Unsure?

The way you have spoken about your wife and her misgivings doesn't show any empathy for her feelings. Rather than talk about her fears or nervousness in depth, you belittle them by calling it "cold feet." Rather than talk about what, if anything, she finds exciting or enjoyable about being fat and how to manage that against the risks of being so large, you try to make your feelings hers by saying you think she'd enjoy being 500, despite apparently being nervous at 450.

I think like it or not she will love being 500.


Be honest. Do you really believe this? What would you do if she said, outright, that she wants to lose weight--for *any* reason?
2 years

I need advice on a story!

Enas:
For some context: Im writing a story, set in an ancient / fantasy / utopian theme about an Amazonian warrior woman who finds a poor guy, and she feels sorry for him. She brings him under her roof and cares for him. Eventually they get to love each other, learn about their fantasies and then it gets very sexual!

So, my problem is that i want the woman to be simultaneously very dominant and very tender and caring for him! In other words i want her to dominate him, fattening him up to an extreme, but somehow, while remaining extremely dominant over him, she does care for him!
In other words, she genuinely is above him, but she also genuinely cares for him! Idk how else to describe it! I guess if im not clear here I could elaborate some more in the comments!

Anyways, are there any ideas you might have on how to make that woman's personality so that she does what i described?


One bit of nuance that's missing from your description is the man's personality and submissiveness. Is he anxious about gaining weight? Does he resist her insistence on fattening him? If so, is it out of a sense of propriety or because he doesn't want to be at her mercy? If not, is it because he feels liberated by having her take control, or does he simply not mind being doted on while he focuses on what is important to him?

It's hard to answer your question without also considering the man, as the relationship and interplay between the two is critical to the story.
2 years

Frustrated that i can't pack myself with everything i ordered for my meal

J8o8h8n:
I ate almost 3000 calories for breakfast and I've gotten about half of the 3500+ calories for lunch down (stomach is uncomfortably full though). I'm definitely a bit frustrated that I can't finish one of the orders of fries, a couple of the nuggets, and half the Double Quarter pounder with cheese. I figure I can give myself a bit of a break before trying to stuff the rest of it all in. How long does it take to increase capacity and hunger response through constantly stuffing yourself to the limit at every meal?

Munchies:
Just as you cannot expect to achieve a full split when your are starting with average flexibility, the same can be said of stomach capacity. If you push yourself too hard too fast, you're just going to puke.

Be patient with yourself. It's best to do it methodically over time.

Tell me. What is your current method to increase your capacity?

J8o8h8n:
I don't really have one to be honest. I just try to get a decent amount of high calorie food that I think I can eat in one sitting if I push myself a bit and just do that. (I think part of my problem today was only waiting 3 hours between massive meals to stuff myself again).

Munchies:
Speaking as a gainer turned feeder who is into extreme weight gain and has fattened up multiple people, you are doing too much.

An all day max capacity stuffing is always fun, but only after you trained your body to handle being that full. If you haven't you are setting yourself up for failure.

Tell me. What does a normal day of eating look like to you?

J8o8h8n:
Nothing too crazy, just normal sized meals with some snacks in between them.

Munchies:
Honestly, it would be best to increase the portion size of your meals, but not too drastically. Have another helping or two. Maybe increase your snacks. Get used to feeling comfortably stuffed after you eat. If you want to push yourself, eat a little bit more, but nothing too crazy.

Also, don't focus on heavy meals. You'll struggle to digest and find yourself eating less than you planned. Instead, eat a good mix of things. Since you are focusing on your capacity, don't focus too much on calories. I promise the weight will come.

J8o8h8n:
You make valid points. Honestly, the breakfast that I ate was really filling and satisfying, once I tried to stuff myself with an even bigger lunch right afterwards, it was too much and made me feel sick and I wasn't really able to eat it all or anything else for a while afterwards.

Honestly, if I decide to go all in on gaining, I might look into starting my day with that breakfast, and then just eating as I normally would, just with slowly trying to increase the portions. Starting my day with a baseline of 3000 calories and a nice, filling, but not uncomfortably so, breakfast would likely cause my weight to increase substantially if I could keep it up consistently. Two sausage egg and cheese McGriddles, a Cinnamon Roll, a Large Mocha Frappe, and a Large Burger King Hashbrown isn't a ton of food, but it packs a ton of calories.

Munchies:
You could do it that way. However, I find that ending the day with a large meal is a good way to wake up hungry.

I do caution against eating a large meal and then immediately going to bed as this can lead to heartburn-related issues. Personally, I recommend waiting an hour or two before sleeping so your stomach can settle and digest. Maybe sleeping propped up with pillows if possible.


Conversely, eating a large breakfast is a great way to suppress your appetite for the rest of the day; this is a well-tested phenomenon that's the basis for a lot of effective weight-loss plans.

I'm not sure if it would prevent you from eating more if you *wanted,* but it does stop cravings, and it's worth a shot to try different eating patterns, each over a week, and track your intake with each one.
2 years

Lucid dreaming and feedism

For those who want some of that good peer-reviewed stuff:

core.ac.uk/download/pdf/33067348.pdf


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TL;DR:

Is it real? Yes. Can it be induced? Lots of exploratory research says so. Are the methods and the articles that study them reliable? Perhaps not. From the discussion in the above article, which is the most oft-cited article I could find on the topic:

None of the reviewed studies can be considered as having a good methodological quality and the majority of the studies were rather methodologically poor.


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That isn't to say no one can lucid dream, or that induction won't work for you. There are many anecdotes of people having success using various methods; there are subreddits dedicated to lucid dreaming if you want to check those out.

I am curious to know if anyone on here has had experiences with lucid dreaming in general as well. Certainly it would be fun to play out our fantasies to their fullest extent.
2 years

Do girls want to see dick pics in bio

Food for thought:

www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/00224499.2019.1639036

We determined that the most frequently reported motivational category for sending genital images was a transactional mindset (i.e., motivated by hopes of receiving images in return), while the most commonly desired reaction from recipients was that of sexual excitement. Further, we determined that men who reported having sent unsolicited dick pics demonstrated higher levels of narcissism and endorsed greater ambivalent and hostile sexism than their non-sending counterparts.
2 years

Adult nursing…

Cmffa:
What about everyone else? Do other women find this a huge turn on and want to do the same? How do the guys feel about it?

LoraDayton:
I have no desire to nurse/feed anyone but I've always had an interest in having a dom feeder require me to lactate. I have a big thing for diet control and I think that's part of it - the supplements and work etc to get the production going (I've never been pregnant nor breastfed). and maybe a bit of a hucow thing? Not sure, but the thought has always been a bit thrilling in the back of my mind.

CrowsEye:
This is a very interesting angle on this topic, and not one I'd considered before! Thank you for the food for thought


Generally the idea of being given control of someone else's body to sculpt them to my desires is attractive, and the semi-extreme lengths you have to go to to induce lactation is a great expression of that. Circumventing natural processes like pregnancy while inducing lactation is the peak of "disordered desire," and maybe the side of me that was repressed by Catholic doctrine is thrilled by that.
2 years

Is it normal to feel really tired after stuffing yourself silly?

J8o8h8n:
Between eating my entire 3000 calorie breakfast and about 2500 calories of what is supposed to be my 3500 calorie lunch, I'm feeling pretty tired. Is this a normal feeling when you push yourself past feeling full? Gonna see if I can finish the rest of the meal off later today and, if it's not too much, I might do another smallish (1000 calorie or so) McDonald's meal tonight too. I feel like stuffing with 7500 calories in a day is a good start to a potential gaining journey (or at least a test gain lol).


Also keep an eye out for sugar crashes:

The alleged mechanism for the feeling of a crash is correlated with an abnormally rapid rise in blood glucose after eating. This normally leads to insulin secretion (known as an insulin spike), which in turn initiates rapid glucose uptake by tissues, either storing it as glycogen or fat, or using it for energy production. The consequent fall in blood glucose is indicated as the reason for the "sugar crash".[4] Another cause might be hysteresis effect of insulin action, i.e., the effect of insulin is still prominent even if both plasma glucose and insulin levels were already low, causing a plasma glucose level eventually much lower than the baseline level.[5]

Sugar crashes are not to be confused with the after-effects of consuming large amounts of protein, which produces fatigue akin to a sugar crash, but are instead the result of the body prioritising the digestion of ingested food.[6]


en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reactive_hypoglycemia
2 years

Binge eating tips

Lockel:
I’m going to be going on a binge this weekend with a feeder. I plan on picking up food from all the local fast food places around me, McDonalds, Burger King, Wendy’s, etc. This’ll be the first time for me eating so much in one sitting.

Do any gainers have any tips to increase my appetite so I can finish all of it? I was thinking about smoking or taking an appetite stimulant before hand to help me stuff myself.

Any other tips I should know? Worst case scenario is that I can’t finish it all and convince my feeder to eat for some mutual gains. 😉


Look into foods/spices known to aid digestion. If you like candied ginger, buy a bag or jar to snack on and cleanse the palette. Ginger has been shown to hasten stomach emptying.

Prepare for heartburn if you're going to be eating all that greasy food.
2 years

What's some of your most unhinged fantasies?

Gluttony Incarnate:
I want my gf to breast feed me - but we don't tell anyone.

As long as we're together, I can always eat.

We could sneak off from social events to snack.

It'd be awesome.

PolyPinoyPuppy:
Induced lactation in a partner is a fascination of mine as well. Of course, I never plan to have kids, so it will raise eyebrows if my a partner of mine were to start leaking in public...

How delightfully shameful that would be.

SinWithAGrin:
Taking it even further because its my biggest weakness. Feedee gf discovers her feeder side and induces herself so she can fatten me up as well. It works very well, and when she tells me that she did it to fatten me on purpose I'm too hooked to give it up

DollGirl:
Of course milk production also burns calories. You'd be blowing up while she slims down


Sounds like an opportunity to feed her more, then!

Unfortunately, it seems there's a correlation between poor prolactin response (read: less production) and obesity, so maybe you can only have so much cake while eating it. (EDIT: That might just be for starting lactation; I haven't found studies yet on milk volume and BM.)
2 years

I'm just wondering who is your favorite overwatch character who you want to see fat?

Gotta go with Mei, probably because I mained her when I played years ago. She always seemed a little thick under those layers, and I've seen lots of great art with her chowing down on ice cream, which seems perfect for her character.
2 years
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