Kitsune:
Meh, I personally think FF is toxic but I mainly stay because I know some good friends on here. I prefer Dimensions even though you unfortunately have to pay for a membership to chat in the community.

JN_TumLover56:
There are some definitely some real bad apples. But there’s also some good ones too, and I’m lucky to have met some. You’ll definitely have to use your smarts and intuition to navigate any particular community really.

Kitsune:
I agree although I just have a preference for websites that have a smaller userbase and traditional UI that isn't inspired by the current social media/Corporate Memphis style.

Just from my personal experience I have many stories to tell regarding bad memories on Fantasy Feeder. I won't deny I had bad memories on Dims too but most of them happened on here. Someday I write a DM about them to you and Arame.

Edit: I am not ashamed to admit FF's UI is bad.

Arame:
Fair enough. Also what does “UI” mean? Sorry for the ignorance 😅

Kitsune:
No worries! It stands for user interface. It refers to the visual layout of the device, software, or website.

Kitsune:
Meh, I personally think FF is toxic but I mainly stay because I know some good friends on here. I prefer Dimensions even though you unfortunately have to pay for a membership to chat in the community.

JN_TumLover56:
There are some definitely some real bad apples. But there’s also some good ones too, and I’m lucky to have met some. You’ll definitely have to use your smarts and intuition to navigate any particular community really.

Kitsune:
I agree although I just have a preference for websites that have a smaller userbase and traditional UI that isn't inspired by the current social media/Corporate Memphis style.

Just from my personal experience I have many stories to tell regarding bad memories on Fantasy Feeder. I won't deny I had bad memories on Dims too but most of them happened on here. Someday I write a DM about them to you and Arame.

Edit: I am not ashamed to admit FF's UI is bad.

Wolffeeder:
There was an asmr channel on Youtube where she would drink coke and mentos for instance, and record the noises, but I don't remember the name.

JN_TumLover56:
Wasn’t this the “Gurgle Goddess” or something like that? I might be thinking of someone else but that’s who I first think of.

Arame:
What does asmr mean?

JN_TumLover56:
ASMR means “Autonomous Sensory Meridian Response” it’s often a static-like tingling sensation to help you ease a bit to relax. Think of those Oddly Satisfying videos, but instead it’s often from sounds like whispering or some kind of soft thunking on an object or the microphone itself.

Kitsune:
Meh, I personally think FF is toxic but I mainly stay because I know some good friends on here. I prefer Dimensions even though you unfortunately have to pay for a membership to chat in the community.

Ultimateaaron12:
I’ve been having a hard time trying to gain weight I’ve always been really skinny but have never tried to actively gain until now will my metabolism slow down as I push through and keep eating or should I wait until it slows naturally?

Arame:
Your metabolism or BMR(Basal metabolic rate) is directly influenced by your lean body mass index(how much you weigh minus the body fat). The leaner you are, meaning less body fat you have, the higher your metabolism will be. To slow it down, you need to increase your body fat percentage. One pound of fat is 3,500 calories. So, to gain one pound of fat a week, you need to consume 500 calories above your TDEE (total daily energy expenditure) aka maintenance calories per day to reach 3,500 calories in a 7 day span. Because 3,500 divided by 7 is 500.

By my calculations, you being a male at 5’11, 128lbs. Your BMR should be around 1,593. Assuming that you want to live a sedentary lifestyle, then your TDEE should be around 1,911 calories per day. So, to gain, you should be consuming 2,411 calories a day. Hopefully this helps

MottiF:
That’s a great calculation

Arame:
Your metabolism or BMR(Basal metabolic rate) is directly influenced by your lean body mass index(how much you weigh minus the body fat). The leaner you are, meaning less body fat you have, the higher your metabolism will be. To slow it down, you need to increase your body fat percentage. One pound of fat is 3,500 calories. So, to gain one pound of fat a week, you need to consume 500 calories above your TDEE (total daily energy expenditure) aka maintenance calories per day to reach 3,500 calories in a 7 day span. Because 3,500 divided by 7 is 500.

By my calculations, you being a male at 5’11, 128lbs. Your BMR should be around 1,593. Assuming that you want to live a sedentary lifestyle, then your TDEE should be around 1,911 calories per day. So, to gain, you should be consuming 2,411 calories a day. Hopefully this helps

Morbidly A Beast:
Exactly! can you like write how to do the math given activity levels and what not, I was always questioning how that effected the math.

Fatten Me Up Please:
oooh whats happened here?!