Arame:
What does asmr mean?
JN_TumLover56:
ASMR means “Autonomous Sensory Meridian Response” it’s often a static-like tingling sensation to help you ease a bit to relax. Think of those Oddly Satisfying videos, but instead it’s often from sounds like whispering or some kind of soft thunking on an object or the microphone itself.
Yo homie, I STILL don’t know what you talking about Lol. But I appreciate the information. Just never heard of it 😅
3 months
What does asmr mean?
3 months
Kitsune:
Meh, I personally think FF is toxic but I mainly stay because I know some good friends on here. I prefer Dimensions even though you unfortunately have to pay for a membership to chat in the community.
Really? Why do you say that? Genuinely curious
3 months
Two things can be true at once. I’ve experienced both of what you too described.
They are relieved that I prefer bigger women. But they are still self conscious of their belly in particular and are always saying they want to lose weight. Even if they’re actions aka eating habits and lack of exercise says otherwise.
That’s literally why I’m here, cause this communities like this are about the only chance I have to find a woman that literally desires a big belly. It’s hard out here in these streets 😂😂😂
3 months
Ultimateaaron12:
I’ve been having a hard time trying to gain weight I’ve always been really skinny but have never tried to actively gain until now will my metabolism slow down as I push through and keep eating or should I wait until it slows naturally?
Arame:
Your metabolism or BMR(Basal metabolic rate) is directly influenced by your lean body mass index(how much you weigh minus the body fat). The leaner you are, meaning less body fat you have, the higher your metabolism will be. To slow it down, you need to increase your body fat percentage. One pound of fat is 3,500 calories. So, to gain one pound of fat a week, you need to consume 500 calories above your TDEE (total daily energy expenditure) aka maintenance calories per day to reach 3,500 calories in a 7 day span. Because 3,500 divided by 7 is 500.
By my calculations, you being a male at 5’11, 128lbs. Your BMR should be around 1,593. Assuming that you want to live a sedentary lifestyle, then your TDEE should be around 1,911 calories per day. So, to gain, you should be consuming 2,411 calories a day. Hopefully this helps
MottiF:
That’s a great calculation
Eh, not really. I don’t know his body fat percentage, therefore his lean body index so I had to use the Mifflin-St Jeor Formula which in my experience isn’t as accurate as the Katch-McCardle formula. So this was just an estimate and guideline. But thanks though. 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
3 months
Arame:
Your metabolism or BMR(Basal metabolic rate) is directly influenced by your lean body mass index(how much you weigh minus the body fat). The leaner you are, meaning less body fat you have, the higher your metabolism will be. To slow it down, you need to increase your body fat percentage. One pound of fat is 3,500 calories. So, to gain one pound of fat a week, you need to consume 500 calories above your TDEE (total daily energy expenditure) aka maintenance calories per day to reach 3,500 calories in a 7 day span. Because 3,500 divided by 7 is 500.
By my calculations, you being a male at 5’11, 128lbs. Your BMR should be around 1,593. Assuming that you want to live a sedentary lifestyle, then your TDEE should be around 1,911 calories per day. So, to gain, you should be consuming 2,411 calories a day. Hopefully this helps
Morbidly A Beast:
Exactly! can you like write how to do the math given activity levels and what not, I was always questioning how that effected the math.
Sure, I could! But not for you 😊
3 months
Fatten Me Up Please:
oooh whats happened here?!
🙄🙄🙄 Trust me bruh. You’re better off not getting involved
3 months
TheUltimate323:
I've seen that there are many people into feederism, some of whom like it and are turned on by fatphobia.
In my case, I'm in the process of becoming obese, but this topic repels me a bit. I'm from Spain; there aren't as many obese people here as there are in the US, so it's not as normalized. In my case, I want to be obese, have a huge body, experiment, and be seen as such, but I want to be treated with respect and I don't want to receive criticism for it.
That's the only thing that scares me about gaining weight. Like I said, I want to have a really fat body and be treated and seen as such, but I don't want to be insulted or rejected for it. I know some of you might like this, but I don't. What do you think?
Unfortunately bro, phobia is part of the game. No matter what you do haters and detractors are always gonna have something negative to say. Lizzo lost weight and everyone is STILL talking trash about her. Hell, I’m a bodybuilder and my biggest Opps are my martial arts teachers and classmates. So that lets you know that nobody is safe from criticism. So you may as well just do what you want to do 🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️
3 months
Insatiable appetite, huh?
3 months
Hmmm that’s a good question. I’ve seen plenty skinny guys with fat boyfriends. But outside of myself, I don’t thick I’ve ever actually seen a muscular guy with a fat boyfriend. I may have to do some recon and get back to you. But I’m pretty sure I’m not the only muscular guy that likes fat guys. So, again, I’m sure you’ll be fine
3 months
