This solution to this problem is the FAs' Holy Grail.
It's the problem I always had with larger women I met outside of the community. Women usually like it if you like their bodies, but it's not socially acceptable (in most circles) to start with that.
I always felt like I had to figure out some other, more normal way to connect with them, a kind of "cover story". Of course it's nice to find such a story anyway, as it means you have common interests, but it can be challenging to figure that out based on one encounter. I wasn't that smooth with women anyway (contrary to myth), and this additional complication made it really tough.
I think going through the community or through tinder would be a great way to go; however, there are advantages to meeting people through common friends.
Let me know if you ever solve this problem!
8 years
This case may be consensual, but stealth feeding is so messed up that I don't think we should share stealth feeding tips on here.
8 years
One feedee told me she got nagged about her weight when she began gaining, but after a certain point her friends and family gave up. I guess they didn't LIKE that she was fat (and getting fatter) but they accepted it.
Anyone else experience this?
If so:
How much did you gain before they started nagging?
How much more did you gain before they stopped?
8 years
14 would be 7000 calories...pretty good!
8 years
AskDrFeeder:Like they say in old cowboy movies: "Let's head 'em off at the pass!"
Casual Gainer:Head them off at the pass? I hate that cliche
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Yeah, but at least I used it in an unconventional way!
8 years
Casual Gainer:
I've started to also 'joke' with people about how I'm also bound to gain weight and they know I'm going to be rather sedate and eating allot of junk food (one of the things I like about having an excuse).
Like they say in old cowboy movies: "Let's head 'em off at the pass!"
8 years
Casual Gainer:
The way I'm looking at it, if I'm going to get fat anyway might as well enjoy it like I've always wanted.[/quote]
This.
8 years
Quite a few feedees/gainers have complained to me that after they got past a certain size--usually in the 300 to 400 range--their appetites are so good that it's a chore to eat enough to get full. They miss that super-stuffed feeling they used to get.
Have you experienced this?
If so, do you wish you had stopped gaining before you got to this point?
Even if it is annoying having to eat so much, are their parts of it you like? What are those?
8 years
Actually there's no ideal weight for a feeder! We like to see gains.
8 years
