Nova / dc?

Starterman:
You asking about the abbreviation? Or you asking who’s in the area?


MottiF isn't even in America. He is Israeli. I think he was just being curious.
3 months

My wife is a new feedee

31BCooter:
It took me forever to be open about feederism to my wife but she now is 100% down. However she had GI issues for over 11 years and she has very a sensitive stomach. Eating fast food or sweets cause her GI pain so I am trying to come up with a way for her to gain without her being in pain. Any advice?


Don't give her fast food and sweets if she can't eat fast food or sweets. There's a whole world of food options; she doesn't need to eat junk.

Just have her eat what she usually does but in bigger (reasonable) portions. Throw in some snacks, too.
3 months

Increasing stretch marks and belly hang

The***teen:
Just gain weight way to fast, overeat constantly, i have stretchmarks all the way from my fupa to my tits, they used to be breight red.
I also got absolutly obsessed with wanting my belly to hang more and be completely covered in stretchmarks 😍😍

David Feedee:
don't be shy fatty, show the class


Have some class. He is not your personal spank bank.
3 months

Help! my girlfriend is not a feedee. what should i do?

Dazedandveryconfused:
Elaborate


I asked you earlier what you do to please your girlfriend. You went on and on about how she indulges your kinks, but it doesn't hit right for you.

So I asked what you do for her, and you went on this tirade about how you aren't the best boyfriend and you're in therapy, and yada yada yada. I took that to mean that you don't reciprocate, you know you don't reciprocate, and you know you are in the wrong for that.

Or did I wildly misunderstand you?
3 months

Help! my girlfriend is not a feedee. what should i do?

Dazedandveryconfused:
I’m only replying to such comments because I don’t want other people going through the same thing that I’m going through to feel let down by other’s peoples negativity and keep blaming themselves. Trust me. I know I am the problem. I’ve blamed myself and hated myself for what I am many times and I know that isn’t the answer. I am a very motivated person to put in the effort to help myself grow as a person. I’m not going to start listing off everything little thing I have done and changed about myself over this relationship to make you believe I am a good person. The last thing I want to do is give up on this relationship and bring my issues into the next. I’ve made that mistake before. I want to find ways to create a healthy relationship with such a unique problem that I, and I’m sure many others, have. Of course being just grateful for what I have is part of it and yes sex is not the only thing in a relationship but to me, it is important and it’s not something I can change about myself and that’s why I want to find ways I can at least build a fulfilling sexual relationship with a girlfriend that is accepting of my kink but doesn’t fully align with it. I’m hoping someone out there has worked through this. Also, I have gone to therapy and I’m planning on going to more.


Why don't you want to do things for your girlfriend?
3 months

Is olive garden worth it these days?

Kitsune:
My birthday is coming up and I want to go out and eat on that day. Usually me and my family go to the casino buffet, but I wanted to try something different this time.

My options are Red Robin or Olive Garden. However, I haven't been to the latter in a long time. The last time I went there was back in circa 2006 or 2007. I watched one YouTube video where a couple reviewed the food and their overall opinion was negative. They even mentioned the soup tasted like Progresso.

But that was just one video and maybe the quality varies from place to place. My location does have favorable reviews. I will like to hear your guys' experiences.


My brother graduated high school last year and wanted to have dinner at Olive Garden to celebrate. I hadn't been in years, but since this wasn't about me, I went.

I want to first say the wait staff were darling. They took very good care of us, and I have no issues with them.

The food is a different story.

All of our meat (chicken and salmon) were overcooked. The food was very salty. I would not recommend. It makes me sad because the last time I went to Olive Garden before this (25 years ago) I had a great time. The food was perfectly seasoned, the portions were bigger, and the meat was ... well it was okay.
3 months

Help! my girlfriend is not a feedee. what should i do?

Munchies:
You mention all these sacrifices she is making for you. What are you doing for her?

Dazedandveryconfused:
I know I’m not the perfect boyfriend, so I don’t expect her to be my perfect girlfriend. I understand you have to compromise in relationships but sexual pleasure is very important to me in a relationship and that’s why I’m trying to find ways to strengthen my relationship with the cards I have at hand rather than try to burry a part of me that is deeply ingrained into who I am. that will only make things worse for the both of. I know I may have seemed pessimistic in my original post. This is whole struggle has just been an emotional roller coaster[/quote]

So ... you aren't doing anything for her? She's doing all the sacrifice with nothing in return?
3 months

Help! my girlfriend is not a feedee. what should i do?

Dazedandveryconfused:
I would never force her or go behind her back to make her gain weight. I’d also never want to leave her feeling like it’s because of this kink but the issue is that our relationship is struggling because of this kink. I want to be able to work with what I have. I have a great girlfriend that is willing to roleplay feederism with me. It’s also not necessarily the weight gain that’s even the issue. I like her body the way it is but it’s the fact that she doesn’t see this kink in the same way I do. I just want to be able to have the fun of feeding her and enjoying it without her gaining weight. Maybe it’s because we haven’t practiced it enough but it just feels full because it’s not her fantasy as well. I’m really looking for ways to strengthen the sexual bond with my vanilla partner because I like to believe there is hope instead of giving up for a kink. And yes therapy is on the way but I’m looking for people that may have experienced similar things


You mention all these sacrifices she is making for you. What are you doing for her?
3 months

Increasing stretch marks and belly hang

Faaaat:
Ever since I started gaining so rapidly my stomach is full of bright red stretchmarks and my belly has started to hang considerably. Somehow now I am obsessed. Weight has become secondary. All I want right now is a belly full of red stretchmarks that reach the top of the belly and more overhang. Is there any way to increase the likelihood of that? I am so desperate.

Karenjenk:
I really think that the fillings sessions that Chris did caused mine to be as extreme as they are.
As my capacity increased so did the tightness of my stomach and there was a time where He kept me filled to the point of difficulty for days and days. he liked seeing me struggle to move or groan when i was so full it hurt to move. Keeping your skin stretched tight ... over stretchedd is key.
No lotion either. You dont want dry skin per se but you dont want it so elestic that it has a chance to adjust and stretch.
AND
give your skin time to heal.


Please use lotion. Don't be out here ashy with all your skin flaking off everywhere.

If you suffer from allergies, this will make them worse - if not from the dust mites, then from the increased dust levels in your house. And to my eczema girlies, we both know she was not talking to you.

Lotion will not prevent you from getting stretch marks. Ask anyone who has been pregnant or any melanated gainers/feedists. Out here using lotion every day and still covered in stretchmarks.

It is winter. You cannot afford to be out here without lotion.
3 months

Death/dark feederism chat

Enas:
First of all, lets not forget that death feederism is not a thing, its a category of fetishes, because everyone has it different! And those fetishes share a common quality, usually puting the fetish above even your life. And it can get really weird and complex.

For example, i am a death feedee. I want to be fattened up to death, but that in itself wouldn't be enough to... bribe me into going down that path. What really turns me on are other things that can only exist if im being fattened up to death. For example, i wanna be incredibly weak (as in both physical weakness, and no self control) and absolutely dependent on a feeder woman who's on one hand really sweet (like, she constantly feeds and f*cks me, etc) but on the other hand a manipulative abuser who feeds my eating and cumming addictions in order to make it impossible for me to refuse to give consent, even as she feeds me through heart attacks. Being fed to death turns me on because its proof of how extremely weak and dependent i am to someone who plans to fatten me up to that point, thats what turns me on about it, not death!

In fact i kind of wish to find such a feeder, one to which i can consent to be handled in such a way that i loose the ability to ever retrieve my consent again. Trapped for ever with her feeding and fucking me mercilessly! O.o


And this, Bellyempire, is why feedism isn't inherently death feedism. Enas is a death feedee, and this is what gets him going. Your average feedist won't be into this.

Death feedism is a niche within a niche.
3 months