GetInMyBelly:
Hey all, new member here. Really glad I found this community. I’ve always loved stuffing myself with copious amount of meat, but I find it especially satisfying when I can eat all or most of the animal in one sitting or over the course of the day. It just feels so gluttonous walking around with a whole animal in my belly.
I eat 1 (sometimes 2) Costco rotisserie Chickens per week and will have whole lobster and fish a few times per month. Always delicious and satisfying, but would like to expand my appetite

I’ve found a place I can get a whole suckling pig (expensive but totally worth it imo). The other thing I was thinking was a whole octopus. I’ve had octopus before, but never a whole one to myself. Is there places that sell whole octopus to eat?

Also, looking for any other recommendations, just has to be somewhat practical to obtain.

Dreezy:
For reference I’m 5’6 185lbs right now……so gaining 20lbs would put me at 205lbs…….

This is uncharted territory for me so that’s why I’m askin haha

Munchies:
Yes. Why do you ask?

Dreezy:
Ehh, well…..I’m visiting family this Christmas……and wondering if I’ll be able to hide it or not lol….

Munchies:
Why do you want to hide your gains?

Dreezy:
Honestly, because I’ve never been really fat before…….not sure if I want to deal with the reactions just yet…….also, I’m seeing them in May again and plane by then is to have hopefully gained about 50lbs by then and in a sense would rather deal with it then…..idunno…..

Dreezy:
For reference I’m 5’6 185lbs right now……so gaining 20lbs would put me at 205lbs…….

This is uncharted territory for me so that’s why I’m askin haha

Munchies:
Yes. Why do you ask?

Dreezy:
Ehh, well…..I’m visiting family this Christmas……and wondering if I’ll be able to hide it or not lol….

Dreezy:
For reference I’m 5’6 185lbs right now……so gaining 20lbs would put me at 205lbs…….

This is uncharted territory for me so that’s why I’m askin haha

Dreezy:
Is this possible? If so would it be difficult to do? I’m currently 190lbs and would like to be about 220lbs by the end of the year.

Would appreciate info! Especially from experienced gainers!

Thanks!


Munchies:
Is it possible? Yes. Is it easy to achieve? It depends.

For context, you'd have to gain 10 lbs a month or 2.5 lbs a week. While that is something you can do, the tricky part is consistent gains. It's easy for some, but hard for others.

Manage your expectations, but feel free to push yourself. Have fun and stay safe!

Dreezy:
Geez, sound challenging…..honestly not really sure what managing my expectations looks like haha. I’m pretty new at this…….what would be a realistic goal?

Jakub197:
Can feederism make me feel less fat than I actually am?

Dreezy:
Is this possible? If so would it be difficult to do? I’m currently 190lbs and would like to be about 220lbs by the end of the year.

Would appreciate info! Especially from experienced gainers!

Thanks!

MlekoWTubce:
Thanks for response.
Tbh no, i ve never talked with therapist in my life. This problem is purely sexual and i think im too embarassed to talk abt it now with therapist

MlekoWTubce:
Hi everyone, I’m really struggling and hoping to get advice from people who might understand. I’m a 24M feeder in a 7-year relationship with my partner 24F. I love her deeply – she’s beautiful, we connect emotionally, and she means the world to me. I’ve never cheated on her and never would; I’m fully committed to her and our relationship. But my feederism fetish is causing serious problems, and I feel completely lost. My partner used to have some extra weight – not morbidly obese, just overweight – and I found her body incredibly attractive. Sex was great (we both came every time)

A while ago, she started losing weight for health and personal reasons, going from overweight to a slimmer figure. I respect her choice completely, as I want her to be healthy and happy. However, her smaller body doesn’t align with my preferences, and I struggle to stay aroused during intimacy. This isn’t about her as a person. She’s still gorgeous, with a beautiful face, and I’m as in love with her as ever. But my fetish is very specific to fuller shapes, and I can’t seem to get past the changes in her body. It’s affecting our sex life, and I’m worried it’s pulling us apart.

We’ve tried talking about it, but it went badly. She got very upset, called my fetish “disgusting,” and said I’m “sick” for wanting her to be bigger. She also mentioned that other guys find her attractive, which really hurt. Her reaction left me feeling guilty and ashamed, but I still can’t change how i feel.

I’m not interested in an open relationship, and I’d never pressure her to gain weight – I respect her autonomy and want her to feel good about herself. But I’m scared that if she keeps losing weight, I’ll never feel sexually satisfied again, and I don’t want to lose her because she’s so important to me.

Has anyone else been in a similar situation? How did you handle a partner’s weight loss when it clashed with your feederism fetish? Were you able to find a compromise, or did it lead to a breakup? Any tips on how to talk to her without hurting her further? I’m desperate to make this work, but I feel stuck.Thanks for reading – I’d really appreciate any thoughts, experiences, or advice from others who’ve been through this.

TL;DR: 24M feeder in a 7-year relationship with 24F partner. Love her deeply, but her weight loss for health reasons clashes with my preferences, affecting our sex life. She reacted negatively when I tried discussing it, leaving me feeling guilty. I respect her autonomy and don’t want an open relationship, but I’m struggling with arousal and fear losing her. Seeking advice on handling this, possibly through therapy or compromise, without hurting her further.

PuppySoleil:
Somewhat of my first time posting and I’m not exactly sure if this is the correct area to put this.
I’ve been wondering if my fellow feedees/gainers actually eat straight butter to gain weight and if they are, how much? I’m plateauing with my weight and I’m trying to figure out easy and quick ways to help.