Big bellies a sign of power?

Strongerthanyou:
It's definitely a sign of submission in my eyes... Don't see how a round soft tire of around your waist can be perceived as powerful

Munchies:
It really depends. For some, being big means being powerful. They get to literally throw their weight around. Have you ever heard of squashing? It's a kink where someone bigger than you crushes you under their weight. You see it more on Dimensions than on FF.

Then you have dominant feedees with submissive feeders. The feeders wait on the feedee hand and foot while the feedee indulges as much as they want.

Hurgon:
Definitely.

It was often a sign of wealth too - access to more and better food, no need to do the physical labour, etc. I don't know whether this is still the case in some cultures and parts of the world. A lot of portraits from the eighteenth and early nineteenth centuries draw attention to the swell and straining buttons around the subject's paunch.


It's still a thing in some developing countries, but that's disappearing thanks to colonialism and westernization.
2 years

Big bellies a sign of power?

Strongerthanyou:
It's definitely a sign of submission in my eyes... Don't see how a round soft tire of around your waist can be perceived as powerful


It really depends. For some, being big means being powerful. They get to literally throw their weight around. Have you ever heard of squashing? It's a kink where someone bigger than you crushes you under their weight. You see it more on Dimensions than on FF.

Then you have dominant feedees with submissive feeders. The feeders wait on the feedee hand and foot while the feedee indulges as much as they want.
2 years

Big bellies a sign of power?

Breedingpig:
That said, I can't say I've ever thought of a large belly as a murder weapon. That's a new one for me.

Nofbar:
Well, there was that case a few years ago of the 1000+ pound woman who was pressured by her sister into taking the blame for a murder.


That's messed up.
2 years

Life on the farm

Bisubpig:
As predicted and only took 4 minutes.

Munchies:
What can I say? You might be a middle-aged man, but you can still end up in a ditch.

Bisubpig:
the double-down... smiley

Munchies:
You confuse me, sir. I'm not even saying you shouldn't do the thing. I just said to be careful.

Is it wrong that I want people to live out their fetishes in a safe way?

Bisubpig:
I am being rude. It's just that I included a line in the post because certain people cannot help themselves. Let me ask you something. I've spent 4 years and about $840K on this project. Wouldn't you think that I would have put tons of my time and energy into that aspect of it? In the midst of all these months, wouldn't you guess that I had spent hours thinking of the worst case scenarios and how they could be mitigated (quite easily, by the way). And after all this time and effort, would your warning actually save the day in the event of a serial killer stalking horny fat guys on FF? I applaud you for wanting safety for other people. That cannot be achieved by stating the obvious. But really, its rude of me. I didn't mean to attack you.


As far as I can see, you are new to FF. There are some people who are like me - just wanting the best for people. But there are also a lot of other people on here that are predatory. A lot of these people are in your age range.

I've seen people interact with certain users and they run off the site - people of all genders. If you think that I am a nosy, busybody who needs to mind her business, then fine. You can think what you want. I simply don't want harm to befall you. This is my overall goal when interacting with most people on this site.

I'm a sadistic domme who survived an abusive upbringing. I've seen some things. I've been through some things. I don't want that for other people. I am always mindful of the power I have over my subs. But I have also spoken to a lot of other doms who do not have that mindfulness.

Besides, I doubt that you'd get shanked by a serial killer. My concern was with meeting up with a dom(me) feeder that will ... portray themselves as decent only for you to end up in an abusive situation. This is not a comment about you so much as it is a comment about some of the users on the site.

This is not an attack or judgment towards you. This is a mere heads-up.
2 years

Life on the farm

Bisubpig:
As predicted and only took 4 minutes.

Munchies:
What can I say? You might be a middle-aged man, but you can still end up in a ditch.

Bisubpig:
the double-down... smiley


You confuse me, sir. I'm not even saying you shouldn't do the thing. I just said to be careful.

Is it wrong that I want people to live out their fetishes in a safe way?
2 years

Life on the farm

Bisubpig:
As predicted and only took 4 minutes.


What can I say? You might be a middle-aged man, but you can still end up in a ditch.
2 years

Life on the farm

Bisubpig:
In November of 2019, I bought a derelict hobby farm in the country near Avon Park, FL. It's 17 acres and had been a small family pig farm years ago. The house and barns are far back from the road and not visible to neighbors.

I bought this because I have had this fantasy for many years. I thought, "I have the means to explore this, why not at least try?" My goal was to renovate the place and go there with a "farmer" for a few days at a time or much longer if it worked out.

I got a good start on the renovation--mostly in the farmhouse--which I had stripped to the rafters. Relined the pool and built a large hot tub. Granite kitchen and certain 'kinky' additions like sturdy eye-bolts. When covid hit, all work ceased as I could not find the subcontractors to do the work.

My goal was to refurbish the barn, hog pen, and fenced areas. I wanted to remove all rocks and pebble from the surface of the ground to protect a pig's knees who might be required to go around on all fours. Also, to make a large muddy area for the many warm Florida days. I want to have warm water run to the barn. None of this work outside the house has been done yet. Everything is as I left it, since my work has kept me out of the country for almost a year until recently.

My idea--admittedly far-fetched, I know--is that I would travel there with a dom type who shares this fantasy. For an agreed period of time there will be no clothes, no phone, no way out for the pig. The farmer is the boss, period. Obviously, trust would have been established. (at this point the Karens usually speak up with all kinds of obvious warnings because they do not think such trust can exist, but it does and isn't this the essence of power exchange in the fetish community?)

Anyway, if the farmer wants to spend the whole time in the house having sex and being served or whatever, then that is their choice. The barn and pens are there for his use, but this is his show, not the pig's. He is there to get his kicks, not to run down a laundry list provided by a dumb animal. At the end, everything returns to normal; keys, clothes, and cell phone are returned and everyone goes home. Pig's clothes will probably be a good bit tighter.

I still have the property and I had some good prospects for a farmer, but work consumed me for a few months. Ready to look at this strange project again now.


I'd be careful. There's a lot of ways you can put yourself in a situation that you don't need to be in.
2 years

Semen cycle

Chubster87:
You produce sperm every day, but a full sperm regeneration cycle (spermatogenesis) takes about 64 days. Spermatogenesis is the complete cycle of sperm production and maturation. It constantly supplies your body with sperm able to travel through the vagina to an unfertilized ovum in a woman's ovaries to conceive. This makes complete sense as I 100% go through gainning cycles when I want to gain.


2 years

Waking up tomorrow the whole world is feedism. what has changed?

Munchies:

For example, women are pressured to look slender yet curvy (but to too curvy). In this world, we'd be pressured to look fat. More than likely, we'd be pressured to look a specific kind of fat

Morbidly A Beast:
Kinda like how Victorian women would wear those ridiculous dresses that made them look massive but in reality they were middle of the pack in terms of weight and figure


Depends on the woman's class, tbh. The high the class, the fancier the dress.

And it was less about looking big so much as achieving a specific silhouette. Think full bust, wide hips, and defined waist.
2 years

Big bellies a sign of power?

Breedingpig:
Whenever I think of a big belly, I think powerful. The roundness, the shape, the bulging, the fat – has the power to take away life. Crazy to think about honestly


Welcome back.

As for your original post, I think it depends on who you speak to. Some people would agree with you. Others would say a big fat belly is a sign of submission.

That said, I can't say I've ever thought of a large belly as a murder weapon. That's a new one for me.
2 years