Bigainer

SowTrainer:
Claiming to be underage in chat room


2 years

My old bff getting fat

KCGrowForMe:
agreed! she has been but. guess we shall see.


Good luck be to ye.
2 years

My old bff getting fat

KCGrowForMe:
sounds like offsite for now, until she can gauge the vibes and try on here.


Imo, if your friend wants to get the lay of the land, she should lurk a bit first. If she decides to join, you can help her navigate things.
2 years

My old bff getting fat

KCGrowForMe:
no thats the thing, we aren't able to cause i cant talk about it that way with her, but I want to see her flourish with someone who can, its too weird for me. Im sure someone here would bring her right out of her shell though


So, does she have a profile on here? Or are you helping her find someone to chat with offsite?
2 years

Being fat for and against

Boy howdy. You sure are a chatty one.

Lemme ask you this. Are you trying to decide if you what to gain weight? If so, why are you asking internet strangers?
2 years

My old bff getting fat

Glad you and your friend can enjoy kink together. It's nice to know that you two are still closr after all this time.
2 years

Gaining as a feeder

Munchies:
It's super common. You are the average of the company you keep.

The best way to avoid it is to eat healthier and exercise more often. Easier said than done unless the two of you get off on contrast.

For example, I'll exercise while my feedee makes a pig of himself.

Angy523:
I wish we did the same, but if I will exercise, he will do the same. In the past he used to eat less when I did it, but I hope it won't happen again because I want to lose weight and make him gain at the same time. The bad thing is he has more self control than I do. If there are sweets in the house, he can just ignore them, I can't. If he would be more like me, it would be really easy to make him fat


I'm sorry, Angy love. It's like I said in the other post but as things are, you and your boyfriend are on the road to mutual gaining. Either make your peace with it or have a discussion with him.
2 years

Trans breakdown

I don't think I'm saying anything new, but the transgender catch-all is useless. The site doesn't do this with cisgender people.

I'm cis. You wouldn't put all cispeople under a catchall cisgender label. You'd specify. I'm pretty sure a person looking to talk to a man would be super disappointed to find out I'm a woman.

Sure, the trans experience is much more than transman and transwoman. But it would be nice to give more options than "transgender" and "no gender".
2 years

Gaining as a feeder

Angy523:
Does it usually happen to gain weight as a feeder because of your feedee? Is there any way to avoid this?


It's super common. You are the average of the company you keep.

The best way to avoid it is to eat healthier and exercise more often. Easier said than done unless the two of you get off on contrast.

For example, I'll exercise while my feedee makes a pig of himself.
2 years

Being fat for and against

I don't understand the question. Are you asking for the pros and cons of getting fat?
2 years