My ex-wife (now deceased), was complaining to me that she outgrew her 48" waist pants, and will now need 50". She could see my sexual arousal, and got very mad. She wanted some sympathy.

Well, you asked for over L. 3XL is over L.

congratulations!!

The problem is that there are so many variations in the shape of a BBW/SSBBW. Some may carry their weight in their butt, some in the stomach, some in the chest. Also, some have very fat arms and legs, and some have thin ones. Also they can make short, average, and tall in S,M,L,XL, but when you get into 8X, they are not going to make as many variations. I know there were some supersize clothing companies who custom made things, but it was very expensive.

Wanting breasts and hips does not mean you are transgendered or want to be a woman, or anything else. It just means you like breasts and hips. And yes, that is pretty common.

Weight is a very complicated issue. It's not just calories in and calories out. Your body tries to maintain its weight. When you eat less your metabolism slows down.

Dieting slows the metabolism. This helps people from starving to death. But it makes it almost impossible to get to an original weight.

That's who you call after you ask out every person you are attracted to, and they don't want to go out. Eventually, it gets old and you stop calling.

I'm not really understanding the reactions here. If we think it is OK to have a preference for a larger figure, why is not OK to have a preference for a smaller figure? It sounds like the boyfriend did not know how fat was fat. Or maybe he just changed his mind. In any case, it would appear that the two are no longer compatible, and it is time to move on. He thinks she will change and lose weight. She thinks he should change and accept it. Thinking someone will change, is probably the biggest killer of relationships.