Aloicious:
Actually, after having been in this community for quite a while, capacity is absolutely an issue for most people starting out. grazing is also good advice, but it isnt as effective from what i've seen. also, yes I know things are expensive, but maybe one could find equipment second hand.. you must be incredibly bored and unfulfilled to hop on here and try to police other people's advice.

Aloicious:
yes, it all depends on the goals of the individual. no one persons advice is going to blanket statement for all. Maybe instead of correcting other people's advice, you might give a little advice of your own here. seems like you're just lingering around to tell people that they're wrong. how satisfying for you.

Razz:
I was at a "perfect" weight, I felt very good about my body because of what society says, etc. I eventually gave in to the curiosity and allowed myself 5 lbs at a time for a while, like others have said.

I noticed the effects of the "one step at a time" approach, about 20 lbs in. Your first real choice is somewhere around there. Everything until then is definitely reversible, quite easily.

When clothes that you've worn for a while start to get tight though, do you make a plan to stop overindulging and maybe get some cardio? Or.. do you buy the next size up, knowing that leaves you some room to grow?

Slippery slope, someone told me before I got fat that there was no off switch once you start to allow it. I didn't believe it at first, yet during none of my reevaluations as I've gained, do I feel like I want to lose weight at all. Funny how that works, lol

J8o8h8n:
That slippery slope aspect does have a bit of an appeal to it though lol. I've been thinking I might do another 30 day gaining challenge myself, but promise myself not to hold back at times like I did on my last one (if I'm thinking of resisting the urge to eat something fattening, I'll make sure I have into the urge and maybe eat something extra lol).

Munchies:
Well that's dumb. The reason you ended up holding back is that you made yourself sick. If you decided to do that again without holding back, you'll either end up going to the ER or having to tap out earlier than your challenge.

J8o8h8n:
Oh no, I'm not talking about when I was overdoing it to where I felt sick. I'm talking about days where I felt fine, but held back and didn't eat that much at all.

Aloicious:
because the issue is usually a matter of stomach capacity, the best way to increase your capacity, is to get yourself a blender. a good one, like a vitamix/blendtech/etc.. fill it with whatever you want, doesnt matter as long as its good enough for you to drink a lot of. fill the blender to about 90% capacity, blend it up and drink whatever it is within a half hours worth of time. do this 4 times a week. my favorite thing to blend is fairly healthy: a whole lemon, cucumber, handful of sauerkrait, raw ginger and turmeric with water and ice. tastes like a cold soup, and is very healthy, but most importantly, there's a LOT of it, and I can drink it down without any issues. if you make an easy to drink shake about 4 times a week and drink them within a half hour of making them, you will put on weight. not from the shakes, but from an increased capacity, so when you do sit down to eat, you can eat a ton. After a while, when your stomach is used to drinking and eating a ton, you can switch up the ingredients to be more calorie dense. try this, you will be pleasantly surprised

Razz:
I was at a "perfect" weight, I felt very good about my body because of what society says, etc. I eventually gave in to the curiosity and allowed myself 5 lbs at a time for a while, like others have said.

I noticed the effects of the "one step at a time" approach, about 20 lbs in. Your first real choice is somewhere around there. Everything until then is definitely reversible, quite easily.

When clothes that you've worn for a while start to get tight though, do you make a plan to stop overindulging and maybe get some cardio? Or.. do you buy the next size up, knowing that leaves you some room to grow?

Slippery slope, someone told me before I got fat that there was no off switch once you start to allow it. I didn't believe it at first, yet during none of my reevaluations as I've gained, do I feel like I want to lose weight at all. Funny how that works, lol

J8o8h8n:
That slippery slope aspect does have a bit of an appeal to it though lol. I've been thinking I might do another 30 day gaining challenge myself, but promise myself not to hold back at times like I did on my last one (if I'm thinking of resisting the urge to eat something fattening, I'll make sure I have into the urge and maybe eat something extra lol).

Aloicious:
I havent experienced any direct weight gain that i know of on estrogen. but i have experienced some change the ratio of muscle to fat. it'll definitely make you softer. And i think above all, for a gainer/feedee, thats a big part of the goal.

FatgirlNOWslim:
Oh hey, I’ll dominate the shit out of you and make you drink me until
I’m dry

Milhause:
I was taught the two things you NEVER ask a woman (should be ppl in general tho): their age and their weight.

I guess you need to be more communicative if it’s really that important but for context I’ve been with my partner for almost a decade, and I’ve never known their weight except for one time when a quirk of our schedules and car needs saw me accompanying her to a drs appointment.

Now granted, my spouse knows I’m a FA and that I find her beautiful and she still doesn’t share her weight or flaunt it. Ultimately, it’s up to your partner how comfortable they are. Personally, I don’t need to know some arbitrary number because I value her for who she is, full stop.

Have a chat with your person if it’s something you feel is important. It may not be a big deal but they also may not want to share that info. Gotta respect it either way.

Enas:
I uuuh, i agree and disagree at the same time with this way of thinking.

I understand the social context, especially for women (you *must* be bellow "x" pounds to be accepted by society, otherwise youre gross, etc) but seriously, how come and in what sense is not talking about something a form of respect? This is generaly a conclusion that is reached when the topic is making someone uncomfortable. But that on its own is a good enough reason to talk

Milhause:
I mean, we can debate about the patriarchy or respect or whatever, but the main reason I don’t ask people their age or weight is because it’s none of my business.

Enas:
Actually, would you agree with me that a better way to put it would be, it would be of no use to ask those things? Because i think leaving some space in some cases is valid. For example if you want to satisfy your curiosity. If thats the case, then the fact that its not about you is not a valid objection. (Uncomfort *would* be a valid one, for example)

Munchies:
Enas, you must have been an Olympic runner in another life. Wisdom has been chasing you, but you are much faster.

Enas:
Why do you say that? 😅


Curiosity is one of the greater motivations for seeking knowledge! Why throw it away?

geometry dash meltdown said:
I've been on estrogen for about six months now. I've gained roughly ten pounds since I last checked. Anyone else experience this?

Coned1979:
I also have weight gain and water retention. What should I do?

WarriorFeederNYC:
so it has been a while since I used FF I deleted my account and came back on because I got catfished by someone on this platform named gettingbig76 I made a Youtube video on them because they were impersonating another feedee model and I brought it to there attention but that fucked me up so much I so I was seeking another way to find feedees and I met one on Feabie. She is only doing online stuffing sessions which is annoying if I'm going to be honest. So I have already been looking elsewhere and found another one who wants to be fed in person. Overall to me half of the so-called feedees on fantasy feeder aren't feedees but scammers. They know all you can run into are feeders who will do anything to get to feed you so they prey on you as another feedee or gainer. It's hopeless I have taken some time to think about all of this for a while now and I still wanna hope that there is a feedee or gainer women in my area but chances are looking pretty slim.