Fantasy Feeder

Marriage advice

Lovethechub99:
She is 5ft 10 about 130lbs.

Wow, that's pretty thin. Is there a reason why she wants to be thinner?

Ngl, I think you need to table the idea of her gaining weight and focus on her having a healthier relationship with her body and self-image. Maybe she'll be open to getting fat. Maybe she won't. Regardless, this needs to be dealt with.

2 years

Munchies

Marriage advice

Lovethechub99:
Ive been with my wife for a little over a year. I told her about my fetish before we were married. After we got married I asked her lightly in a few occasions if she would gain weight (she is thin/fit). She says no but that she loves food. She is very self conscious about her body and is always dieting, fasting, and taking supplements to increase her metabolism. Thats what crushes me. She is so thin and still wants to get skinnier. Its never enough for her. Ill be honest with you all, I really want her to let loose and be my chubby wife. Maybe thats wrong. Its just something I cant get out of my head. Im someone who loves to see a girl letting loose and being happy eating and getting fat, yet I live with someone always getting fatter. I need advice, i dont know what to do.

Question. You say she's already thin but wants to be thinner. How thin is she, and how much thinner does she want to be? I'm asking because I am trying to figure out if she has an ED.

Outside of that, you gotta realize she's making concessions for you. She doesn't want to be fat but openly admits she enjoys her food. Perhaps weight gain is off the table, but she might agree to the occasional stuffing.

You two need to have a conversation. Kink negotiation is a must, no matter what the kink is. Make sure she feels comfortable and listened to when you guys talk. That way, you two can find an arraignment that works best for both of you.

As a bonus, see if there are any kinks she has that she wants to experience with you. Who knows? There might be a fun way to implement both of them.

2 years

Munchies

Is this reasonable? an explanation of how i'm looking for noone

RobbyP:
A particular philosopher voiced an observation which indicates that the very title of my topic here is contradictory. I paraphrase them below:

A choice has no causation. If it has a causation, then it is not a choice.

Munchies:
A choice has no causation? My guy, everything in life has causation. Events within and outside of your control influence every decision you make.

I am not saying you are bound by the narrative of life to do and say the things you do. Rather your internal and external experiences influence your choices. There's nothing in life that exists in a vaccuum.

RobbyP:
The true turning point, the exact core of things, has no mass. Particles always vibrate. Void allows for possibility- choice is not made by things which exist.

Munchies:
I will go on a limb here and assume you are talking about metaphysics, correct? I ask because we are speaking on two different planes, which isn't conducive to conversation.

RobbyP:
What I talked about is exactly as I wrote it. A rock doesn't choose to be pushed down a hill, nor does a person choose to be pushed off a cliff by surprise. Only in a moment without the initiation of such forces can a choice be made.

This is a fundamental misunderstanding about the basics of physics and psychology.

I thought that, maybe, this was about metaphysics which deals with "the void" in an abstract and symbolic way. In which case, I was prepared to change gears and approach this conversation in a different way. But no. You mean this literally.

And quite frankly, I am not going to post a dissertation on either on a fetish site. All I will say is maybe do a bit more research about how the world around you works.

✌

2 years

Munchies

Is this reasonable? an explanation of how i'm looking for noone

RobbyP:
A particular philosopher voiced an observation which indicates that the very title of my topic here is contradictory. I paraphrase them below:

A choice has no causation. If it has a causation, then it is not a choice.

Munchies:
A choice has no causation? My guy, everything in life has causation. Events within and outside of your control influence every decision you make.

I am not saying you are bound by the narrative of life to do and say the things you do. Rather your internal and external experiences influence your choices. There's nothing in life that exists in a vaccuum.

RobbyP:
The true turning point, the exact core of things, has no mass. Particles always vibrate. Void allows for possibility- choice is not made by things which exist.

I will go on a limb here and assume you are talking about metaphysics, correct? I ask because we are speaking on two different planes, which isn't conducive to conversation.

2 years

Munchies

Is this reasonable? an explanation of how i'm looking for noone

RobbyP:
A particular philosopher voiced an observation which indicates that the very title of my topic here is contradictory. I paraphrase them below:

A choice has no causation. If it has a causation, then it is not a choice.

A choice has no causation? My guy, everything in life has causation. Events within and outside of your control influence every decision you make.

I am not saying you are bound by the narrative of life to do and say the things you do. Rather your internal and external experiences influence your choices. There's nothing in life that exists in a vaccuum.

2 years

Munchies

Is it bad?

Munchies:
Fellow domme here. It's fine if feedism isn't your main fetish. But, I question how would you be raking advantage. Do you communicate your intentions and desires clearly? Are all parties enthusiastically consenting?

DarkSkinDemonKing:
Oh yeah, I absolutely do communicate it to people. Some accept it

So, if everything is safe, sane, and consensual, what's the issue?

2 years

Munchies

Likes fat

Andrii1995:
who here likes fat guys.? write, I don't bite)

Munchies:
I am the extremely happy partner to a wonderful, loving, and very sexy fat man.

Andrii1995:
you were lucky )

Munchies:
I feel lucky. It's like the stars were aligned.

HungryPiggyBoy:
hmm doubt it

Not literally, love. It's a turn of phrase.

2 years

Munchies

Question as starting my journey in february. how do you deal with heartburn from excessive eatin

Growingbiggerking:
I've gained 35lbs so far, and want to keep up the pace to be over 300 by August.

It might be smarter to do the grazing method. Instead of eating a a handful of large meals, eat smaller, more frequent meals. You'll get your calories in, and you won't have to deal with as much heart burn.

Also, you may have to accept taking gaining breaks. Consistent, rapid gains are sexy, but they are harsh on the body and aren't sustainable. That's why a lot of feedees and gainers will gain in cycles.

2 years

Munchies

Likes fat

Andrii1995:
who here likes fat guys.? write, I don't bite)

Munchies:
I am the extremely happy partner to a wonderful, loving, and very sexy fat man.

Andrii1995:
you were lucky )

I feel lucky. It's like the stars were aligned.

2 years

Munchies

Is this reasonable? an explanation of how i'm looking for noone

Munchies:
Oh, Enas. All these words, and I'm not convinced you truly understand what you're saying.

Enas:
Munchies, im not saying stuff to convince people that i trully understand something. That's not the goal. The goal is to expose people into a different school of thought. If anything i write doesn't make sense to you maybe it's because i cant communicate what i have in mind well. Im not writing it down well enough. If you think that's the case, please tell me what's not clear so i can try to write it in a different way!

Nothing wrong with exposing people to new lines of thought. I do it all the time.

However, the wisest course of action is to have a firm understanding of what you are talking about before you say stuff. For example, if you had a firm understanding of socialism and neoliberalism, you'd understand that the two are incompatible with each other and would have never tried to attempt it.

2 years

Munchies