Morbidly A Beast:
I think when people are being openly racist and being called out for it being let run loose is a bit different than having a very tame gentle criticism of someone.
Could you please provide more details or specify which threads or posts you're referring to? That way, I can investigate the issue further and ensure we address any concerns appropriately.
Thanks,
c00kie
FF Team
1 year
Nate Loves His BBW Wife:
Thank you for this. I have to get dinner home right now but I will read this again later and answer your questions (unless they were strictly rhetorical, but I'm not sure).
The questions were intended as rhetorical prompts to help you reflect on certain topics and potentially discuss them with your partner. However, if you believe addressing them here could lead to a more meaningful discussion and help you further, feel free to share your thoughts. Of course I don't want to intrude, as I understand some of this may be quite personal. So up to you really!
1 year
It's understandable to be concerned when your partner wants to lose weight, especially if there's a feederism aspect in your relationship, whether acknowledged by your partner or not. Your concern might not just be about the weight loss itself but about how it could change the dynamic of your relationship or affect your attraction to your partner.
It sounds very much like you care for your partner, and being in therapy talking through these issues, and working on improving your communication will definitely help with a resolution. It doesn't sound like you are with your partner for physical attraction only, and there's a lot more to your relationship, so while the worry may creep in, just remember all the things you love about her.
Do you think your partner knows that you're attracted to her size / her eating, or do you think she really does see you as a doting husband, simply bringing her snacks and such whenever requested?
Is your wife losing weight for health reasons? Or is it simply that she's not happy with her body? The choice to lose weight is obviously your partners and of course you should support her decision regardless of the reason. But knowing the reason for this seemingly sudden change will make it a lot easier for you to deal with.
How much does your partner want to lose... Going from just over 300lbs down to 260lbs which appears to be the amount of weight gained in the relationship isn't really that drastic. I actually lost around this much at a similar weight without really trying over a couple of years and I am still pretty large / larger than most people I know.
There are ways to integrate aspects of feederism into your relationship without impacting her weight loss goals. Perhaps keeping feederism within certain areas of your relationship, like in the bedroom, could provide a balanced compromise for both of you.
But don't be too hard on yourself for being freaked out by change in your relationship. Change can be scary, but I'm sure you can work it out together.
1 year
Hey,
Thanks for responding. I think you may have already spotted this, but Hiccupx has put the search tool back for now!
Happy pic searching!
c00kie
FF Team
1 year
Weetabix is so good.
Have to say I only have 2 -3 myself but always a generous spoonful of sugar on top!
1 year
