Mental health and the void

Laser:
You don't "like your estimates" meaning you'll soon know, or still too far off to know? Or that if you find the cause of the depressive void, it won't help you to better deal with it/fight it?

Nyarlep:
Both? Like aaaaaa I really like the idea of being a girl on one hand but on the other that would immediately set my marriage/best freindship on fire and I’m also completely unsure of weather that is the source per say. I lack most of the telltale signs and don’t really seem to fit but on the other hand I don't really seem to lay claim to being very cis. So probably something else but I have no clue.

I don’t like the answer but it also fits like a square peg in a round hole.


Are you working with a therapist?
11 months

My ring is stuck

NoMoYoYo:
My wedding ring is very stuck right now. Its always been tight. But now its really tight. I can't get it off.

Does anybody have any suggestions on how to get it off? It needs a good wash and I should get it re-sized.

I've tried the string trick and greasing it up, but it isn't coming off.

I can still rotate it on my finger so it’s not completely stuck, but I can not get it over my knuckle.

Did you try first thing in the morning?
11 months

What does gaining mean to you ?

There’s still a huge need for physical labor, though. It’s not always a good thing that a lot of us are detached from that. Doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist.
11 months

Just asking..

Lovelyxx:
Hi, I am an average girl 131lbs 5feet 3
I really like bigger people but I don't feel like I can talk with them about my fetsish.
How should I flert with them in a way that they feel like am making fun of them and that them gaining weight will make even happier?

Enas:
Are you looking for friends, or possibly a feedee? :3


That post is 7 years old…
11 months

🎅 december story club - growing for her

In the spirit of the holidays, we have a new story for December: Growing For Her by Passing For Vanilla.

fantasyfeeder.com/stories/view

It's definitely NSFW, but dare I say it's wholesome? There's stuffings and teasing and an eating contest and plenty of exploration. And, of course, there's a Santa suit. But I think Ace and Sapphire are a sweet couple. It's a sweet story. I hope everyone enjoys and comments! Thanks, Vanilla, for volunteering!

Check out previous Story Clubs!
- November 23, A Pleasurable Hunt by Battybattybattybat
----> fantasyfeeder.com/forum/posts
- October 23, What A Long Sleep You've Had by Letters & Numbers
----> fantasyfeeder.com/forum/posts
- September 23, Isolation Bellies by FatForFun
----> fantasyfeeder.com/forum/posts
- August 23, The Thief by BCain
----> fantasyfeeder.com/forum/posts
- July 23, Saturday by Stevita
----> fantasyfeeder.com/forum/posts
June 23, Feederism 101 by Bellyempire
----> fantasyfeeder.com/forum/posts
11 months

Eating lard?

Roni2241:
Noted😂😂. Honestly I think I’ll be fine. Given the fact that it makes me reallyyyy horny i think I could do it.


I wish you all of the success and none of the furious vomiting!

I’m also vegetarian, so the idea of eating lard in general grosses me out. I’m biased.
12 months

Eating lard?

I don’t think I’d ever stop throwing up.
12 months

Why are people so angry at fat acceptance movements on the internet?

Baby Princess 23:
Hey I dont really know if this topic belongs here but I am so confused why some people on the internet, making videos or comments, on how they hate fat people.
Everything now is just "gloryfing obesity". When bigger people share what they eat in a day, the comments are full of hate just cause they ate a piece of white bread.

I would love to hava a little discussion on this and mabye you can share some thoughts on why the online culture is so strange nowadays


The internet is a megaphone for hate, and shopping.
12 months

What can ff do to make you come here more often?

BBWcreator82:
Charge a dollar for every story.

It would encourage the talented writers to write more and an better stories.

Split each dollar. Half goes for the site, half for the author. If people learned that if they are talented enough they can make some cash they might come back as well!

Sure the site is great, but people do put a lot of effort into it with writing, stories, videos and pictures and they too never ask for anything in return.

The site expects everyone to pay for stuff and it generally treats people as the product. You want to talk to more people, pay more, you want to do this and that with more people, pay more.

It's not a lot of money, sure, but it's like paying for a lottery ticket. You might get lucky but more often than not its a bust.

I would think that if you had a chance to make some money for the stuff you put into the site, you'd really want a chance to try it and I imagine lots of people would come here.

Of course there would have to be a standard of quality for the stories you paid for vs the ones that would remain free.

This could be a great help to the site and the community both.

People aren't willing to pay for the big upgrades. Maybe they'll be willing to support their favorite authors instead.

Payments could be made once a month or something like that.

But quality would be extremely important. Who ever controls that would have a heck of a lot of work to do

FF needs some kind of an edge if it is to keep on living.

This could help out.

Providing we could get people to part with their dollars.

:-D

Also, Video Chat. I've never been to a website that made you pay to view other people's cams in a chat room besides this one.

I think bringing that back would make people happy.

Also, games. We literally need something to do a reason to come back so maybe we can look into making a casual E-sport FF team for Mobas and what not across all the platforms to meet once or twice a week, that could be fun to organize.

Or make our own RPG system. I used to RP in a place called Dragonsmark. I know Role playing is popular here. Maybe some organization on that front. People would show up more if they had a character to maintain.

Community projects. Not sure for ideas on this yet but I think we need to try to include as many as we can on community wide projects..maybe a movie, or releasing another book. I know we did something like that but I don't know how it went.

Maybe themed events. Different months, different things to do.

Participation is the heart of any community and if we only come on here to go into the chat room and act like robots, it's all pretty pointless.

Also, put the shouts back on the main page like it used to be.

I don't know why they were ever hidden to their own separate page but I think that was a bad idea.

MrOverstuffed:
Literally every word you said I completely 100% agree with! This site feels difficult sometimes to remember to return to, but with everything you’re suggesting, this site would be a community hub possible! Like a version of new grounds or something. I love the idea of paying creators for the work they do as long as its quality. I personally haven’t paid a penny to the overpriced upgrades, I’m not on here enough for them to even be worth it, but if I knew creators (of games, stories, etc) would be getting that money, I’d pay a subscription or something in a heartbeat!
I also love the idea of games! So far any feedism games are porn related, but I can’t express how obsessed I am with the idea of a regular normal fun adventure filled feedism game that was just enjoyable and not arousing.
Literally anything to bring the community together would be a huge win, and you’re talking about everything that would make it all work! That’s all I’ve ever wanted for this community too


If you subscribe using the link on a premium story or pic/video the creator gets a cut. The renewal cut is total crap, though, so if you really want to support content creators, don’t let it auto renew. You can support one author you like or spread the money around month to month.
12 months

New relationship

Chinchilla:
Thank you everyone for your advices !

Well, some things happened since my last post. When I went to see him, I brought with me a bag of chouquettes. When we started eating them, my boyfriend handed me another one each time I finished one, it felt like he was feeding me and I truly enjoyed it ! Then the next day, we were eating candies and suddenly, it really surprised me a lot, he told me to open my mouth and put the candy in it !

After this, I really thought that he might have guessed what my fetish was, but of course I couldn't talk to him. But when I went home and saw the posts of everyone here, I sent him a message. I told him that it made me feel shame, but in a way I still wanted him to know because it's an important part of me, and I just didn't want to hide it to him.

So I tried to give him clues so he could guess, but he didn't find. He didn't know after all. However, playing this game made me gain some confidence and finaly I told him everything, in a way that it didn't make me feel as ashamed as I thought I would be. And... He accepted it ! His only concern is about health issues, but for the weight gain he doesn't care as long as I'm happy. He reassured me, telling me that it changed nothing to our relationship (that was one of my concerns).

I'm so happy for having told him, it's thanks to you all. Before posting here I had decided to never tell anyone. And now that he knows, I don't feel as ashamed as before, I wasn't expecting this. Now I can get fat in peace haha


That’s very nice!
12 months