Fantasy Feeder

Pre-diabetic and gaining

2seatsalways:
Looking for solutions on how to have my partner still be able to gain, as healthy as possible, while pre-diabetic. If this brings her A1C down that's even better.
I know it's doable, but looking for anyone who has been in this scenario before and have anything that worked for them.

Greentrees8733:
My first thought is that—since pre-diabetes is reversible—maybe just wait until treatment is done?

It's the wisest course of action, but since they are clearly not interested in that, I try to do the harm reduction thing.

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At what weight is a guy considered a bhm

TacticalMilk:
Had a silly argument discussing this with a friend but i wanted an outside opinion

Imo, that's when a man reaches obesity.

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Favorite parts of feeder/feedee relationships!

PolyPinoyPuppy:
I made the mistake of searching for posts mentioning "feeder" in r/relationships. People are not kind to that which they don't understand or have heard only horror stories of.

Now I want to hear about your favorite parts about being in a relationship or going in a date with someone who shares (or accepts) your kink, from fictional tropes to real-life experiences!

For me, one thing that stood out during my recent first experience stuffing someone was seeing their contented smile as I hand-fed them. Spoiling my partner and feeling responsible for their pleasure and contentment was euphoric in a way I've been yearning for for quite a while.

Having spoken to a lot of feeders on FF, I completely understand why we have the reputation we do.

For me, I love treating my feedee like a spoiled, lazy pet. It's amazing to see him full, sleepy, and blissed out. Seeing him smiling at me and blushing as I tell him he's my good boy or my greedy fat hog is so lovely.

Even better is how eager to please me. So he'll do whatever it takes to make me writhe. It's a great feedback loop.

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Double bellies

Anonq11:
I am a fan of double bellies, as many people are. I have seen lots of ladies with double bellies, but very few men with them.

Curious about whether there a reason for this, e.g. if certain people are genetically pre-disposed to developing them?

People with higher levels of testosterone are more likely to gain visceral fat over subcutaneous fat. Of course, it's possible to have a single belly and have more subcutaneous fat than visceral; however, double bellies are more subcutaneous than visceral.

For more information check out these

www.bakersfield.com/news/health/mens-health-special-the-beer-belly-syndrome-and-how-to-cure-it/article_2c32f267-14bc-5ca8-b129-6a64f736aa84.html

www.bakersfield.com/news/health/mens-health-special-the-beer-belly-syndrome-and-how-to-cure-it/article_2c32f267-14bc-5ca8-b129-6a64f736aa84.html

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Feeding while pleasured

Munchies:
You gotta try pleasuring your feedees as they stuff their faces. Really ups the game.

PrimitiveDesires:
I would LOVE to incorporate shibari with a feeding while pleasuring. Watching their belly dig tighter into the ropes as they get fuller.

Could be fun. Although it would be capacity limiting. Of course, it's not always about capacity.

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Feeding while pleasured

PrimitiveDesires:
While I have never pleasured a Feedee while stuffing, I am in the habit of doing so post stuffing. Watching them spend the entire day or afternoon packing away meal after meal, maxing out their stomach. Then reward them in whatever fashion they desire.

You gotta try pleasuring your feedees as they stuff their faces. Really ups the game.

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Jasmine Honey:
what’s the point in the block option when it doesn’t even work? 🥲

The block button is only good for private messages. So if someone tries to side chat you in the chatroom or sends you a direct message, you won't get it. (On the flip side, if you private message them, they can't respond or see it.) You get 15 blocks if you don't pay for messaging. I forget how many you get if you do pay for it.

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Tips for making a 'full' weekend comfortable?

PolyPinoyPuppy:
Update:

We had a lot of fun! We watched their favorite show and ate a ton of sushi, ramen, and Korean food through the weekend. I'm very glad they're comfortable with me playing with their belly. We ended up sleeping a ton--being comfy and full is a great recipe to end up asleep.

I hope I get the chance to feed them again someday, but for now we're both starting our healthy diets and exercise so our doctors get off our backs. They were open to the idea of doing this every once in a while--a cheat day taken to the extreme--so I'm looking forward to that possibility in the future!

That's so cute!

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What is an "evil feeder"

RobbyP:
It seems to me that any definition can only make sense when it has no inherent contradictions. For example, it wouldn't make sense for someone to say that stepping on a pebble is evil and that never stepping on a pebble is also evil.

The thing with the whole "evil feeder" shtick is that there is a range. At our core, an evil feeder is a sadist. We enjoy causing our feedees some measure of discomfort and/pain.

On the lower end, an evil feeder might force their feedee outside of their comfort zone or delight in their embarrassment or pain from overeating. And, on the high end, we have literal criminals.

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What is an "evil feeder"

Captain Cake:
I've seen the term used a few times and while I kind of understand what it means, it's also quite a general word so wanted to know what makes someone an "evil" feeder.
Is it someone who feeds not out of love, but for something else? Is it that they're selfish or just manipulative people, or is there more to it / is it something more specific than that?
And if you know or would describe yourself as an "evil feeder", what does that mean to you? I'm just very curious.

It means different things to different people. I'm a sadistic domme, so I embrace the evil feeder thing with my partner. The things I've done include:

Degradation
Forcing a partner to be a pig in public
Not allowing them to get new clothes until they destroyed their old ones with their fat
Forcing them to eat until they physically cannot take another bite
Keeping them horny all day and not letting them cum (bonus points if I cum in front of them)
Stuffing them and then making them do some kind of physical activity afterwards
Forcing them to earn their stuffing

Of course this is all done with their explicit consent (which they can revoke at any time) and lots of aftercare.

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