How to handle the wife's fattening diet while staying fit?

Munchies:
Only boiled oats and fried eggs? Sir! Where are your veggies? Your fruits? What are you doing for calcium?

You are missing huge swaths of macro and micro nutrients. You are malnourished.

Tell me you at least take a multivitamin.

Nijjrtman8:
I don't know what you are talking about I am satisfied with the one daily meal
What nutrients am I really missing? Don't oats have fibers?


First off, fiber isn't a nutrient. Your body cannot process it. It'a only purpose in your diet is to keep you regular.

Secondly, while eggs and boiled oats have nutritional value, they cannot provide you with everything you need. You will experience symptoms of nutritional deficiency if you aren't already experiencing them.

www.healthline.com/health/food-nutrition/micros-vs-macros

Check this link out to learn the basics of how this works.
2 years

I lost my best friend because of feedism. thoughts?

Freddii:
So I’ve been bestfiends with this girl for 3 years and she knew about my kink (I’m a feedee). Recently I told her that I have feelings for her and she said that it makes her uncomfortable and stopped being friends with me. What should I do now? Is she in the right? I feel awful.

Munchies:
From what you described, I don't think your kink was the issue. It seems more that you confessed to her than anything.

That being said, the fact that you said you guys were best friends implies there's much more to the story.

Freddii:
She said it is the issue

Munchies:
Ah, okay. Should have included that.

Based on the limited information you've provided, I don't think either party is in the right or the wrong. You weren't wrong in confessing and she wasn't wrong in ending the friendship. It's unfortunate, but that's often life.

All you can really do is mourn the friendship and move on. I wish you well.

Freddii:
I guess you’re right, thank you


Good luck!
2 years

I lost my best friend because of feedism. thoughts?

Freddii:
So I’ve been bestfiends with this girl for 3 years and she knew about my kink (I’m a feedee). Recently I told her that I have feelings for her and she said that it makes her uncomfortable and stopped being friends with me. What should I do now? Is she in the right? I feel awful.

Munchies:
From what you described, I don't think your kink was the issue. It seems more that you confessed to her than anything.

That being said, the fact that you said you guys were best friends implies there's much more to the story.

Freddii:
She said it is the issue


Ah, okay. Should have included that.

Based on the limited information you've provided, I don't think either party is in the right or the wrong. You weren't wrong in confessing and she wasn't wrong in ending the friendship. It's unfortunate, but that's often life.

All you can really do is mourn the friendship and move on. I wish you well.
2 years

I lost my best friend because of feedism. thoughts?

Freddii:
So I’ve been bestfiends with this girl for 3 years and she knew about my kink (I’m a feedee). Recently I told her that I have feelings for her and she said that it makes her uncomfortable and stopped being friends with me. What should I do now? Is she in the right? I feel awful.


From what you described, I don't think your kink was the issue. It seems more that you confessed to her than anything.

That being said, the fact that you said you guys were best friends implies there's much more to the story.
2 years

Cruise prep

Munchies:
Make sure you have a lot of roomy things to wear. It gives you lots of room to expand and grow.

If you want to increase your max capacity, liquid bloats are where it'a at. Calories aren't important. It's about volume. Plus, since the liquid doesn't stay in your system as long as food, you'll be hungrier more often. Be careful. Your capacity might increase significantly more than you expected.

Sl2010:
What would you recommend to do a good liquid bloat?


It can be whatever you want. Milk, juice, weight gain shake, soup. Doesn't matter. My advise is don't do a soda bloat at first. It'a very easy to do too much too soon. Also be careful with water bloats as water toxicity is a thing.
2 years

How to handle the wife's fattening diet while staying fit?

Nijjrtman8:
Munchies:
Time management has nothing to do with it.

You have two options. You can shop and cook for two different diets. If that's not feasible, you can shop for one diet and feed your wife more.

You will also need to stay on top of your fitness.

Nijjrtman8:
What might that unified diet include? I eat boiled oats and fried eggs once a day


Only boiled oats and fried eggs? Sir! Where are your veggies? Your fruits? What are you doing for calcium?

You are missing huge swaths of macro and micro nutrients. You are malnourished.

Tell me you at least take a multivitamin.
2 years

Wanting to get fat, but also wanting to get in shape

Person12670:
I also am always conflicted about getting really fat and geting back in shape. So, I mostly gain moderate amounts (is 30-70 lbs moderate?) and then lose it... then gain and lose. Lately its harder to lose and easier to gain, though.


You're in your 40s, so your metabolism is naturally slowing down. The yo-yo dieting doesn't help either. So, you'll need to make a decision before your body decides for you.
2 years

How to handle the wife's fattening diet while staying fit?

Nijjrtman8:
I would like to know how one can handle two contrasting diets if he is the person which cooks in that household?
I am not looking to get fat or any less fit at all
Sweets and junk food I go without (haven't eaten fast food once since 2021) and don't have any temptation for
I would just like to know how to manage the time necesary for the procurement of missus's giant amount of food so that I consume as least amount of time possible on that task
Only I can cook as she dosen't want to and says neither knows how to cook


Time management has nothing to do with it.

You have two options. You can shop and cook for two different diets. If that's not feasible, you can shop for one diet and feed your wife more.

You will also need to stay on top of your fitness.
2 years