I agree with all of this.

But I add...

People change, and sometimes it's their exposure to new ideas ("kinks" or "fetishes" if you like) which help them to change.

Don't give up yet. He may come around.

I think you can look through the forums here and talk to plenty of folks here whose ideas regarding this fetish have changed or "matured" over the years.

Sometimes, it just takes exposure and time.

Best to you!

Zonker

This fantasy speaks to so many fetishes and fantasies that I scarcely believe we have catalogued them all here.

And I would like to add the actual notion of eating someone. This is a sexual fantasy which, I am sure, according to my "intro to psychology" college course training, has to do with oral sex and oral satisfaction -- something all of us who are into feederism obviously enjoy.

So nothing wrong with fattening up your lover and "eating" him/her. Nibble away....

Went into the makeup site someone listed above and found these pics of Kathleen Turner in "Man With Two Brains." Also, a better plot summary is under the photos, better than what I recalled above.

Here is link:

www.themakeupgallery.info/character/fat/obese/twobrains.htm

Not really feederism but two movies with interesting weight gain related to relationships:

1. Ending scenes in "Man with Two Brains" starring Kathleen Turner and Steve Martin. Steve Martin's character falls in love with a bodyless brain, then later when his bitchy lover(wife?) played by Kathleen Turner (he loves her for her beautiful body!), when she dies, he has the brain from the girl he truly loves put into Kathleen Turner's body. Turns out she was a compulsive eater, and by the time Martin's character is healed and out of the hospital (from the accident which killed his wife), Kathleen Turner has packed on many a pound. And yet, Martin does not see that because he is truly in love with the mind of the compulsive eater. Kind of sappy. Movie ends with him struggling to carry his new heavy bride over the threshhold. A nice, althought corny, fat-positive or body-positive message that love does not really depend upon anything as superficial as weight or size. Photo of Turner in her fat-face prosthetics:




2. Irreconcilable Differences starring Ryan ONeal and Shelley Long. After the divorce, Long's character submerges her emotions in food. Great scene of her eating and then later filling her grocery cart with junk food at the store before seeing her reflection in the shop window. Not fat-positive at all but still, uhm, seemed very steamy when I viewed this years ago as a teenager just figuring out my desires.

So does this mean you like this kind of thing?


Interesting....

Hey, Kentucky girl,

All you have to do is go to the Fayette Mall, take a seat in the food court, and watch the people there.

What they eat is the limit!

Zonker

(I wrote this years ago. Romance and chocolate in rhyming Haiku-style verses. Try reading it aloud!)

Kisses are quite sweet
delivered by a lover
who knows what you think.

Yet sweeter Kisses
which will plumpen your belly
come from Hershey's Inc.

Love your chocolate
and all that it delivers.
Self-righteous, be not.

Those bodies rounded
with Valentine's chocolate,
are chubby and hot.

With lover's kisses,
feast in lustful gluttony,
your desires indulge.

And from Hershey's
twenty-five calories each,
eat Kisses and bulge.

So, into the trash,
the flowers, the greeting cards,
cherubs, you may dump.

But devour Kisses
and all chocolates. Indeed,
grow pleasingly plump.

A trail of kisses (as in Hershey's), followed by a trail of kisses (as in lips).

Writing contest perhaps?

Give us a prompt or something, junepearl!

Not too creepy.

Yes.

And yes.

I think about this all the time, almost obsessively. I think once you open yourself fully to these desires -- that the pleasure centers in your brain, those that register pleasure when sexual desires and physical hunger are satisfied -- those pleasure centers of the brain form some new wiring connecting your sexual desires and your hunger or desire for food. And soon, you cannot think about eating without getting aroused. And you cannot get aroused without thinking about eating -- or actually eating!

What intriguing creatures we are!