I’m i still into feedism?

Morbidly A Beast:
I’m I just a fat man who likes to eat or am I feedist? I have no real desire to be fattened by anyone nor fatten anyone I think I’ve done good on my own in terms of fattening but I don’t really find it all that sexual it’s just something that is inevitable by how much I eat. I enjoy some of the stories on here and even find some people attractive on here. It’s been fun interacting with you all.


Kink doesn't have to be sexual. I do kink stuff on the time with others on the site. It's very rare that I'm aroused when I do that/

There are more aspects to feedism than getting fat or fattening others. For example, you can be a foodie (someone who loves to eat food, but isn't concerned about weight gain) or a fat appreciator (someone who likes fat people and may not care about weight gain).

There are also some people on this site who aren't feedists but enjoy the scene all the same.

You are welcome to be here no matter what you decide.
2 years

Helplessness- your take

Spoop Skerry:
Feeders, foodies, and fatties- Do you find helplessness hot? Like being unable to get up out of a low chair, or getting out of breath easily, and the resulting pity from it. I've gotten pity looks just walking by with a bulbous body.


Mm, to a degree.

My feedee is also my sub. So helplessness is sexy. But more along the lines of my feedee being completely at my mercy. Outside of play, I will tease him, but I'm not turned out.

Of course, this often leads to other things that will turn me on ~
2 years

Formatting


Munchies:
Archive of Our Own exists and it is free.

It's also a formatting wet dream.

Jiggle Junkie:
Thanks, Munchies! Just spent the last hour or so there, reading about site basics and the formatting options. Looks like almost exactly what i was requesting: assorted file format upload options, including HTML, with a lot of control over CSS.

I’d been pointed to AO3 before, but always got stuck at fandom. Fat joy/sexuality/feedism didn’t seem to fit there. But i guess like looking at the DeviantArt home page, a person has to know where to look.

Any tips on relevant AO3 tags?
Fat - Freeform seems to return a lot of results, but i found it by chance. I suspect you (Munchies) know the optimal ones, and look forward to your thoughts and suggestions for finding the sort of lit which gets posted to the other sites discussed in this thread, on AO3.


Lol, just saw this.

I personally check out the Belly Kink and Weight Gain tags. There's other fetish tags on there (including feedism) but these are the ones you are more likely to find things and stuff.

You have the ability to include and exclude stories. If you want, you can exclude all fandoms and check look at the original works. Those do tend to be much kinkier than their fandom counterparts.
2 years

Why is light mode so ugly?

Who designed this travesty? It is vile.

I normally use dark mode, so I'd forgotten how much I hate light mode on this site. But it really is ugly.

There's no contrast. White on light grey. It's harsh on the eyes. Last night, there was a site-wide glitch, so FF on desktop mode was stuck in light mode. My entire monitor lit up the dark room I was in. It was that bright.

You need to darken the grey text to black and change the header background to another color besides white. Something that will give it contrast - preferable a bold color to break things up.

For real, FF light mode reminds me of 2000s futurism where everything is monochromatic white with a sprinkling of other color values in there from the PFPs and text.
2 years

I get depressed because my partner (m45) doesn't support my interest (f36).

Etiola:
115 lbs at 5'6" ! I can't believe your mom said you were better then. In what kind of screwed up society do we live where being underweight is perceived as better than being fat? Ugh.


Yeah ... I had an abusive childhood. I wouldn't blame society on this one. When I finally started to fill out more most people were pleased or indifferent. It was literally only my mom who was insane like this.

My mom used to be a professional model as a child before later enlisting into the military at 17. She was a vegetarian and extremely underweight. The military made her gain weight so she could go forward with her service.

The magic number they made her gain to? 115 lbs. For her height of 5'9", that was enough to put her on the BMI chart. She was that underweight. However, this was never explained to her. Or maybe it was, and she wasn't paying attention? I dunno.

Time passes. She gets married and has kids. Naturally, she puts on weight - especially once she's been discharged. Still, she wants to go from 5'9" and 170 lbs to 5'9" 115 lbs. Repeated explanations by her husband, friends, and family that this isn't healthy go ignored.

I take after my mother a lot. So much so that people would mistake us for each other when I was younger. So my mom projected her insecurities on me a lot. I had the body she wanted, and she couldn't understand why I wasn't happy.

I nearly developed an eating disorder. The only reason I didn't is that I am a diet controlled diabetic. Not eating consistently is scary and dangerous for people like me. But I do have body dysmorphia. It's nowhere near as bad as it used to be.

I am largely ok now.
2 years

Nightly heavy cream shakes

Just be careful and don't overdo the oil/heavy cream. High triglycerides in the blood can cause a bevy of health issues. Also, too much fat can have a laxative effect.

If you go too hard for too long, you may not absorb things properly. This includes nutrients and medications.
2 years

Can't click my profile or dropdown

Reflection Of Perfection:
I'm in the same boat, luckily my browser has chat saved.


Mayne, I ain't even bothering with chat until this issue is resolved.

I love my retinas too much.
2 years

Can't click my profile or dropdown

Darthstuffer:
Something changed when I logged on today. Dark mode is no longer active and I can't click on my profile or the dropdown next to it in the upper right on any page. What gives?


So ... update.

I am now having all the issues OP is having.

On mobile, I still have dark mode. So there's that.

Also ... FF light mode is the ugliest thing I have ever seen. Who designed this? Why does the site look like this?
2 years

So...maybe sensitive topic....

Anjou:
But do women of color like the thicc white boys more than ever...

Hammertime44:
the exact reason i’m trying to get thicc with two c’s


So ... if you want to get thicc, more power to you. But if you want to get with a WOC, you will need a *lot* more than a big backside.
2 years

Can't click my profile or dropdown

Darthstuffer:
Something changed when I logged on today. Dark mode is no longer active and I can't click on my profile or the dropdown next to it in the upper right on any page. What gives?


Can't speak for the others, but the dropdown menu thing is a known error.
2 years