Fantasy Feeder

The truth is difficult to get a feeder

In a lot of cultures - especial Western cultures - there's a ridged set of gender rolls that society expects us to adhere to. It doesn't impact everyone equally, but it is very much there. In context of this discussion, men (and masculine aligned people) are expected to provide for women (and female aligned people).

It comes from the idea that men are protesters and providers while women are unable to do so for themselves. So any time you see someone (especially a woman) talking about how feeders (often men) should financially support their kink, this is simply an adherence to gender norms.

2 years

Munchies

Increased weight but no waistline progress

TacticalMilk:
Ive gained a good 20 to 30 pounds over the past year but im seeing little to no progress with my waistline which has been stuck at 53 inches.Is this because I exercise often and the rest of the fat goes to other parts of my body like thighs,moobs,arm fat,etc or because of other reasons?

Sounds like it's just your body type. Some people gain weight in specific areas largely due to genetics. While hormones and hormone therapy can influence your body shape, the change isn't drastic.

The only way to get your body shape the way you want is surgery. But good luck trying to find someone willing to add fat grafts to your belly.

2 years

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Using these sites as a dating site?

Iridescent Pearly:
I'm trying to meet people on these kinds of sites but I always end getting ghosted. I always avoid being sexual or creepy. The only people I attract are creeps that want my pics. Everytime I meet a friendly person or reachout to someone who complains of loneliness they ghost me. Am I trying too hard??? Is this too rare??? Seriously thinking about quitting this crap...

I'm sorry to hear you're experiencing this.

People's success in finding someone on this site is mixed. Some of this is site specific. Some of it is not. Some of it may be something you are doing, but some of it may not be.

Please understand that sometimes people will ghost you, and it is not your fault. This is, unfortunately, very normal in the online realm. (And irl too, if I'm honest.)

That being said, I can't speak too much on your situation. I don't know you, and I don't know if you are doing anything that might contribute to it. I don't think you are based on what you are telling me. But I also don't know the full story.

It is possible to have relationships (platonic, romantic, and sexual) on this site. I met my partner on here, and I have a small group of friends. It helps that I've gone into every situation will no real expectations. If we connect, that's nice. If not? Oh well.

2 years

Munchies

When did you realize you wanted to be fat?

Johniav:
From the very beginning. When it finally happened, I freaked out. Go figure.

It's not unusual. It's sad, but it makes sense.

2 years

Munchies

Tired, lazy, sweaty with weight gain?

Jd00723:
Hey everyone. Still new to this and only had a small gain. I’ve been on a 4000 - 5000 calorie diet for about a week and I feel lazier and sleepy.

Also my physical fitness has taken a dive, and I feel breathless going up stairs etc.

I’ve not even gained that much or been eating more for that longer. I’ve been eating a lot of heavy cream maybe that’s it.

Basically what’s causing this lethargy etc? Like I said It can’t just be fat gain as this is still somewhat new.

Munchies:
It's 100% the heavy cream. If you have a high dairy, high fat diet, your body will go through the wringer trying to process it. If you want to do cream gains, it's better to start off small and carefully increase. How much cream are you consuming a day?

Jd00723:
Only a pint.

I just need to take it easy I guess. Thought it does feel great getting to be lazy as my body struggles to deal with all the fat it’s consuming! Plus I’m not getting anything bad happening in the bathroom to be so crude. So I think it’s going well. Might take a day off soon though.

Munchies:
Heavy cream is best taken as a short term thing. So, at most a few weeks at a time. Although, less is better for most people.

It's also easier to digest if you cook with the cream instead of drinking it.

Still, if you are new to this, it's best to ease your way into it. It's a shock to your body, and it will resist the weight gain at first. As such, you can spend a lot of money of food but gain very little weight.

Remember the key to weight gain is for your body to absorb the excess calories - not flush them down to toilet.

Jd00723:
Thanks for all your help. How long does it take for the body to change tune and start storing the fat, if you’re new to this?

There's a lot of different factors: body composition, metabolism, activity level, stress, food consumption, health issues, ect. Depending on the person, it can take a few weeks to a few years. It really depends.

The most important aspect of getting fat on purpose is to be patient. Don't be afraid to push, but don't do too much too soon.

It's best for a beginner to relax their diet and have a less intense workout regime. Once your body gets used to that, you can up the ante

2 years

Munchies

Tired, lazy, sweaty with weight gain?

Jd00723:
Hey everyone. Still new to this and only had a small gain. I’ve been on a 4000 - 5000 calorie diet for about a week and I feel lazier and sleepy.

Also my physical fitness has taken a dive, and I feel breathless going up stairs etc.

I’ve not even gained that much or been eating more for that longer. I’ve been eating a lot of heavy cream maybe that’s it.

Basically what’s causing this lethargy etc? Like I said It can’t just be fat gain as this is still somewhat new.

Munchies:
It's 100% the heavy cream. If you have a high dairy, high fat diet, your body will go through the wringer trying to process it. If you want to do cream gains, it's better to start off small and carefully increase. How much cream are you consuming a day?

Jd00723:
Only a pint.

I just need to take it easy I guess. Thought it does feel great getting to be lazy as my body struggles to deal with all the fat it’s consuming! Plus I’m not getting anything bad happening in the bathroom to be so crude. So I think it’s going well. Might take a day off soon though.

Heavy cream is best taken as a short term thing. So, at most a few weeks at a time. Although, less is better for most people.

It's also easier to digest if you cook with the cream instead of drinking it.

Still, if you are new to this, it's best to ease your way into it. It's a shock to your body, and it will resist the weight gain at first. As such, you can spend a lot of money of food but gain very little weight.

Remember the key to weight gain is for your body to absorb the excess calories - not flush them down to toilet.

2 years

Munchies

Tired, lazy, sweaty with weight gain?

Jd00723:
Hey everyone. Still new to this and only had a small gain. I’ve been on a 4000 - 5000 calorie diet for about a week and I feel lazier and sleepy.

Also my physical fitness has taken a dive, and I feel breathless going up stairs etc.

I’ve not even gained that much or been eating more for that longer. I’ve been eating a lot of heavy cream maybe that’s it.

Basically what’s causing this lethargy etc? Like I said It can’t just be fat gain as this is still somewhat new.

It's 100% the heavy cream. If you have a high dairy, high fat diet, your body will go through the wringer trying to process it. If you want to do cream gains, it's better to start off small and carefully increase. How much cream are you consuming a day?

2 years

Munchies

Spike's double belly gif thread

Spike:
I do not know where else to post them so I figured here is okay LOL

I forget to take a lot of photos of it with my sets and sadly my modeling wants no belly as I am too big for most of my audiences liking. But I do try to take a sexy belly video each set

Balloons

Bimbo look

Checkered G String

Lower belly spilling out under corset

Christmas Gif

New Years stuffed disco balls

Mirror Selfie with belly out

Halloween cosplay lingerie

Mirror full body belly dance

I appreciate all positive comments,
I also will take requests and suggestions if anyone knows a full video or anything else as i just was cursed with a big lipedema fueled belly&upper arms so I'm always lost as what people want to see.
I just force it on ya'll like... this ROFL.

So feel free to give ideas.

I think you're very pretty. Plus, you have some creative video ideas. Keep up the good work.

2 years

Munchies

The truth is difficult to get a feeder

Catalinacataline:
nobody wants to take responsibility or nobody is interested in feeding or does not have the economy for that and the truth is understood

DomFeeder:
Well - its also difficult to find a real-life feedee. 99% of the so called "feedees" or "gainers" are looking for somebody who sends money but no one is willing to relocate

That's a major life change. Some can't afford it. For others, they'd be leaving behind their friends, family, job, etc. And that's an even bigger gamble for moving to be near their internet feeder. And, speaking as a feeder myself, most feeders I've encountered are not worth it.

2 years

Munchies

Did you feel ‘different’ growing up?

Spike:
Yes. I was as young as i remember with a B belly.
Aside from extreme abuse from it people in school bullied me for the 'tire' in the pants which didnt fit right, i didnt understand why my belly button was dividing my stomach, etc.

They are all pricks. You are a beautiful person. And no matter what you look like on the outside, you are worthy of love and respect.

2 years

Munchies