Munchies:
I wish I didn't have to click the box every time I tried to type something. I also wish I could resize the window.

Hiccupx:
Thanks for your feedback.

On smart phones and tablets, it is necessary to click into the message box first to display the keyboard, before you can type. On desktops, when you send a message the cursor is automatically focused back in the message box, so you can immediately type another message. This is just the difference between the way the different devices work.

When using chat in the side bar the full screen icon doesn't work (and should probably be removed). To get true full screen mode, you'd need to use the chat on the main chat page, accessed from the left hand menu.

Hope this helps.

Bovinepawg:
I wrote a whole story on the subject in which a woman fattens, cuckolds, and feminizes her husband to the delight of her new boyfriend/bull.

It works really well as a complement to feederism if you enjoy the control, sub/dom, etc aspects of the fetish. If you like the nurturing, caring, pampering bits, probably less so for you.

I've long held an absurdly powerful fantasy for the idea of dating/being fed by a man who tells (or shows me, or introduces me to) all of the much slimmer, fitter, conventionally attractive women he's also fucking. The humiliation aspect is wildly powerful for me- 'cuckqueen' is worth a dive into if that seems like something you like.

Ultimately, though, cuckolding is kind of a dangerous fantasy to bring in to your actual bedroom. Things that seem incredibly hot in the moment can have long repercussions to your relationship that you might find actually quite awful to navigate in real life.

Exmademefat:
Been part of this before and would do it again. Definitely takes both parties being into it for it to work.

ChubbyGourmet:
I learned that the hard way — when I started eating them regularly, the change was pretty sudden and noticeable.

Just a handful here and there, and it quietly adds up.

They’re packed with good fats, protein, and fiber — real calorie-dense little bombs.

Not magic, just incredibly effective… sometimes a bit too effective.

“Anyone else gone through this? Give it a try and let me know!”

Sterlingdf:
I have found that clothing stores that carry the XLB sizing for men are the best fit for my big belly shape. Here is more info on the XB sizing.

In clothing, XLB stands for Extra-Large Big, referring to a size with extra width for a larger frame but a standard length. XLT, on the other hand, stands for Extra-Large Tall, indicating a size with extra length for a taller person.
The key difference between XLB and XLT is in their proportions.
XLB (Extra-Large Big)
Target build: Men with a larger and fuller body, such as a broader chest, thicker torso, and larger waist, but who are of average height.
Proportions: The clothing is wider across the chest and midsection than a standard extra-large (XL). The sleeves and body length, however, are cut to a typical extra-large length.
Best for: Individuals who need more room around the chest and stomach but don't need the added length that comes with "tall" sizing.

So, XB clothing is perfect for gainers like me. I have been shopping at Kohl's which carry some XB styles. If you find other XB stores, you should list them in this thread, please.

Yupyup:
you can also mention cloths you want to wear too.

Edddde:
Naked is fashion, but deemed indecent by law enforcement

Yomankev32:
Hi, thanks for taking the time to respond. By no means did I mean anything derogatory toward anyone in this community, and I apologize if that’s how I came across.

I appreciate your explanations. I meant to say:

I am looking for those that are interested in not just gaining but also those that enjoy leading a fit and active lifestyle whose values strongly mirror my own. For me it’s not just about finding someone with this fetish. It’s about finding someone who enjoys a wide variety of other hobbies and interests, and will occasionally enjoy some of the fun that comes with enjoying good food and slight weight gain and teasing.

I understand there are many types of people on this site who have varying interests in this fetish. I guess I just wanted to see if there were others that shared a similar view. And eventually find a woman, either on here or somewhere in person that shares a similar mindset.

But my mind is completely open to learning more about others on here and the different aspects of this fetish. Because quite frankly I’ve kept myself in the dark for so long and have just lurked from afar lol.

Just seeing if there’s anyone like me who has hidden this interest from the world and is wanting to meet someone who understands what that’s like and wants to get to know each other

C00kie:
It sounds like you’re in a really emotionally fulfilling relationship, and I think it’s awesome that you respect your partner’s boundaries when it comes to your feedism fantasies. Sex isn’t everything and there are plenty of successful relationships where sex is not a big focus or part of a relationship at all!

About the mutual gaining fantasy... Does it have to be made real? Maybe it could be explored through role play, fantasy, or even small ways your partner supports you indulging a bit with gaining or overeating sometimes? Little gestures could be enough to make this fantasy fulfilling without pushing anyone’s boundaries.

I’ve also been in situations with past partners where I tried things that weren’t really my cup of tea... but I was happy to compromise for their enjoyment, so maybe a chat about it is the best way forward. Just be honest and open and you can't really go wrong.

I’ll also say that for some people sex and kink are a really important part of a relationship, and without that physical desire and engagement they just won’t feel fulfilled. For those folks, it could potentially mean the end of a relationship like hiccupx says. But not everyone is the same and it really depends on how you feel and how your partner feels.

Hope this is somewhat helpful!

MlekoWTubce:
Sorry for going silent, the relationship has ended. I will definetely go to therapist. Many great points was made here thanks again for your input. Take care everybody

Enas:
Im happy to hear that! This is the best ending it could have.

Going forward, try to make good friends. Try to learn as much as you can about narcissism in order to filter those out of potential friendships. I think you really need some true friends in your life.

I Am Uo:
Enas..... Why are you so obsessed with narcissists,

Enas:
Im not sure what exactly you mean by "obsessed", so i will interpret it as "very interested at".

The short answer is, because they are the single most harmful group of people. A good, although partial, long answer would be the video i linked in my first reply here.

MlekoWTubce:
Sorry for going silent, the relationship has ended. I will definetely go to therapist. Many great points was made here thanks again for your input. Take care everybody