Ditzy:
Any social network is like that so don't get discouraged.
The main thing is don't take it so personally its the internet after all.
Now don't take this personally as a put down but maybe you need step back and look what image you are sending.
If you complain a lot about the site or about not finding anyone people will look at you as a person that will never be satisfied.
If they never respond well you don't want to be friends with them anyway.
You can't force people to like you.
I never came here looking to hook up with anyone just make a few friends to chat with.
No expectations really.
I have met some nice people on here and have met some in real life and dated some that were local to me.
One tip is be friendly not pushy and demanding.
Oh yes I clearly need to take a step back from this. It's weird, I know it sounds exaggerated, but I can't help it. It frustrates me so much, I thought I would only have at least 1 date. But yes I have to take a step back from that. I'm not going to go on this social network for a while. Just time to think and clear my head. Then I could go back with a healthier mind.
Otherwise I was never pushy or aggressive with the other members of Grommr. It's only there that I allow myself to express all this frustration that I have accumulated. I've always been polite and friendly to others, and honestly I don't even blame most of them. I mostly blame the circumstances, because I feel like I'm really unlucky. I've attracted Grommr members before, but it was exclusively the ones I wasn't attracted to. And I don't necessarily take this personally or as a denigration, nor as something that would have hurt my ego, but more as frustration and fed up. But anyway this way of thinking is toxic for me.
Otherwise I didn't have a lot of expectations either overall, just meeting the person and seeing by feeling how it evolved. But I was hoping to at least meet someone lol.
I'm going to have to change my mindset. In any case, thank you for this response.