Andrii1995:
who here likes fat guys.? write, I don't bite)

DarkSkinDemonKing:
Is it bad that I'm here not so much for Feederism as I am for finding a big girl with other fetishes surrounding Feederism? Being a Feeder is much more of a secondary fetish to me. I'm more of an out-and-out Dom than a Feeder. I just am fascinated by the idea of dominance through food, but I'm more into my main kinks than this. Is that bad? I log in sometimes and there's always a nagging feeling that I'm taking advantage

Falcor:
So after my partner had unintentionally gained some weight during the past year (super hot!) she has now stopped gaining and has even lost some weight (around 5-6 lbs during the last month or so, which I wouldn’t have known if she hadn’t told me about it) according to her the weight loss was also unintentionally, even though I know the gain bothered her...
The thing is, she is still getting wider and softer all over, and she had even out grown some pants during this month...
Now this is supper hot to see her get wider and softer, but I must ask, does this make sense?!
How is it possible, how does she continue to grow while losing weight? If I didn’t see the numbers for myself I would have been sure she was still gaining (based on her looks and current weight 5-6 lbs are negligible)

Is this normal?
Did anyone experienced such a thing?

Bassbum60:
I'm a slightly chubby male 220lbs+ but I think I want to be a fat female.

I read a story on here, 'accepting new roles', and I feel like it's confused me so much, because it'd be a dream to be a BBW

I don't really know what I'm trying to say, I guess i just want to be a fat woman haha

Any advice would be great

RobbyP:
When trying something out, it's reasonable to only choose actions which one can come back from. Surgeries are a one-way trip, and not actualy changing physiology anyway. It's possible wear a dress one day and then wear pants the following day.

Enas:
The definition of love is one of my favorite topics so allow me to jump on that boat as well.

Just a warning, I've never been into a serious relationship so far. I also understand that my view might seem to be very extreme in this neoliberal (for the most part i assume) enviroment.

What is love? The answer is that it's a feeling we've developed as a *social* pieces (thats important because not all animals... love the same) because it helped us survive. It's in our *human nature*! It's also important to note that this is not catholic, it's not apsolute.

Okay but how do i Vew it? Well, i think it's a human need. For example, and I'll use myself, I can't function properly without being loved. I really need someone to care for me and give me some attention. But it's not something i only wanna receive, but something i also feel the need, like i have a duty, to give back. And not in just one person. I have a very bad time lately, because i cant bring myself to enjoy anything that is not helping other people. I need, i really need to make people's lives better and in fact im disgusted by how, in our college, the way they teach us that subject is disconnected from making something for other *human beings* but exclusively something to provide us with profits!

And love should not be seen like something that people get because they deserve it, but because they need it. And for that, im trying to do my best at, attempting at least, to feel love about *everyone*. Im failing miserably now, but i think it's the way forward.
Btw i hope i wrote my points well and please... Pleeease criticize it if you have the time. I litteraly beg you, unironicaly, to comment on it!

RobbyP:
A defintion of love which makes sense to me is a willingness to include. This is because it shouldn't require a particular action- if it did, then a mute quadroplegic would be necessarily incapable of it, which is untrue.

Since existence is right here every moment, it is impossible to not include everything. One can deny it, but that's not being straight with oneself.

Story of the past- it may be uncomfortable to read. If it were a movie, it'd be rated pg-13.

3 years ago I was on a long trip, and the person who promised to watch after my cats neglected them terribly, to the point of visible slime growing in their water. I regret not requiring regular photos. Now, my actions are focused on the cats' wellbeing first. One who constantly, or even regularly, demands my attention or action will not work with me. Nor will one who moves around my belongings at a whim.

Beauty seen from afar works well enough

Munchies:
Oh, that's always fun.

Sometimes I give my partner time limits when he's stuffing his face. The glutton really comes out them.

Gives me the urge to sit on his face.

PolyPinoyPuppy:
I dream of the day I'll have someone sitting on my face while they themselves eat. I like to imagine feeling them get a little heavier with each bite...

PolyPinoyPuppy:
There's something incredibly delightful about a consensual power exchange; knowing that I have earned someone's trust to the extent required to feed and even overfeeding them is thrilling.

Another thing I love which I've mostly only explored in RP (but got a taste of last weekend when my partner called themselves a glutton) is when the person I'm feeding acts greedy. One day I want to hear someone say, "Feed me more," after becoming too full to reach for food themselves.

Feedmethicker:
I have mixed feelings about having this fetish. One part of me loves it, I think being able to love and appreciate bigger bodies (whether my own or someone else's) is a great thing. However, I also feel a bit anxious and somewhat shameful about it. I know feedism isn't the weirdest thing out there but it's definitely not something I'd want other people knowing.

I've started gaining myself after being in denial for years and I'm still kinda on the fence about it. I do have a history of eating disorders, so naturally weight gain is a little daunting to me. My eating disorders were deeply rooted in childhood trauma (most notably sexual abuse) so I have an internal fear of looking more 'curvy' and 'feminine'. Also, I find that much of my identity is attached to being tall and slender, I was always praised for it, many were jealous of me, so it's hard to give that up. I'm also worried the fat I gain will not distrubute on my body the way I want it to, I don't wanna 'ruin' my body for it to not look the way I want (I'm a worry-wart, I know).

I don't wish to get rid of my feedism fetish, however, I wish I only liked other fat people instead of having a desire to make myself bigger.