.

Unfortunately her ex husband shit her phone service off and I guess internet too so we are out of communication. She’s supposed to come over tomorrow but I won’t know till she gets here.

(She loves an hour away at her parents, she just left hubby last spring and is still on his phone plan, she sent him money but he still let it turn off and won’t turn it back in till Friday, he’s a huge asshat)

So this was how her almost last two weeks have gone since saying she’s going on a diet.

Miachu:
sounds hot lol

Munchies:
Oh it is. He's such a masochist that sometimes he'll rile me up just to put him through his paces.

Funneladdict:
who can resist toa female feeder? They're such treasures

Munchies:
Personally, I see myself as a feeder who happens to be a woman. And while I am a treasure, that's due to my personality.

Funneladdict:
I would love be the fattened piggy, in some feeder hands like yours. In total lost of control, only feed and stuffed till... what you decide

Munchies:
You're making this weird, man. All I wanted to do was gush about my partner.

Funneladdict:
haha. Feeding and stuffing are weird? so ok

Miachu:
sounds hot lol

Munchies:
Oh it is. He's such a masochist that sometimes he'll rile me up just to put him through his paces.

Funneladdict:
who can resist toa female feeder? They're such treasures

Munchies:
Personally, I see myself as a feeder who happens to be a woman. And while I am a treasure, that's due to my personality.

Funneladdict:
I would love be the fattened piggy, in some feeder hands like yours. In total lost of control, only feed and stuffed till... what you decide

ChunkyPeanutButter:
Not sure if this is the right spot but maybe?

My girlfriend is gaining, she’s not into it but likes turning me on and keeps asking for food.

She also loves when I buy her clothes. She had a pig onesie she wears all the time. I have a pair of pajamas with eggs, bacon, and coffee she wants to ‘steal’ and she asked me to buy her a dress with cupcakes all over it.

I love her dressing like she’s a fat girl, she’s not fat yet but getting there, she’s only 192 and 5’4.5, but she eats so much she’ll be fat soon I bet.

She loves me buying her clothes, I’d love to buy her stuff to have her look like a stereotypical fat girl. Looking at McDonald’s shirts and such…

Anything I can buy her to make her look like a stereotypical fatty? A true pig?

Miachu:
sounds hot lol

Munchies:
Oh it is. He's such a masochist that sometimes he'll rile me up just to put him through his paces.

Funneladdict:
who can resist toa female feeder? They're such treasures