Food for thought:
www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/00224499.2019.1639036We determined that the most frequently reported motivational category for sending genital images was a transactional mindset (i.e., motivated by hopes of receiving images in return), while the most commonly desired reaction from recipients was that of sexual excitement. Further, we determined that men who reported having sent unsolicited dick pics demonstrated higher levels of narcissism and endorsed greater ambivalent and hostile sexism than their non-sending counterparts.
2 years
Cmffa:
What about everyone else? Do other women find this a huge turn on and want to do the same? How do the guys feel about it?
LoraDayton:
I have no desire to nurse/feed anyone but I've always had an interest in having a dom feeder require me to lactate. I have a big thing for diet control and I think that's part of it - the supplements and work etc to get the production going (I've never been pregnant nor breastfed). and maybe a bit of a hucow thing? Not sure, but the thought has always been a bit thrilling in the back of my mind.
CrowsEye:
This is a very interesting angle on this topic, and not one I'd considered before! Thank you for the food for thought
Generally the idea of being given control of someone else's body to sculpt them to my desires is attractive, and the semi-extreme lengths you have to go to to induce lactation is a great expression of that. Circumventing natural processes like pregnancy while inducing lactation is the peak of "disordered desire," and maybe the side of me that was repressed by Catholic doctrine is thrilled by that.
2 years
J8o8h8n:
Between eating my entire 3000 calorie breakfast and about 2500 calories of what is supposed to be my 3500 calorie lunch, I'm feeling pretty tired. Is this a normal feeling when you push yourself past feeling full? Gonna see if I can finish the rest of the meal off later today and, if it's not too much, I might do another smallish (1000 calorie or so) McDonald's meal tonight too. I feel like stuffing with 7500 calories in a day is a good start to a potential gaining journey (or at least a test gain lol).
Also keep an eye out for sugar crashes:
The alleged mechanism for the feeling of a crash is correlated with an abnormally rapid rise in blood glucose after eating. This normally leads to insulin secretion (known as an insulin spike), which in turn initiates rapid glucose uptake by tissues, either storing it as glycogen or fat, or using it for energy production. The consequent fall in blood glucose is indicated as the reason for the "sugar crash".[4] Another cause might be hysteresis effect of insulin action, i.e., the effect of insulin is still prominent even if both plasma glucose and insulin levels were already low, causing a plasma glucose level eventually much lower than the baseline level.[5]
Sugar crashes are not to be confused with the after-effects of consuming large amounts of protein, which produces fatigue akin to a sugar crash, but are instead the result of the body prioritising the digestion of ingested food.[6]
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reactive_hypoglycemia
2 years
Lockel:
I’m going to be going on a binge this weekend with a feeder. I plan on picking up food from all the local fast food places around me, McDonalds, Burger King, Wendy’s, etc. This’ll be the first time for me eating so much in one sitting.
Do any gainers have any tips to increase my appetite so I can finish all of it? I was thinking about smoking or taking an appetite stimulant before hand to help me stuff myself.
Any other tips I should know? Worst case scenario is that I can’t finish it all and convince my feeder to eat for some mutual gains. 😉
Look into foods/spices known to aid digestion. If you like candied ginger, buy a bag or jar to snack on and cleanse the palette. Ginger has been shown to hasten stomach emptying.
Prepare for heartburn if you're going to be eating all that greasy food.
2 years
Gluttony Incarnate:
I want my gf to breast feed me - but we don't tell anyone.
As long as we're together, I can always eat.
We could sneak off from social events to snack.
It'd be awesome.
PolyPinoyPuppy:
Induced lactation in a partner is a fascination of mine as well. Of course, I never plan to have kids, so it will raise eyebrows if my a partner of mine were to start leaking in public...
How delightfully shameful that would be.
SinWithAGrin:
Taking it even further because its my biggest weakness. Feedee gf discovers her feeder side and induces herself so she can fatten me up as well. It works very well, and when she tells me that she did it to fatten me on purpose I'm too hooked to give it up
DollGirl:
Of course milk production also burns calories. You'd be blowing up while she slims down
Sounds like an opportunity to feed her more, then!
Unfortunately, it seems there's a correlation between poor prolactin response (read: less production) and obesity, so maybe you can only have so much cake while eating it. (EDIT: That might just be for starting lactation; I haven't found studies yet on milk volume and BM.)
2 years
Gotta go with Mei, probably because I mained her when I played years ago. She always seemed a little thick under those layers, and I've seen lots of great art with her chowing down on ice cream, which seems perfect for her character.
2 years
If you already talk about the kinds of things that turn each other on--be it sexy celebrities, NSFW Twitter accounts, or each others' kinks besides feederism--then all that's left really is to talk about feederism itself.
The way I approached it with my new partner was to let them know I had a kink I was embarrassed and anxious to talk about. I also told them that I didn't expect them to indulge my kink at all, and that there were already so many other reasons I was into them that it wouldn't matter if they couldn't participate in it.
It seems you feel similarly, so I'd suggest communicating those feelings to her as you have to us.
Remember that as weird as you think you are, it's possible your girlfriend thinks she's weird in her own ways too. And if any of the weirdness you each have is already out in the open and you both accept or even cherish each other for it, then one more kink isn't going to ruin your dynamic, especially if you're respectful and earnest about it.
Good luck!
2 years
Disclaimer up front: I'm inexperienced in in-person relationships, and your relationship might be different, having developed for two years. I'm mostly giving this advice as a way to process my own meager experience so that I can act on my own advice in the future.
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I'm currently going through something similar to you. I am a feeder in a relationship with someone who is trying to lose weight and isn't a feedee.
It took a lot of courage and build-up to disclose feederism to them. However, this was accelerated by the fact that we spoke quite a lot about their kinks. During that conversation, I told them I had a kink I was uncomfortable talking about early into the relationship, but invited them to guess and talk about kinks in general.
That conversation told me a lot about how open, accepting, and non-judgmental they were, and a couple weeks later I told them about my kink. Since then, I try to remember their non-judgemental attitude every time I feel self-conscious about talking feederism.
Additionally, I make sure to stress how much I value the goals they have which are contrary to my kink, as well as to insist that they tell me of any boundaries, reservations, or anxieties my interest causes.
All that done, I finally feel mostly comfortable just asking them when there's something I would enjoy. A lot of that comes from this being early in our relationship, as we're learning a lot about each other anyway.
If you already talk about sex regularly--right after sex is a great time for this, I would think--talk about what you enjoyed and what you would enjoy more of, escalating bit by bit. Of course, do the same for her; note what she seemed to react to most, ask how you can make it better.
Like others in this thread, I'm fortunate enough to have found someone who's accepting of my weirdness, and I hope that the same is true of you.
2 years
DollyXXDimples:
Try unplugging it, then plugging it back in.
Boomerang:
What do you mean with that?
They are being funny. It is a joke based on a tech support solution so common as to become cliche.
2 years
Oh for sure, but there's a very very thin line between accidents and intent, once you're aware of those hidden effects.
2 years
