1. Been fed IRL
Kinda, just a whole can of whipped cream.
2. Ate myself to sleep
Not yet.
3. Had sex while being fed at the same time
Somewhat, if whipped cream counts.
4. Stolen food because I'm just a piggy
Nah, I’d feel bad. Lol
5. Been called a fat name in public
Yes, usually stay-puft or Michelin boy. (By my old boss lol)
6. Had a stranger pat or poke my belly
Yes, surprisingly often.
7. Been fatter than my current weight
Only by 30 pounds, oddly enough I was wearing smaller clothes then too.
8. Ripped clothes or popped a button
Yes, but intentionally
9. Broken furniture because of my weight
Folding chairs are a nightmare for me.
10. Seen an actual pig and got turned on
Nope
11. Fantasized about immobility
No, got too much to do.
12. Ate until I threw up
I feel like a bottomless pit sometimes bc no.
13. Got stuck somewhere because of my size
Momentarily bc some cars are small and I’m not
14. Posted nudes of myself online
Nope
15. Been fed online
No
16. Been told I need to lose weight by a family member
All the time but idc. Lol
17. Had a partner who worshiped my fat
I wouldn’t say worship but I’ve been told I was cuter fatter.
18. Started rubbing my belly in public
Nope
19. Been called a pig
Yes
20. Been weighed and measured by my partner
No
21. Been in a gaining competition with another gainer
Also no. Don’t know any. Lol
1 year
Sesame chicken w rice and veggies (multi-serving order not just combo), two egg rolls, and 6 crab rangoons, and a big helping of Dr Pepper. Lol
1 year
Even all the way up to 280ish I could bend over or forward with ease but now that I’m 330 I’m having to fight my gut to lean forward to get things done at work. And he puts up a pretty good fight lmao
1 year
I always wanna go and just gorge myself at a buffet but I don’t wanna go by myself. And I know my girlfriend isn’t into my kink and would know what I’m up to and I wouldn’t want to make her uncomfortable. Maybe one of these days I’ll get the courage to go by myself.
2 years
24 at 325 pounds. My smallest 4 years ago was 228
2 years
Fitting in places at work as an auto accessories installer. Not only am I fat but I’m also very broad shouldered and big legged so fitting in tight spaces under trucks or in the floors of cars is definitely a challenge. But definitely a fun one. Lol
2 years
I bent tf out of a chair at a rehearsal once. Guy who owned said chair said I was built like a linebacker. Lol
2 years
Bubbingscrubbles:
I was having a conversation with my girlfriend last night about our kinks. I happily participate and indulge her in her kinks regardless of whether I’m into them or not. However, when it comes to feeding/inflating me, she won’t even get near the idea. I really don’t mind but she even mentioned me going outside the relationship and seeking out other women to participate in my kinks with, and I think that’s what bothers me. It feels a little one sided and a tad unfair. Obviously I don’t EXPECT her to do anything she doesn’t wanna, but still. I dunno if I’m thinking too much into it or what. Anybody else dealt with this?
Munchies:
So, she's open to opening up your relationship, but you'd rather stay monogamous. I respect it.
I'm curious. Why is she completely disinterested in your fetishes? Was there any negotiating at all about how deep she'd explore it? Or was she completely disinterested?
Bubbingscrubbles:
It’s really confusing too because when we got together I was 228 at 6’, after starving myself for a year. Now I’m about 325ish and she’s still very much if not more attracted to me? She’s not afraid to manhandle me but anything more and it’s like she’s completely against the idea. But at the same time it’s not make or break either, it’s just odd, and a little bit of a bummer because I do anything she asks for. I dunno.
Munchies:
If it's that much of an issue for you, then ask yourself if you want to continue indulging her kinks to the same degree or not.
Also, don't be afraid to look into sex therapy either.
But, if you are satisfied with the status quo, I suppose you'll have to decide whether or not you want to keep your relationship open or closed.
Oh I’m not smart enough to navigate an open relationship. Plus I don’t think I could even look at someone else in the same capacity I do with her. Might look into some therapy like you said! Just venting and looking for some advice mostly. Thank you for being wise!
2 years
FSoc:
I have a lot of empathy for you my friend. I am a feedee as well, not a feeder. I made a lot of bargains with my ex partner at the time. She wanted to experiment outside of our relationship, which made me feel a bit uncomfortable. She knew I had this kink, so she said she would play into it. The best at the time she did was put some money towards extra food. But honestly, she became less and less attracted to me, wouldn't have anything to do with my kink with foreplay or roleplay. It was like having a business partner and not a significant other.
Needless to say, it didn't end well, and they went off with the person they said was just for experimentation. I don't date non feedee or feeders anymore, personally. But I think this was my situation only. You could make your situations work potentially.
That’s such a bummer! But you’re better off and will def find everything you’re looking for!
And yeah! It’s not a make or break kink for me, it’s only the inequity that bums me out sometimes. But it’s not the end of the world or the relationship, bc she’s my homie. Lol
2 years
Bubbingscrubbles:
I was having a conversation with my girlfriend last night about our kinks. I happily participate and indulge her in her kinks regardless of whether I’m into them or not. However, when it comes to feeding/inflating me, she won’t even get near the idea. I really don’t mind but she even mentioned me going outside the relationship and seeking out other women to participate in my kinks with, and I think that’s what bothers me. It feels a little one sided and a tad unfair. Obviously I don’t EXPECT her to do anything she doesn’t wanna, but still. I dunno if I’m thinking too much into it or what. Anybody else dealt with this?
Munchies:
So, she's open to opening up your relationship, but you'd rather stay monogamous. I respect it.
I'm curious. Why is she completely disinterested in your fetishes? Was there any negotiating at all about how deep she'd explore it? Or was she completely disinterested?
It’s really confusing too because when we got together I was 228 at 6’, after starving myself for a year. Now I’m about 325ish and she’s still very much if not more attracted to me? She’s not afraid to manhandle me but anything more and it’s like she’s completely against the idea. But at the same time it’s not make or break either, it’s just odd, and a little bit of a bummer because I do anything she asks for. I dunno.
2 years
