OinkOinkPiggy:
Lately I’ve had this desire to roleplay as a pig… but not with humiliation or degradation. I want to be a pampered pet piggy whose owner/farmer praises her for how much food she eats and how big she’s becoming. I can’t find anything like this online; I can only find stuff where you’re insulted and that kind of thing is not fun for me.
Please tell me this isn’t that weird!
Not weird at all.
Please check my story “Love Song of Circe”. Perhaps we could try a roleplay if something similar with the genders reversed. I could play a warlock or wizard who turns you into a pig.
Lovingly, of course.
1 year
CyanStar:
looking for someone into bouncing ideas off hanging around and alibiing out some stories wg fiction, bit more atmosphere and scope than just two characters, let me know if interested and some of your tastes?
I’d like to do this.
I enjoy role playing and talking about wg stories. I’ve written a ton of stories posted here and would love to discuss your ideas.
1 year
Some stories are not showing up on authors' profiles or in a search for stories by those authors.
Here are the two examples I've found:
bellyblubber has only one story listed, but you can find another by going to that story at "More by this author".
secret_fa has only 3 stories listed on her profile, but at least 4 more are available if you go those stories and look at "More by this author."
These stories have much fewer views than the other ones by these authors.
Can you tell me what's going on with this?
Thank you.
1 year
I think lack of appetite and nausea have definitely affected my enjoyment of this kink.
I live with a lot of pain. At times, this helps my appetite. Sometimes, an overfull belly seems the only comfort against hurting. Pain sometimes heightens my appetite. Eating particularly tasty foods seems to help the pain recede at times. It kind of disrupts the pain center in the brain by overwhelming the brain with pleasure of taste. Also, to me, having a full belly does much the same — even if my belly hurts at times from being filled too full. I’ll take that level of pain anyday.
But this winter, my pain has also caused nausea and a lack of appetite. This disrupts the pleasures I ordinarily find in this fetish. I can’t get to a joyful place of fullness or have subsequent weight gain if I don’t eat, can’t eat.
I know this isn’t the OP’s issue, but just trying to explain how this affects me.
1 year
I’ve noticed that some stories are not getting read much because they cannot be found on the author’s profile or through a story search using the author’s name.
Examples:
Bellyblubber only has one story listed but if you go to that story st the bottom it has another story by her listed.
Secret_fa has only 3 stories listed on her profile, but go to those stories and you will discover at least 4 more stories that aren’t accessible through her profile or by a story author search.
Check this out, and you will see. These authors’ inadvertently hidden stories have much fewer views because of this.
Authors, check your own profiles, and see if you find similar problems.
1 year
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Angy523:
Thank you for your advices. They're great as always, but this time I did it my way because the truth is no one here can know our relationship as good as we do. Some of the people make me look like some toxic evil GF and (even you) suggested breaking up.
But just as I said before, every relationship has its own rules.
We usually discuss everything. It's not the best idea everytime. Sometimes maybe we would have been happier if we didn't know some things, but this is us. So hidding the reasons of my sadness isn't something I can actually do without making him upset.
If one of us is sad or doesn't look ok, we discuss it immediately or sometimes later, but later as in 1-2hrs later, not days.
Abou attraction and physical attraction. Since you answered to this topic from the beginning you peobably remember that I was with him before gaining weight. So ofc I have many reasons I am attracted to him. But I think it's normal that we are attracted of our parteners in one form more than in another. And I doubt I'm the only one experiencing this. Even when you get old, ofc you should love your partener the same and you shouldn't be less attracted to them. Buuuut I doubt it will be the same physical attraction. I think it will be the same level because you'll find many reasons to be attracted to, not physic related.
Anyway, we aren't old yet. So we (both) find it normal to be as attractive as we can for each other as we can and we like. So if he likes blonde hair and I don't like being blonde, I won't be blonde just for him (it's just an example, not the case happily, he likes my hair color). Buut he likes long hair and I had some moments I wanted to cut it short. He just told me he wouldn't like that. Also he told me if it makes me happy and I really want that, I should do it. It didn't "make me happy", it was just a thing I wanted for the moment so I didn't do it since he told me he won't like it. But those kind of things are normal for us because, again, we try to tell each other everything. We don't decide for each other and we support each other if something makes one of us happy, but we stil tell our opinions even when some of them hurts. (I hesitated to tell him what I thought this time not because it could hurt, but because I was afraid it will make him keep his weight for me and I wanted to let him figure out what he wants without influencing because this is not as superficial as having short or long hair, it was about his confort)
It's the same for him wanting to lose weight now. I knew he loves eating. I knew he told me many times he likes his belly and how he looks since he gained weight. I know he's happy with a full belly. So I couldn't believe losing weight will make him happy so I was sad about it. We discuss it after all and I was right, he is happier now, but he doesn't feel confortable at work so he will los[/quote]
It sounds like you all communicate well and often. Good for you.
And you are right. No one else knows what it’s like inside your relationship like you do. We don’t know you. We need not judge you negatively.
Telling someone you are with for some time that you’re no longer attracted or are losing your physical attraction seems a sure fire way to end the relationship or at least create misery within it.
1 year
Munchies:
Being gluttonous is all about eating in excess. Whether it's eating a lot in a sitting or eating smaller meals throughout the day, it's still gluttony. I've met feedees and gainers in this community who cannot stand being overly full but are still pretty gluttonous. So being a glutton isn't the same thing as having a big appetite.
Anywho ~
I'm an ex-gainer who's always had periods of low/no appetite. It certainly slows down the gain and can be very demoralizing. However, it gives you a chance to get used to the weight and stop whenever you want. You also get to keep your clothes and other things for longer.
GrowingLoveHandles:
I think this topic is well worth exploring. I want to write a lot about this, but I need to get my thoughts together on this. There is so much emphasis on bodies, but gluttony and appetite and fullness are definitely part of the kink for me.
There are many stories here which extoll the pleasures of this kind of gluttony, over-fullness, voracious appetites, etc.
I would look to the stories by Shores. She does a lot to explain what this is about, and how it fits into kink from the feeder point of view.
I’ll try write about it from the feedee or gainer pov later.
Munchies:
Your poster child feedee (someone who loves being stuffed to gain weight) is technically several fetishes in an overcoat trying to sneak into an R-rated movie.
A feedee is, strictly speaking, someone who gets off on being fed. They may not have a fat fetish or enjoy being stuffed.
A stuffer gets off on being stuffed with food. This is similar to a bloater who gets off on being filled with liquid or an inflationist who gets off on being filled with air or liquid. They may or may not get off on being fed/filled by someone else or have a fat fetish.
A gainer gets off on getting fatter, but may not enjoy being stuffed or being fed.
A fat fetishist gets off on fat. However, not all of them want to get fatter or stuffed.
There may be more fetishes, but that's all that I can think of right now. My point, however, is that with all these things, there are numerous ways to practice feedism. And none of them are wrong.
Thanks, Munchies. You always bring clarity to these situations. I think someone who is repulsed by being full/others being full can still very much enjoy these other things.
But I think OP still wants to know what's the draw of all this, and I don't know that it's possible to describe without here experiencing it. Just as those who have none of these fetishes would be unable to understand any of this.
1 year
ForeverFFA:
I'm not a gainer, so this isn't as devastating as it might be for some people, but I was curious to hear the opinions of others like me. Does anyone else who experiences episodic or chronic conditions that result in low appetite/nausea feel that this impacts the experience of their fetish/kink?
Right now I'm going through a particularly bad spell, and even the sight of rich foods can turn my stomach. But even in general I have difficulty comprehending the gluttony-related element of this kink, because overeating seems like so much tedious work, rather than a temptation to give into!
Morbidly A Beast:
Gluttony isn’t the right word it’s voraciousness, it’s the compulsion to eat and eat a lot of food, and if you don’t have much of a appetite it might seem like a lot of work but to me it just seems like I’m eating a meal. If that makes sense. It’s not like I’m eating with an intent to stuff I am eating with an intent to get my fill.
ForeverFFA:
Fair point, and it made me realize what I wrote was a bit unclear: I wasn't saying that having a large appetite is inherently gluttonous, but that I don't get the specific appeal of gluttony as a concept. And I think it's precisely because of my own lived experience.
Morbidly A Beast:
Imagine having a hunger that persists even after a large meal or while eating. Imagine there never being quite enough.
Some people will never understand it, and that’s okay, not everyone is a glutton
ForeverFFA:
I think we're talking at cross purposes because I meant that I don't understand it in the kink way, not that I don't understand people who actually feel ravenous. Hope that clarifies?
Munchies:
Being gluttonous is all about eating in excess. Whether it's eating a lot in a sitting or eating smaller meals throughout the day, it's still gluttony. I've met feedees and gainers in this community who cannot stand being overly full but are still pretty gluttonous. So being a glutton isn't the same thing as having a big appetite.
Anywho ~
I'm an ex-gainer who's always had periods of low/no appetite. It certainly slows down the gain and can be very demoralizing. However, it gives you a chance to get used to the weight and stop whenever you want. You also get to keep your clothes and other things for longer.
I think this topic is well worth exploring. I want to write a lot about this, but I need to get my thoughts together on this. There is so much emphasis on bodies, but gluttony and appetite and fullness are definitely part of the kink for me.
There are many stories here which extoll the pleasures of this kind of gluttony, over-fullness, voracious appetites, etc.
I would look to the stories by Shores. She does a lot to explain what this is about, and how it fits into kink from the feeder point of view.
I’ll try write about it from the feedee or gainer pov later.
1 year
I messed that up somehow. I will fix it later. When I have some patience.
1 year
If your gf wants to shave her head and you know you'll find this totally unattractive, you'll try to stop her and you won't be judged for that. It's absolutely normal to try to prevent a change you know will affect your attraction to your partener as long as at the end of the day you let her decide and you don't manipulate her.
MalyPrinc:
I agree. Let them decide. Don’t manipulate.
All kinds of things are acceptable in fiction and Fantasy, but irl, your partner is not your puppet.
Some individuals don't understand that bodies of their partners are not their business. And it's not ok to try to prevent a change you know will affect your attraction to your partner.
The best partner is the one who will always support your decisions about your body. Period.
We are all going to change. We will age. We will wrinkle. We will grow fatter or skinnier. We will lose hair and then grow hair in new and unusual places. We will have scars and wounds.
There are changes you can’t control or decide. If you’re in it for the long haul, you know:
Love is more than just attraction.
And if your partner wants to experiment with changes, unless you find them so odious they make you I’ll, then give them their space.
My body. My life.
I think I heard that one somewhere.
1 year
