My old site is down, but you can find some of the stories here:web.archive.org/web/20210518112647/http://askdrfeeder.dyndns.org/

The one with the flag and a couple of others are new and on Deviantart.

Just go to Deviantart. It's free.

How about this feedist flag shirt? (From a story written by me, illustrated by CyrelleX, and posted on DeviantArt):

If this helps you decide (or doesn't!) I'd be curious to know.

That goes for anyone reading this.

Thanks.

Some have found this helpful:

fantasyfeeder.com/pics/photo

There are many factors, so I don't know what you should do.

But note: 1.) the older you get, the less anyone gives a damn about what you do; 2. middle-aged people tend to be fatter than young ones anyway.

So there will be less societal pushback than there would have been if you'd gotten fat young.

To all who object to the word "coax" above:

I see your point, but I certainly oppose forcing, tricking, pressuring, manipulating anyone into gaining weight (or losing weight, for that matter!) and did not expect "coax" to imply any of that. But fine, let's get rid of "coax". What term would you use?

For those of you whose partner was initially not interested in gaining weight and who eventually came around and started eating more and gaining:

How did you do it?


Or if you were someone initially not into gaining and was coaxed into it:

How did they do it?

Is it anyone's goal to get as fat as possible without getting too fat for bariatric surgery?

Is it it anyone's goal to get TOO fat for bariatric surgery?

Has anyone had either goal and reached it? What happened then?

Measure yourself as you gain, see where the weight is going.