I can’t break my plateau

Rio67:
Heavy cream works really well smiley right before bed a pint a day in 2 weeks you’ll need new pants I bet


Except, there is a catch. Hard gainers (people who put on muscle mass) already use heavy cream to help them put on more muscle mass.

So, if he does that without controlling for anything else, he may just get more muscular.
2 years

For fat art, do you prefer fanart or original characters?

EmilyW:
But what if it is fan art of your original character? Then what?

Oh, I'm so lost today, I think I need some milkshake to help me think.


I mean, if you think about it, just about every fandom is centered around OCs. Star Trek, Star Wars, Avatar: The Last Airbender ... all OCs.

I've got a friend who makes comics. His OCs get fan art all the time.

So, if you own the character and commision someone to draw fat art, it isn't fan art. But if someone is a fan of your work, and draws fat art of them or commissions someone to do it for them, then it is fan art.
2 years

Who are the doms and who are the subs?

DollyXXDimples:
Dom feeder, worship me 😘

Bru029:
Worship… you have to earn that… 😉 the bigger I get the more I’ll worship smiley


Two doms in the bedroom fighting for domination. Welcome to the thunder dome.
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2 years

I can’t break my plateau

Docp:
I need tips for trying to get past my plateau. I have been stuck around the 250-260 range for months now and I can’t gain anything without loosing it in a week. I build muscle extremely easily which I think is why I can’t gain (as muscle burns more calories). I would prefer not to drink soylent meal replacements to get rid of muscle. So I either want to just be able to bust through my plateau or lose enough muscle to let me get fat without spending so much money on food. Any tips?


Ex-hard gainer here. I am curious to find out what you are already doing. It sounds like you are working against your body, not with it. But I want to be sure.
2 years

Fattening boyfriend

Angy523:
I forgot to mention that he told me I didn't notice he gained 2kgs. I did a big mistake here, I know I should've told him that I noticed and I love it, but I just didn't say anything. I tried to fix it later and remind him how much I love his belly.


And this is why I say communicate

Yes I am from America. However, despite our sexualized media, we tend to be a bunch of prudes. The average American often will not have an open and honest conversation with their partner about their needs, wants, and fears in the bedroom.

I see it all the time. It becomes a comedy of errors that strains the relationship. And from the outside looking in, it could be so easily resolved if they just talked. I promise you, we are not as ahead of Russia as you might think.

Still, relationships where you can have open and honest conversations about anything and everything tend to last longer than the ones that don't. And that is because it's so much easier to strengthen the relationship and head off potential problems that way.

I know you say you can't talk about these things because of your culture. Frankly, that's not true. And I know this becuase your boyfriend shows all the signs of being willing to talk.

You are just scared. Plain and simple. Every single time you mention a desire of yours and how you can't tell your boyfriend about it "because we don't do that here" he always turns out to be okay with it. Even excited to do it.

I say communicate because it works. I do it with my feedee all the time. Even though I am his domme, I am not afraid to be vulnerable with him and tell him what's going on. He does the same thing with me as well. We comfort each other and figure out how to navigate our concerns.
2 years

Asking my wife to feed me

Manman36:
Yes, I would like to do that. Unfortunately I don't know her views on the matter as I'm not certain how to have a conversation about my feederism


I suppose you should first find out her views on fatness. Especially the two of you being fat.
2 years

Unorthodox feminization


Quink333:
Months ?! How long have you been doing this ?

Amazingem:
About six months now, give or take!

I think he's only had 2 or 3 instances where he's cum from having his shaft stroked in that time. smiley And I am still making him swallow his own cum, too. smiley

After concentrating on the bottom of the head of his penis (the hypospadias) for so long - a number of months - the first time his shaft was gripped he came super fast! Lmao! It totally changed the level of sensitivity.

This has been a really fun experiment and I plan to keep going for awhile as long as he is willing!

Quink333:
Do you have like a goal ? Somthing you'd want to train him for ? Developing some habits

Munchies:
Sometimes there is no grand plan or goal. Sometimes it's just for fun.

I like to make my feedee cum on his gut while I tell him what a pretty piggy he his or how I'm turning him into a busty boy with tits bigger than mine. Why? No reason. Just fun.

Quink333:
Ohhh that sounds like fun. I wqs alwqys obssesed with numbers and some milestones (even when it was unhealthy for me) so i'm kinda new to something without a goal


Sometimes you gotta be in the moment. Enjoy the here and now. Otherwise, what's the point of doing anything?
2 years

New to feederism. need some guidance

PTricks:
Hey everyone, I am new to this community and just looking for some guidance/advice.

Little about me. I've known I liked bigger women and making them bigger for my whole life. Thing is, until now I just repressed it.

Now I am done with that. I want to explore this more instead of hiding it. I really like the idea that there are women who would want to be fed and fattened up. I want to be a Feeder. I'm not looking for anything committed right now, I'm just wanna explore the kink.

Problem is I know nothing of how to act or expectations as a Feeder.

I know it's different from person to person. Some like a dominant Feeder, some like to be spoiled. Am I expected to pay for everything? What are the best ways to find a Feedee? What's an online Feeder and how does that work? Should I be more straightforward when approaching a feedee or is being flirty more appropriate?

I feel like a fish out of water. I appreciate any and all guidance I can get.


Hey, love! Welcome to the community!

I'm an ex-gainer turned domme feeder, so I have a unique insight on some things.

Most importantly, your feedee is a person before anything else. A lot of feeders forget this and the feedee becomes a fetish object in their eyes.

Communication is key. If you cannot be open and honest with each other, it will not work out.

As for financial expectations, it varies from person to person. I will say be careful with paying for online feeding as scammers exist. I personally don't pay for my feedee's food, but I make up for it by wringing his balls dry. I also don't expect him to give me any money either.
2 years

Controversial thoughts about feederism

Bigdj1977:
I completely understand that sentiment you expressed at the end of this post. I too started out in a field that has some physically demanding jobs but as I got bigger, I was lucky to find positions that are much more desk bound. You may have to get some additional training or credentials but if it allows you to live life more according to your preferences that is a small price to pay. Also, keep in mind that for many people, myself included, there comes a size where they have to eat a satisfying amount of food to just maintain or gain very slowly (this is the mid 400s for me) and are still reasonably mobile.

FattMatt:
My backup plan is to start teaching when I’ve gathered a few years of experience in my field. Maybe that wil open up the possibilities of gaining to an more extreme weight. And I know I won’t be bed bound by the time I hit 500 pounds. I think however that the image of a 400-500 pound hospital worker, isn’t widely accepted in society…

Ayumi Orihime:
Many people in the medical field are very fat phobic. As a pharmacist, when I do continued education, the non pharmacological advise for most health problems include "weight loss".

I wish they'd really get educated on the subject. Research shows that voluntary weight loss isn't sustainable in the long run and that the weight cycling is the real danger, not the fatness itself.

Maybe they feel "safer" assuming all fat people are greedy and lazy, this way they are "protected" from becoming fat themselves.

Blaming fat people for their fatness and assuming health issues such as high blood pressure, type 2 diabetes, etc are caused by obesity (as opposed to "associated with being fat", which isn't the same at all) is very common in health professionals and it's been shown that many have a really bad perception of their fat patients.

Just suggesting that these issues could be linked to other factors also associated with being fat (stress, lack of exercise or weight cycling for example) is seen as controversial!

It's just ridiculous and I don't want to me a part of it. I've never told a patient of mine they should lose weight and I never will.

Munchies:
I think it depends on what health issue they have. I agree that weight loss isn't the end all be all. A lot of health concerns can be resolved by doing something else.

But some medical conditions can be helped by some level of weight loss. For example, my grandma has osteoporosis. While losing weight will not fix the problem, it can be helped by maintaining a lower weight. To put it simply, she had to lose weight because her bones are not strong enough to support her.

This also doesn't take into account the more extreme forms of obesity such as immobility. I don't think most immobile people will tell you that they are as fit as a fiddle. But on FF, I believe that is part of the appeal.

Ayumi Orihime:
I agree for osteoporosis (although being too skinny is even worse for it).


Def for sure. She's working to get stronger as well. I'm just saying never make blanket statements when it comes to health.

Everyone is different, and there's a multitude of health conditions out there. As such, depending on the person and the condition, fat gain and fat loss affects them different. I know people who are 200, 300+ lbs and perfectly healthy. And I know people who would be chronically sick if they got to 150 lbs.
2 years

Feedee workouts

K M Joyce:
My girlfriend wants to keep packing on the pounds but wants to be strong enough to carry it. She was wondering what kind of workouts she could do to build strength but also keep plumping up. Should we increase her calorie flow if she works out? Thanks in advance anything helps!

DollGirl:
How big is she now? And how much bigger is she hoping to get? I'm 5'4 and went from 130-200. I walk for miles. I will sometimes do some basic strength training stuff. Either with bodyweight or with dumbbells.
I am all for healthy gaining smiley

Ayumi Orihime:
You walk this much and don't lose weight? How is that possible? 😳


It's super easy. It all depends on what she's eating and the intensity of her exercises.
2 years